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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1545174 Ireland 09/11/2011 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you suggest you're 'bi-curious' and instantly start to meet other women online to meet up with for some fun.... ...i swear all of a sudden he'll be interested MUCH MORE in your sexuality than his own!!! Worked for me...go for it! ;-) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1229039 United States 09/11/2011 02:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let him catch you looking at some web sites of hot men with huge cocks. Just leave your PC on one day, or act really sneaky on it so he gets suspicious and then one day he will look at your history while you are not around and get a taste of his medicine. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391 It's wrong to do something hurtful to your bf anf gf, this would just be one way to let him know how it feels. If he thinks it's his right then leave him. Porn viewers eventually lose intimacy with their women and sex is just about getting off and not about emotional connection and expression of love. If he doesn't want to quit then I would leave. Be single and enjoy yourself. You don't need to live with a man and his addiction to watching other naked women in action. It IS cheating. You can do better. No man is worth the pain. You are fucking retarded... And you're a bitter mysoginist. I know your type. You are a controlling female that prefers to condemn men rather than try to understand them. If you don't understand male libido, which you obviously don't, inform yourself. Most women have no idea how powerful male libido is compared with female libido, and prefer to chastise men and make them feel ashamed of their normal drives. I remember a women that underwent a sex change, she had always felt like a male. She began the hormone treatment and was shocked by how powerful her "new" sex drive became on testosterone. She said, "suddenly I understood men, and felt sorry for them, and wondered how they ever got anything done". If you can't accept men as they are, find a women or be single. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 02:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You miss the point.. if he is watching porn he is still watching porn. Just because it's lesbian porn, it makes no difference, porn is porn. Obviously he's convinced you it is ok to use that and not other porn, and you've fallen for it.. either that you're a bit dim. Can you read? He is NOT watching porn, he used to, with me as well, and that was what he liked to watch ok? I am glad that he quit before it took hold of him and I ended up catching him watching teen tranny nurses or scat covered grannies or something sick. Sorry but I have never had twisted fantasies like that and if a guy does, his brain is beyond repair at that point and I have no need for a man like that. Personal decision, no one is telling you what to do. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1545128 United Kingdom 09/11/2011 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You miss the point.. if he is watching porn he is still watching porn. Just because it's lesbian porn, it makes no difference, porn is porn. Obviously he's convinced you it is ok to use that and not other porn, and you've fallen for it.. either that you're a bit dim. Can you read? He is NOT watching porn, he used to, with me as well, and that was what he liked to watch ok? I am glad that he quit before it took hold of him and I ended up catching him watching teen tranny nurses or scat covered grannies or something sick. Sorry but I have never had twisted fantasies like that and if a guy does, his brain is beyond repair at that point and I have no need for a man like that. Personal decision, no one is telling you what to do. I feel that you want to watch these degraded videos, you are in HEAVY denial. you are sick IMHO |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485094 United States 09/11/2011 02:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of the matter is that the majority of women dislike sex as an activity altogether. IT is a tool to another separate endpoint for them and an endpoint in its own right to men. THey feel degraded by penetration, the animalistic and anonymous nature of it when it gets hot and heavy and the fact that THEY are stuck with the mess and clean up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1394135 You are so wrong. You guys really need an education. Women love penetration, that's what we a biologically programmed to crave. If your woman has no sex drive for you, rest assured she's rubbing one off when you're not around. You guys need to know these things. When we're too tired to be your porn star whore, we just rub one off when you're not around, and it takes very little time trust me. Yeppers! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1545142 United States 09/11/2011 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This porn addiction becomes a progressive thing just like several people on here mentioned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1523985 My husband of 6 years progressed and when I found his new favorite was men being fucked in the ass by women with huge strap ons, I declared that enough and divorced him. OP, only you can decide what you are ok with. It might be ok. He may not be addicted, but the fact that he has been hiding it, might mean he has affinity for stuff that you would NOT be ok with in the slightest. One of the guys on here discussed his porn addition once and spoke of losing his girlfriend because she found his choking porn videos. He had become addicted to watching porn with the man choking the women. Most old timers know and the guy will likely come right on this thread and admit to it. His initials are MM. Well most serial killers was addictted to porn ,like ted bundy,dennis radar,and so many others..so that person I would say is getting close to becomming one. one day if he hasnt already he might try to do the act himself on some poor woman |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let him catch you looking at some web sites of hot men with huge cocks. Just leave your PC on one day, or act really sneaky on it so he gets suspicious and then one day he will look at your history while you are not around and get a taste of his medicine. