I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!! | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1510090 United States 09/11/2011 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Semantics User ID: 1400914 United States 09/11/2011 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. Oh get the hell off your high horse. Nothing wrong with being interested in sex. Why are you labeling someone who looks at porn as a psycho? I think people who think like you do in this day in age are the psychos. |
BeginAgain User ID: 1540781 United States 09/11/2011 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. This is a retarded way to look at it. Just because I like to read about aliens on GLP doesnt mean I want to get probed up the ass by the Greys in Area 51. Don't be an asshole. "Rocky... Road?" |
Emeline User ID: 1544413 New Zealand 09/11/2011 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If he's a decent guy I wouldn't worry about it. I don't think it means anything, except that guys (and some women) like watching porn. Now if it's poisoning his brain, say for example he starts treating you without respect and like an object, you might need to think about kicking his ass to the kerb. |
ECLIPSE (OP) User ID: 1544391 United States 09/11/2011 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | why didn't you fuk his brains out??? then tell how turned on you got watching him, watch his porn! You see I do fuck the brains out of him! I know for a fact that I'm not the problem...I'm afraid he's going through a mid life crisis since he is turning 30 but its such a turn off for me! |
Celtìbero User ID: 1542880 Spain 09/11/2011 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Kool! did you joined him? At my scriptorium: *'The Black Swan' by N.N.Taleb *'L’Etranger' by A. Camus *'Beelzebub's Tales to His Grandson' by G. I. Gurdjieff *'El Laberinto Español' by Gerald Brenan *'Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance' by Robert M. Pirsig |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1234347 United States 09/11/2011 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow. First and only? Since you were 16? I don't know how those relationships work, but I don't think there's anything wrong with porn. Just ask him to watch it with you or something. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1518650 It really bothers me! I consider that cheating. how is that cheating? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1067150 United States 09/11/2011 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. This is a retarded way to look at it. Just because I like to read about aliens on GLP doesnt mean I want to get probed up the ass by the Greys in Area 51. Don't be an asshole. Too funny reply, Goonies ROCK!!! |
Horace bubba User ID: 737762 Canada 09/11/2011 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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whoopteedoo User ID: 1543580 United States 09/11/2011 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. My only response to that horseshit is |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1235980 United States 09/11/2011 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow. First and only? Since you were 16? I don't know how those relationships work, but I don't think there's anything wrong with porn. Just ask him to watch it with you or something. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1518650 It really bothers me! I consider that cheating. Then you're an idiot. If nobody else is involved it ain't cheating. Try giving him a three-orgasm night and lighten up, toots. |
Semantics User ID: 1400914 United States 09/11/2011 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
ECLIPSE (OP) User ID: 1544391 United States 09/11/2011 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm surprised you even have sex after ten years?! No big deal. Let him have his outlet. Better to be literally cheating on you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1064657 After ten years....I'd cheat. Just being honest. Thanks for your honesty..and yes after dicovering this nasty habit of his I'm also wondering why I haven't cheated on him. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1419502 United States 09/11/2011 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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whoopteedoo User ID: 1543580 United States 09/11/2011 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow. First and only? Since you were 16? I don't know how those relationships work, but I don't think there's anything wrong with porn. Just ask him to watch it with you or something. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1518650 It really bothers me! I consider that cheating. Oh like you never masturbate while thinking about somebody other than your boyfriend. Cheating my ass. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1315838 United States 09/11/2011 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women don't understand and never will. Porn to a guy is like smoking crack or doing a line. It hits the exact same pleasure areas of the brain. It has nothing to do with you or some failure of yours in bed that you invent in your mind that has somehow driven him to porn to fulfill himself sexually. That's not what's going on. He's getting a quick, intense hit of dopamine or whatever it releases and that's about it. This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ |
ECLIPSE (OP) User ID: 1544391 United States 09/11/2011 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do any of you have daughters? Do you want her to make a living getting banged by numerous guys? If you have a problem with that then why is your daughter too good for porn? If you don't then I seriously feel sad for your children. Sex is about love and not about watching two drugged up strangers humping one another in front of a camera. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 I agree |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1315838 United States 09/11/2011 01:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. This is a retarded way to look at it. Just because I like to read about aliens on GLP doesnt mean I want to get probed up the ass by the Greys in Area 51. Don't be an asshole. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1539112 United States 09/11/2011 01:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do any of you have daughters? Do you want her to make a living getting banged by numerous guys? If you have a problem with that then why is your daughter too good for porn? If you don't then I seriously feel sad for your children. Sex is about love and not about watching two drugged up strangers humping one another in front of a camera. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 I have a daughter, and I will love her no matter what she does. Sex is about sex, and when she starts having it, it's not really my business who she's doing it with or why. Raise them to love themselves and others and they will eventually find what makes them happy. |
Semantics User ID: 1400914 United States 09/11/2011 01:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1511587 United States 09/11/2011 01:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually it's not about sex, it's about ego's. Men watch porn in relationships when they have a damaged ego. You've guys been together 10 years actually since children, so it's impossible to make each other jealous every once in a while. I told my girlfriend, women can handle damaged ego's a little better. Men can't have an erection when their ego is damaged bad enough, while women can still physically have sex making no difference in the long run. If you want him to stop watching porn, you're going to have to find a way to build his ego back up through communication. But trust me it's not easy since you may think you've done so and have not. And you also must find the source to which damages his ego in the first place. The most obvious origin is TV. You may want to do this before it actually turns into cheating which is a high probability if nothing is done. I study human ego's and jealously in relationships. This is my territory. This a complex and deep matter to get through. Welcome to the tough times in your relationship. this actually when SHTF in a relationship. (Guys guys have been damaging each others ego way too much) Remember if he is watching porn, just giving him more sex won't make the issue better since he finds watching other people do so is good enough |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1064657 United States 09/11/2011 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lighten up. It's not the end of the world. Come on now...you never thought about another sexual partner during sex? It's natural. Anyways ten years is a long time. If he supports you in every way possible, he still loves you. A little bit of porn should not make you feel insecure. Could he really get those women he's looking at? Probably not. |
ECLIPSE (OP) User ID: 1544391 United States 09/11/2011 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First, don't freak out about it. Quoting: Alex A Madison Most people do look at porn. It doesn't change who he is and certainly isn't cheating. Don't let silly thoughts like that into your head. Instead, why don't you watch some with him? It can lead to interesting things and you can learn a lot more about ow his inner mind works that way. Hidden things lead to problems. Honest open discussion rarely does. Second... You don't look at porn? Not at all? You might want to start for academic reasons just to learn what others are watching and doing. It's not good to be ignorant of what most of your own society is doing. I'm very opened minded and at first I tried not to over react but know I am left with ugly feelings of insecurities and am stating to feel jealous and honestly like I said its a total turn off to now that my b.f is a perv!! I just feel like I'm too young to be dealing with these issues. |
Deej User ID: 1534338 United States 09/11/2011 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell him to stop or you will leave him. Normal mature people don't have to look at porn to lead a healthy and happy life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510090 If he had a daughter would he want her to do porn? Most of those people are somehow screwed in the head and their something seriously wrong with people who want to watch other drugged up people who were probably sexually abused getting it on. You had me goin' there for a while! oh well... No matter what happens... just say "Thank You." - D W Fierce |