Now I get it! You are the one looking for another partner. This would be a good excuse to dump him if you wanted one for your parents who are probably like the guy who says tits are only for nursing babies and porn is cheating.

Just be honest with yourself and him. The problem is that you got together when you were 16 and you never got to experiment. Now you wish you could, but you have baggage. Why not just poison him? Better yet, have a weekly girls night out and bang some college kids till you get your fill of one night stands. After that you might find that your guy was pretty good after all and decide to marry him.

You do realize that this guy is just a boyfriend? 10 years and no ring tells me a lot about you and him. He obviously expects this to end so he is not going to give you a ring. So here is your lame excuse to kick him to the curb and look like a righteous uptight bitch, good luck with that. I am guessing your oldest child is around 10 years old?