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I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!

 
Anonymous Coward
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Let him catch you looking at some web sites of hot men with huge cocks. Just leave your PC on one day, or act really sneaky on it so he gets suspicious and then one day he will look at your history while you are not around and get a taste of his medicine.

It's wrong to do something hurtful to your bf anf gf, this would just be one way to let him know how it feels. If he thinks it's his right then leave him. Porn viewers eventually lose intimacy with their women and sex is just about getting off and not about emotional connection and expression of love.

If he doesn't want to quit then I would leave. Be single and enjoy yourself. You don't need to live with a man and his addiction to watching other naked women in action. It IS cheating. You can do better. No man is worth the pain.
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You are fucking retarded...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1521536


And you're a bitter mysoginist. I know your type.loser
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09/11/2011 11:55 AM
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Stupidest thread ever. ALL MEN look at porn on occassion or often. ALL MEN handle up on their business on occassion or often. ALL MEN. EVERY SINGLE ONE. ALL OF THEM. The president, your priest, that famous actor you mentally masturbate to, your dad, your brother, and yes, your boyfriend/spouse. ALL OF THEM.
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09/11/2011 11:56 AM
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It's probably porn that has kept him around so long. Since you where teenagers when you met, he hasn't had a chance to explore and conquer his sexuality yet. Hell Im in the same situation as you. My wife and I started dated when I was 17 and she was 15. We are now 32 and 30. If it wasn't for porn in my mid to late 20's I probably would have cheated or left her because she has the sex drive of a rock.

I would talk to him. I finally started talking to my wife about porn. We even started watching it together. She gets so horny listening to the women moan! It has spiced up our sex life alittle.
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09/11/2011 11:57 AM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
My wife wanted to know the same thing and we are 42. This is men. Deal with it. We are animals. If we have the hottest g/f on the planet and get it 24/7, we would still need to punch the clown. For anyone reading this that is female or gay, don't ever expect yourself to be enough.
A hundred women a day won't take the place of our hand which we WILL continue to use from time to time.

Instead of getting mad or jealous, get involved!

bananasexhititsideways
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09/11/2011 11:58 AM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
We've been on dial up for two years, hubby has not had any chance to look at porn and I've been very grateful. He says he has no desire to watch it once we get high speed but only time will tell. He says porn was something that got him through the day when he was sexless.

I understand men masturbate and it's normal, blah blah, but I am just of the opinion that porn is something you watch when you're single. When you're in a relationship that should go out the window. Stick with your hand and your imagination or get your woman in on it. I can assure you I will help him out anytime he needs it, even if he wants to wake me up before work or in the middle of the night. However sometimes they just want to do it alone. Let them. But no, in my opinion, porn is not okay in my relationship.

Most men will tell you it is 100% normal and you're a bitch for having a problem with it. Women and men are different creatures my friend, it is normal for you to be upset!! You want him to think about you and you alone. Of course you're bothered by him watching plastic sluts make fake noises and jump around with their fake boobs and perfect makeup. That's a normal female reaction to the porn equation.

What men don't understand (or care) is most of the time us being upset at them watching porn has everything to do with us thinking they don't find us attractive enough. No matter how untrue (or true!) that might be, it greatly upsets us.

Boys, if you're going to watch porn please do it very discreetly, make sure we are long gone and delete your history. We don't want to know about it and it hurts our feelings.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544988


are you retarded?

You show me the most beautiful woman on earth and i'll guarantee you that somewhere there is a guy who is tired of having sex with her.

Guys are just hard wired that way. We fantasize about different women. It's not an emotional thing, just lust.

If you think your man is going to be thinking about you everytime you guys have sex, then your living in a fantasy land. He might at first, but once the new wears off, he'll be thinking about other women.

It's called the "spank bank". When you see a hot babe during the day, you put that image in your spank bank and next time your rubbing one out, you pull that image out of of the bank and fantasize about it.
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09/11/2011 11:59 AM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
It's probably porn that has kept him around so long. Since you where teenagers when you met, he hasn't had a chance to explore and conquer his sexuality yet. Hell Im in the same situation as you. My wife and I started dated when I was 17 and she was 15. We are now 32 and 30. If it wasn't for porn in my mid to late 20's I probably would have cheated or left her because she has the sex drive of a rock.

I would talk to him. I finally started talking to my wife about porn. We even started watching it together. She gets so horny listening to the women moan! It has spiced up our sex life alittle.
 Quoting: Fruitful Unbeliever


^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^
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oh em gee
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I thought you were Olaf for a second.

rofl
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gee em while say olaf?
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Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.
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09/11/2011 12:00 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
Yes, You're totally overreacting! tard
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09/11/2011 12:00 PM
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tell him to stop watching porn, thats cheating on you emotionally
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544924


That means every guy that has checked out another girl at the
beach or mall is cheating.
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09/11/2011 12:01 PM
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Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.
 Quoting: Mkguyver


+10000
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09/11/2011 12:01 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
Let him catch you looking at some web sites of hot men with huge cocks. Just leave your PC on one day, or act really sneaky on it so he gets suspicious and then one day he will look at your history while you are not around and get a taste of his medicine.

