I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!!

lol awww OP men are gits eh? Ruled by their little heads instead of their big heads...

If you suggest you're 'bi-curious' and instantly start to meet other women online to meet up with for some fun....

...i swear all of a sudden he'll be interested MUCH MORE in your sexuality than his own!!!

Worked for me...go for it! ;-)

Yep, They're called Tea Party/Republicans. Those are the most uptight people on the planet.

i call


someones looking for attention

You are a controlling female that prefers to condemn men rather than try to understand them. If you don't understand male libido, which you obviously don't, inform yourself. Most women have no idea how powerful male libido is compared with female libido, and prefer to chastise men and make them feel ashamed of their normal drives. I remember a women that underwent a sex change, she had always felt like a male. She began the hormone treatment and was shocked by how powerful her "new" sex drive became on testosterone. She said, "suddenly I understood men, and felt sorry for them, and wondered how they ever got anything done". If you can't accept men as they are, find a women or be single.

why do you have a 10 years old bf.

Can you read? He is NOT watching porn, he used to, with me as well, and that was what he liked to watch ok? I am glad that he quit before it took hold of him and I ended up catching him watching teen tranny nurses or scat covered grannies or something sick. Sorry but I have never had twisted fantasies like that and if a guy does, his brain is beyond repair at that point and I have no need for a man like that. Personal decision, no one is telling you what to do.

I feel that you want to watch these degraded videos, you are in HEAVY denial. you are sick IMHO

Yeppers!

Well most serial killers was addictted to porn ,like ted bundy,dennis radar,and so many others..so that person I would say is getting close to becomming one. one day if he hasnt already he might try to do the act himself on some poor woman

How little you know women. You must be a long time single. I have plenty of libido and so do most women I know. We have "powerful" libidos as well. Men's libidos are not quite as superior as you claim though, hence the popularity of viagra. It seems flacidity is an epidemic these days. Not for my man, but for a lot of men out there and even pretty young ones.

I divorced him because our relationship went to shit in a hurry after that. If his sexual fantasy is to be fucked in the ass with a giant cock, he needs a boyfriend and not a wife.

That was 18 years ago. I never regretted leaving him. I decided that my ability to be sexually intimate with him was clouded by what I had seen was what really turned him on. I started to fear he was secretly gay. Our marriage was in serious trouble and he didn't want to deal with it; only make excuses and tell me how stupid I was for having a problem with it. Some men always try to make out like divorce is always about the woman being a money sucker. It has nothing to do with money. I was making significantly more than him so, NO, we just split all assets 50/50 and said GOODBYE FOR GOOD when I moved several states away.

By the way, I remarried happily while he stayed single and died alone of a heart attack while watching/wanking to porn. It was quite embarrassing for his co-worker to come in with the manager of his crappy apartment building to find his dead body and the movie he was wanking off to. He had not been showing up for work and they were worried about him.

its normal

guys look porn
girls shop
the guys drink beer with the guys and tell funny jokes
the girls gossip with the girls

live goes on

OP, what was on the porn he was watching?

Depending on the content it may be normal, but if it is headed toward extremes, leave NOW.

Glad you were able to get away from that guy sooner than later. Porn addiction is no laughing matter. Doesn't surprise me that porn finally killed him, just like drugs and alcohol can kill people. One porn addict I know he is so into his addiction his eyes are even vacant and he can't establish intimacy with his much-younger GF. He likes younger and younger girls, and now boys, he likes teen tranny porn now too, he is really a repulsive human being. I would be surprised if he lives to see 60, just so full of demons as he is. Even if you're not Christian it's hard to deny the evilness of some people.

I'd be a lot happier if we went back to the day of magazines. Like I said, those were a lot less harmful than porn movies and at least didn't cause actual brain damage and erectile dsyfunction nor destroy relationships. Men are just angry because women have more freedom than them to demand certain behaviors from men or leave and find a better man, plenty of which have fulfilling lives free of porn.

And it may not. Humans seek novelty. Men seek it in physical situations, women seek it in possessions. This is what most dont get. IF one demands that a womans surroundings wont change, she'll dream of new furniture, new places to go, new peple to share with. Consumerism for consumerism is womans porn, vut somehow that's ok.
Bollox?
It's really the same mechanism, yet women want their change, but care not that a man wants something novel too, even if it's her in a new situation or a new playful randy look. The thing about most porn that's intriguing to most men is the novel situation that the woman involved is seen acting interested and involved, and making a decent finish of it having her fun too, not making it obvious that she's doing 'maintanance' that she wishes she could avoid.
Once again it's the goose looking for the gander to do her bidding and not have desires or demands of his own

Agreed. He's a weak minded fool.

Dump him and get someone else who is more intelligent and mature...a good man who is secure and knows how to treat a good woman.

