I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!

And you absolutely should consider it cheating. Porn is for immature people. Teen boys.

Oh get the hell off your high horse. Nothing wrong with being interested in sex. Why are you labeling someone who looks at porn as a psycho? I think people who think like you do in this day in age are the psychos.

This is a retarded way to look at it. Just because I like to read about aliens on GLP doesnt mean I want to get probed up the ass by the Greys in Area 51. Don't be an asshole.

If he's a decent guy I wouldn't worry about it. I don't think it means anything, except that guys (and some women) like watching porn.

Now if it's poisoning his brain, say for example he starts treating you without respect and like an object, you might need to think about kicking his ass to the kerb.

You see I do fuck the brains out of him! I know for a fact that I'm not the problem...I'm afraid he's going through a mid life crisis since he is turning 30 but its such a turn off for me!

Kool! did you joined him?

how is that cheating?

Too funny reply, Goonies ROCK!!!

My girlfriend has her own folders of porn, organized by category.

Hes boned 100's of other chicks

Do any of you have daughters? Do you want her to make a living getting banged by numerous guys? If you have a problem with that then why is your daughter too good for porn? If you don't then I seriously feel sad for your children. Sex is about love and not about watching two drugged up strangers humping one another in front of a camera.

My only response to that horseshit is

Then you're an idiot. If nobody else is involved it ain't cheating. Try giving him a three-orgasm night and lighten up, toots.

Jealous =(

Thanks for your honesty..and yes after dicovering this nasty habit of his I'm also wondering why I haven't cheated on him.

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DUMP HIM !!! You should be the only thing he is interested in laying eyes on.

Oh like you never masturbate while thinking about somebody other than your boyfriend. Cheating my ass.

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I agree

Anyone who says porn is normal and healthy should have absolutely no problem with their daughter or mother doing it.

She's a fan of redheads.

And men who need to look at porn are nothing but boys. LEAVE HIS ASS!!!

I have a daughter, and I will love her no matter what she does. Sex is about sex, and when she starts having it, it's not really my business who she's doing it with or why. Raise them to love themselves and others and they will eventually find what makes them happy.

I think sex is healthy but I dont want to do it with my sister or mother. Nor do I want to think about them doing it with anyone else.

Actually it's not about sex, it's about ego's.

Men watch porn in relationships when they have a damaged ego.

You've guys been together 10 years actually since children, so it's impossible to make each other jealous every once in a while.

I told my girlfriend, women can handle damaged ego's a little better.

Men can't have an erection when their ego is damaged bad enough, while women can still physically have sex making no difference in the long run.

If you want him to stop watching porn, you're going to have to find a way to build his ego back up through communication. But trust me it's not easy since you may think you've done so and have not.

And you also must find the source to which damages his ego in the first place. The most obvious origin is TV.

You may want to do this before it actually turns into cheating which is a high probability if nothing is done.

I study human ego's and jealously in relationships. This is my territory. This a complex and deep matter to get through. Welcome to the tough times in your relationship.

this actually when SHTF in a relationship. (Guys guys have been damaging each others ego way too much)

Remember if he is watching porn, just giving him more sex won't make the issue better since he finds watching other people do so is good enough

Lighten up. It's not the end of the world. Come on now...you never thought about another sexual partner during sex?

It's natural.

Anyways ten years is a long time. If he supports you in every way possible, he still loves you.

A little bit of porn should not make you feel insecure. Could he really get those women he's looking at? Probably not.

I'm very opened minded and at first I tried not to over react but know I am left with ugly feelings of insecurities and am stating to feel jealous and honestly like I said its a total turn off to now that my b.f is a perv!! I just feel like I'm too young to be dealing with these issues.

You had me goin' there for a while!

oh well...