It's wrong to do something hurtful to your bf anf gf, this would just be one way to let him know how it feels. If he thinks it's his right then leave him. Porn viewers eventually lose intimacy with their women and sex is just about getting off and not about emotional connection and expression of love.

If he doesn't want to quit then I would leave. Be single and enjoy yourself. You don't need to live with a man and his addiction to watching other naked women in action. It IS cheating. You can do better. No man is worth the pain.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391


You are insane, obviously.
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09/11/2011 12:03 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
No, you need to make him promise to stop or dump his ass for another guy or even another girl!
This is soo wrong to you! Don't put up with his bs!
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oh, what a bitch
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1385276


If all people were this stupid, the species would never propagate. The urge is normal, its what keeps guys horny. If we didnt have this horny urge then we would use pure logic to weigh the options of being in a relationship. We would opt out or a relationship if we used pure logic.
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Well, if it didn't involve critters or kids then it's 'normal' in the sense that he's not a complete deviant. However, over the long term internet porn, unlike a Playboy, or sneaking the Victoria's Secret catalog to wank to, it will become a problem.

It's extremely addictive and that addiction is becoming more widespread. I occasionally check out Playboy and viceversa my wife will look at Playgirl. We will on occasion rent a porn DVD.

However, my wife and I have a strict no internet porn policy in our home. And our son knows he will lose his computer for three months if he views internet porn.

I have mixed feelings about porn. I don't think it's the utter demise of Western Civilization, however, I think we were better off before internet porn. Internet porn is just too much volume and too many weird fetishes.

Even what is considered 'normal' these days. Lots of the 'teen' porn, the abusive stuff, and the gangbang sex disturbs me as a father and husband.
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09/11/2011 12:06 PM
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can't keep him entertained, can you?
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09/11/2011 12:07 PM
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That's very true, reminds me of an old saying:

"A woman marries a man to fulfill her every need and a man marries a woman to fulfill his one need"
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09/11/2011 12:07 PM
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Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.
 Quoting: Mkguyver



That's some insight into a womens mind.

Why the pressure to get married?

Who cares if gf and bf for 70 yrs..


Must get married, must get married, must get married.


programming has worked well on this one.
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09/11/2011 12:08 PM
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Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?
 Quoting: ECLIPSE


.....maybe you just don't....satisfy....him anymore?

(just asking)

oops2
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09/11/2011 12:09 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
Well, if it didn't involve critters or kids then it's 'normal' in the sense that he's not a complete deviant. However, over the long term internet porn, unlike a Playboy, or sneaking the Victoria's Secret catalog to wank to, it will become a problem.

It's extremely addictive and that addiction is becoming more widespread. I occasionally check out Playboy and viceversa my wife will look at Playgirl. We will on occasion rent a porn DVD.

However, my wife and I have a strict no internet porn policy in our home. And our son knows he will lose his computer for three months if he views internet porn.

I have mixed feelings about porn. I don't think it's the utter demise of Western Civilization, however, I think we were better off before internet porn. Internet porn is just too much volume and too many weird fetishes.

Even what is considered 'normal' these days. Lots of the 'teen' porn, the abusive stuff, and the gangbang sex disturbs me as a father and husband.
 Quoting: AmericanJedi


Who is to say what is "weird" or "normal"??

Are you qualified to do that?

You might have a kinky fetish that others find disgusting and vice versa.

Stop pushing your morality on others.
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09/11/2011 12:10 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
It took you THAT long to catch him? Darling, snookums, princess, every man (even the gay ones) look at porn these days.
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09/11/2011 12:10 PM
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Stupidest thread ever. ALL MEN look at porn on occassion or often. ALL MEN handle up on their business on occassion or often. ALL MEN. EVERY SINGLE ONE. ALL OF THEM. The president, your priest, that famous actor you mentally masturbate to, your dad, your brother, and yes, your boyfriend/spouse. ALL OF THEM.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 944253


This

Porn also keeps most men from cheating.Dont stress.
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Look, sometimes guys just need to objectify women. We don't want to objectify our lovely ladies so we stroke one out to a tart.

My girlfriend finds it hard to understand, then again she's a Christian. Still... I think she'd rather I not be trying to fuck her all the time and instead just try to be with her.

PORN ALLOWS THAT!
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09/11/2011 12:12 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
We've been on dial up for two years, hubby has not had any chance to look at porn and I've been very grateful. He says he has no desire to watch it once we get high speed but only time will tell. He says porn was something that got him through the day when he was sexless.

