I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!

You are fucking retarded...

We've been on dial up for two years, hubby has not had any chance to look at porn and I've been very grateful. He says he has no desire to watch it once we get high speed but only time will tell. He says porn was something that got him through the day when he was sexless.

I understand men masturbate and it's normal, blah blah, but I am just of the opinion that porn is something you watch when you're single. When you're in a relationship that should go out the window. Stick with your hand and your imagination or get your woman in on it. I can assure you I will help him out anytime he needs it, even if he wants to wake me up before work or in the middle of the night. However sometimes they just want to do it alone. Let them. But no, in my opinion, porn is not okay in my relationship.

Most men will tell you it is 100% normal and you're a bitch for having a problem with it. Women and men are different creatures my friend, it is normal for you to be upset!! You want him to think about you and you alone. Of course you're bothered by him watching plastic sluts make fake noises and jump around with their fake boobs and perfect makeup. That's a normal female reaction to the porn equation.

What men don't understand (or care) is most of the time us being upset at them watching porn has everything to do with us thinking they don't find us attractive enough. No matter how untrue (or true!) that might be, it greatly upsets us.

Boys, if you're going to watch porn please do it very discreetly, make sure we are long gone and delete your history. We don't want to know about it and it hurts our feelings.

It's probably porn that has kept him around so long. Since you where teenagers when you met, he hasn't had a chance to explore and conquer his sexuality yet. Hell Im in the same situation as you. My wife and I started dated when I was 17 and she was 15. We are now 32 and 30. If it wasn't for porn in my mid to late 20's I probably would have cheated or left her because she has the sex drive of a rock.

I would talk to him. I finally started talking to my wife about porn. We even started watching it together. She gets so horny listening to the women moan! It has spiced up our sex life alittle.

I thought you were Olaf for a second.

tell him to stop watching porn, thats cheating on you emotionally

Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.

Let him catch you looking at some web sites of hot men with huge cocks. Just leave your PC on one day, or act really sneaky on it so he gets suspicious and then one day he will look at your history while you are not around and get a taste of his medicine.

It's wrong to do something hurtful to your bf anf gf, this would just be one way to let him know how it feels. If he thinks it's his right then leave him. Porn viewers eventually lose intimacy with their women and sex is just about getting off and not about emotional connection and expression of love.

If he doesn't want to quit then I would leave. Be single and enjoy yourself. You don't need to live with a man and his addiction to watching other naked women in action. It IS cheating. You can do better. No man is worth the pain.

oh, what a bitch

Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"?

My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing.

Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?

Well, if it didn't involve critters or kids then it's 'normal' in the sense that he's not a complete deviant. However, over the long term internet porn, unlike a Playboy, or sneaking the Victoria's Secret catalog to wank to, it will become a problem.

It's extremely addictive and that addiction is becoming more widespread. I occasionally check out Playboy and viceversa my wife will look at Playgirl. We will on occasion rent a porn DVD.

However, my wife and I have a strict no internet porn policy in our home. And our son knows he will lose his computer for three months if he views internet porn.

I have mixed feelings about porn. I don't think it's the utter demise of Western Civilization, however, I think we were better off before internet porn. Internet porn is just too much volume and too many weird fetishes.

Even what is considered 'normal' these days. Lots of the 'teen' porn, the abusive stuff, and the gangbang sex disturbs me as a father and husband.

Stupidest thread ever. ALL MEN look at porn on occassion or often. ALL MEN handle up on their business on occassion or often. ALL MEN. EVERY SINGLE ONE. ALL OF THEM. The president, your priest, that famous actor you mentally masturbate to, your dad, your brother, and yes, your boyfriend/spouse. ALL OF THEM.

are you retarded?

You show me the most beautiful woman on earth and i'll guarantee you that somewhere there is a guy who is tired of having sex with her.

Guys are just hard wired that way. We fantasize about different women. It's not an emotional thing, just lust.

If you think your man is going to be thinking about you everytime you guys have sex, then your living in a fantasy land. He might at first, but once the new wears off, he'll be thinking about other women.

It's called the "spank bank". When you see a hot babe during the day, you put that image in your spank bank and next time your rubbing one out, you pull that image out of of the bank and fantasize about it.

Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?

This

Porn also keeps most men from cheating.Dont stress.

That means every guy that has checked out another girl at the
beach or mall is cheating.

+10000

Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting?

This also means lots of men, your friends, acquaintances, anyone who knows your wife or gf probably fantasizes about her. Thats gotta be weird for a man. My husband never talks about our sex life to his friends, he knows how men are. We all know men and women are sexual and masturbate. I do it too, the issue (again) is how you are hurting your woman with your porn habit. Either give a fuck, or let her go, but stop making excuses for your addiction. If you need to look at other women having sex because you got bored with your gf or wife then dont get into a committed relationship. It's that simple. Stop disrespecting your women.

No wonder most of you here are single, sheesh!

I have a response to porn but I choose not to view it. I like to live my life differently and I enjoy sex a lot. I also have no problems climaxing without having to sit in front of a pc watching sad souls fake it.