Love the stereotypes.

My partner doesn't look at porn
I hate shopping, but when we shop we go together, more fun
I drink beer with my man and his friends and we all tell funny jokes and stories, and their wives and GF's usually are there as well
He gossips more than I do

Stop trying to fit us all into your limited ideas about how it is or should be. Glad I don't live in the World of Sheeple, sounds boring as hell.

I wont deny that women love the occasional hot beef injection, its just that most would have if be someone else that what they have at home. That's why when they step out, they willingly allow their fantasy man, what they'd never do at home. IT's the point of sale, they freak their fantasy in their own way.
Face it ladies, most of you married poorly, and for the wrong reasons.
Oh yes you did

Here is the post I made on the earlier thread the OP made:

I can't believe how many idiots here support the porn industry! You'd think people on here would be able to see through the bullshit better than most, but I guess not. And trying to use peer pressure to make the OP feel like she's weird; you're all just a bunch of sheep! You can't think for yourselves and have let the media/corporations define your sexuality and determine what you find sexy. They really have you by the balls, and in many cases by the wallet as well! And the funny thing is, you seem to think watching porn is somehow proving your manhood or something.

Maybe you act this way because it is an addiction and you have to find any way you can to rationalize it or justify it? I don't know. But it really is crazy how mean and aggressive you all are toward the OP; you must really feel threatened by her for some reason.

OP, don't let these fools bully you into changing your mind or feeling bad about opinion. You already know intuitively that porn is a bunch of shit. Don't go against your intuition or you will never be happy in the relationship anyway.

And to all you ignorant brainwashed tools, none of this has anything to do with religion or prudishness!

my BF got jealous when he would catch me looking at porn with better looking men who had MUCH LARGER MEMBERS.

Do women secrectly fantasize about larger penises? And longer staying power? And much better performances?

Ugh.Yea.

THIS^^^^^

trust me, a satisfied man will not turn to flat dimensional porn if hes getting the real thing !

This ^^^^^^

If you cant be a Don Juan stud in bed and satisfy a real girl. youre a pathetic loser.

OP has never been back by the way


TROLLED

OP is Just a Fat dude getting off by all your answers, You are all so naive.

I'm done with this thread. It just reinforces why I would never date a GLP man, because most fof you don't have a freaking CLUE about women and are full of stereotypes and self-righteousness. I am a VERY observant person, and for all you say here in this thread, you men are jealous as fuck, and if you were let's say 45 years old and your GF or wife said some 25 year old hunky guy was hot, you'd be feeling all jealous and insecure and YOU KNOW IT. Yet, you have 1000 excuses to be able to look at porn forever despite having a loving, faithful woman by your side who needs no one but you to get off. God forbid your woman openly looks at and gets sexually aroused by a younger, sexier man than you. A lot of you would lose it.

Most of you are immature dogs anyway. No wonder most women initiate divorces. They never get back what they give. And fuck you for believing women should be your own personal porn stars. Why don't you try a little selfless generosity in the bedroom for once you spoiled, entitled boys. If you had never become addicted to porn you wouldn't even expect that from women, then feel sorry for yourselves and cheat when you don't get it, and how does THAT work out for ya? You all deserve to be alone. Grow up and be a man, and learn something about REAL women, not your precious porn star hoes that mostly end up dead because of the job YOU support as your "biological imperative". Pathetic the whole lot of you.

Most dont have the stamina for a 30 minute spring squeaking, headboard slamming sex marathon, just sitting at the computer getting blister palm is their workout. lol

I know how to satisfy mine and were sweaty and panting for a long afterglow...

I'm sorry, but the kind of man women dream about is 1 in a 1000. And even those guys are probably in pain from being 'undersexed'. There are very tasteful studios out there that create adult material for couples etc. There are doing a service to the world.. but yes, a lot of it is absolutely disgusting. Normal people don't migrate to this shit unless they have mental issues to begin with. I'll admit that I have been with my wife for 12yrs now (married 5) and still look at porn. I love her very deeply and wouldn't dream of cheating on her or leaving her. I also enjoy our sexual life when we have it, which isn't enough for me unfortunately. She gets quite horny when there's a porn or romantic movie on, so we exploit that from time to time. Also, she knows that I still do pleasure myself to pornography in the downtime.

Access and quality of porn needs to be addressed in the internet age. A dirty mag from the past is fine, but there's is some seriously f'ed up stuff on the internet that she be classified as deviant behavior.

Maybe you should figure out where this relationship is really going. Are you going to shack up honey for another couple decades or get married? Some people rationalize it doesn't matter but it makes a huge difference. Shacking up is just a continuing for convenience unless something better comes along, DECIDING to commit with a wedding and a DECISION this partnership is a commitment cements that you are actually creating something not just butt buddies.