I understand men masturbate and it's normal, blah blah, but I am just of the opinion that porn is something you watch when you're single. When you're in a relationship that should go out the window. Stick with your hand and your imagination or get your woman in on it. I can assure you I will help him out anytime he needs it, even if he wants to wake me up before work or in the middle of the night. However sometimes they just want to do it alone. Let them. But no, in my opinion, porn is not okay in my relationship.

Most men will tell you it is 100% normal and you're a bitch for having a problem with it. Women and men are different creatures my friend, it is normal for you to be upset!! You want him to think about you and you alone. Of course you're bothered by him watching plastic sluts make fake noises and jump around with their fake boobs and perfect makeup. That's a normal female reaction to the porn equation.

What men don't understand (or care) is most of the time us being upset at them watching porn has everything to do with us thinking they don't find us attractive enough. No matter how untrue (or true!) that might be, it greatly upsets us.

Boys, if you're going to watch porn please do it very discreetly, make sure we are long gone and delete your history. We don't want to know about it and it hurts our feelings.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544988


are you retarded?

You show me the most beautiful woman on earth and i'll guarantee you that somewhere there is a guy who is tired of having sex with her.

Guys are just hard wired that way. We fantasize about different women. It's not an emotional thing, just lust.

If you think your man is going to be thinking about you everytime you guys have sex, then your living in a fantasy land. He might at first, but once the new wears off, he'll be thinking about other women.

It's called the "spank bank". When you see a hot babe during the day, you put that image in your spank bank and next time your rubbing one out, you pull that image out of of the bank and fantasize about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1476953


This also means lots of men, your friends, acquaintances, anyone who knows your wife or gf probably fantasizes about her. Thats gotta be weird for a man. My husband never talks about our sex life to his friends, he knows how men are. We all know men and women are sexual and masturbate. I do it too, the issue (again) is how you are hurting your woman with your porn habit. Either give a fuck, or let her go, but stop making excuses for your addiction. If you need to look at other women having sex because you got bored with your gf or wife then dont get into a committed relationship. It's that simple. Stop disrespecting your women.

No wonder most of you here are single, sheesh!

I have a response to porn but I choose not to view it. I like to live my life differently and I enjoy sex a lot. I also have no problems climaxing without having to sit in front of a pc watching sad souls fake it.
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09/11/2011 12:13 PM
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Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?
 Quoting: ECLIPSE


Normal yeah but sounds like you need to get into some kinky shit girl...
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
Stupidest thread ever. ALL MEN look at porn on occassion or often. ALL MEN handle up on their business on occassion or often. ALL MEN. EVERY SINGLE ONE. ALL OF THEM. The president, your priest, that famous actor you mentally masturbate to, your dad, your brother, and yes, your boyfriend/spouse. ALL OF THEM.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 944253


This

Porn also keeps most men from cheating.Dont stress.
 Quoting: ? 980749


bsflag that is so lame it;s embarrassing. You should speak for your self and not all men because you are pathetic.
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
tell him to stop watching porn, thats cheating on you emotionally
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544924


That means every guy that has checked out another girl at the
beach or mall is cheating.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1414265


God you guys are DAFT.
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09/11/2011 12:16 PM
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Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.
 Quoting: Mkguyver


+10000
 Quoting: ^àTOn^



That's some insight into a womens mind.

Why the pressure to get married?

Who cares if gf and bf for 70 yrs..


Must get married, must get married, must get married.


programming has worked well on this one.
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?
 Quoting: ECLIPSE


isn't GLP just porn for your doom?
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09/11/2011 12:17 PM
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Re: I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!
1) If you are looking for a guy who doesn't....you are going to have a long lonely life. If you ditch a guy for it....you are going to ditch every one of them.

2) I haven't met a guy who talks with other guys about the woman he is in a committed relationship with. They will talk about ex-girlfriends but not current relationships.

3) The way to stop it is to do it for him every day in some way.
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This also means lots of men, your friends, acquaintances, anyone who knows your wife or gf probably fantasizes about her. Thats gotta be weird for a man. My husband never talks about our sex life to his friends, he knows how men are. We all know men and women are sexual and masturbate. I do it too, the issue (again) is how you are hurting your woman with your porn habit. Either give a fuck, or let her go, but stop making excuses for your addiction. If you need to look at other women having sex because you got bored with your gf or wife then dont get into a committed relationship. It's that simple. Stop disrespecting your women.

No wonder most of you here are single, sheesh!

I have a response to porn but I choose not to view it. I like to live my life differently and I enjoy sex a lot. I also have no problems climaxing without having to sit in front of a pc watching sad souls fake it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391


I bet your very repressed sexually and terrible in bed. Just by how judgemental you are when it comes to something that you don't agree with sexually.

And for the record, I been married happily over 20 years.

I foresee a long and lonely road ahead of you.

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