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391 It's wrong to do something hurtful to your bf anf gf, this would just be one way to let him know how it feels. If he thinks it's his right then leave him. Porn viewers eventually lose intimacy with their women and sex is just about getting off and not about emotional connection and expression of love. If he doesn't want to quit then I would leave. Be single and enjoy yourself. You don't need to live with a man and his addiction to watching other naked women in action. It IS cheating. You can do better. No man is worth the pain. You are fucking retarded... And you're a bitter mysoginist. I know your type. You are a controlling female that prefers to condemn men rather than try to understand them. If you don't understand male libido, which you obviously don't, inform yourself. Most women have no idea how powerful male libido is compared with female libido, and prefer to chastise men and make them feel ashamed of their normal drives. I remember a women that underwent a sex change, she had always felt like a male. She began the hormone treatment and was shocked by how powerful her "new" sex drive became on testosterone. She said, "suddenly I understood men, and felt sorry for them, and wondered how they ever got anything done". If you can't accept men as they are, find a women or be single. How little you know women. You must be a long time single. I have plenty of libido and so do most women I know. We have "powerful" libidos as well. Men's libidos are not quite as superior as you claim though, hence the popularity of viagra. It seems flacidity is an epidemic these days. Not for my man, but for a lot of men out there and even pretty young ones. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 02:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You miss the point.. if he is watching porn he is still watching porn. Just because it's lesbian porn, it makes no difference, porn is porn. Obviously he's convinced you it is ok to use that and not other porn, and you've fallen for it.. either that you're a bit dim. Can you read? He is NOT watching porn, he used to, with me as well, and that was what he liked to watch ok? I am glad that he quit before it took hold of him and I ended up catching him watching teen tranny nurses or scat covered grannies or something sick. Sorry but I have never had twisted fantasies like that and if a guy does, his brain is beyond repair at that point and I have no need for a man like that. Personal decision, no one is telling you what to do. I feel that you want to watch these degraded videos, you are in HEAVY denial. you are sick IMHO |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1523985 United States 09/11/2011 02:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This porn addiction becomes a progressive thing just like several people on here mentioned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1523985 My husband of 6 years progressed and when I found his new favorite was men being fucked in the ass by women with huge strap ons, I declared that enough and divorced him. OP, only you can decide what you are ok with. It might be ok. He may not be addicted, but the fact that he has been hiding it, might mean he has affinity for stuff that you would NOT be ok with in the slightest. One of the guys on here discussed his porn addition once and spoke of losing his girlfriend because she found his choking porn videos. He had become addicted to watching porn with the man choking the women. Most old timers know and the guy will likely come right on this thread and admit to it. His initials are MM. Why divorce him for that? You would have fucked him up the ass for many years (money etc) you just cant see it can you. Come and bring your dildo around to my place and fuck me. I divorced him because our relationship went to shit in a hurry after that. If his sexual fantasy is to be fucked in the ass with a giant cock, he needs a boyfriend and not a wife. That was 18 years ago. I never regretted leaving him. I decided that my ability to be sexually intimate with him was clouded by what I had seen was what really turned him on. I started to fear he was secretly gay. Our marriage was in serious trouble and he didn't want to deal with it; only make excuses and tell me how stupid I was for having a problem with it. Some men always try to make out like divorce is always about the woman being a money sucker. It has nothing to do with money. I was making significantly more than him so, NO, we just split all assets 50/50 and said GOODBYE FOR GOOD when I moved several states away. By the way, I remarried happily while he stayed single and died alone of a heart attack while watching/wanking to porn. It was quite embarrassing for his co-worker to come in with the manager of his crappy apartment building to find his dead body and the movie he was wanking off to. He had not been showing up for work and they were worried about him. |
dutchies User ID: 1509707 Netherlands 09/11/2011 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its normal guys look porn girls shop the guys drink beer with the guys and tell funny jokes the girls gossip with the girls live goes on One has to live in the present. Whatever is past is gone beyond recall; whatever is future remains beyond one’s reach, until it becomes present. Remembering the past and giving thought to the future are important, but only to the extent that they help one deal with the present. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This porn addiction becomes a progressive thing just like several people on here mentioned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1523985 My husband of 6 years progressed and when I found his new favorite was men being fucked in the ass by women with huge strap ons, I declared that enough and divorced him. OP, only you can decide what you are ok with. It might be ok. He may not be addicted, but the fact that he has been hiding it, might mean he has affinity for stuff that you would NOT be ok with in the slightest. One of the guys on here discussed his porn addition once and spoke of losing his girlfriend because she found his choking porn videos. He had become addicted to watching porn with the man choking the women. Most old timers know and the guy will likely come right on this thread and admit to it. His initials are MM. Why divorce him for that? You would have fucked him up the ass for many years (money etc) you just cant see it can you. Come and bring your dildo around to my place and fuck me. I divorced him because our relationship went to shit in a hurry after that. If his sexual fantasy is to be fucked in the ass with a giant cock, he needs a boyfriend and not a wife. That was 18 years ago. I never regretted leaving him. I decided that my ability to be sexually intimate with him was clouded by what I had seen was what really turned him on. I started to fear he was secretly gay. Our marriage was in serious trouble and he didn't want to deal with it; only make excuses and tell me how stupid I was for having a problem with it. Some men always try to make out like divorce is always about the woman being a money sucker. It has nothing to do with money. I was making significantly more than him so, NO, we just split all assets 50/50 and said GOODBYE FOR GOOD when I moved several states away. By the way, I remarried happily while he stayed single and died alone of a heart attack while watching/wanking to porn. It was quite embarrassing for his co-worker to come in with the manager of his crappy apartment building to find his dead body and the movie he was wanking off to. He had not been showing up for work and they were worried about him. Glad you were able to get away from that guy sooner than later. Porn addiction is no laughing matter. Doesn't surprise me that porn finally killed him, just like drugs and alcohol can kill people. One porn addict I know he is so into his addiction his eyes are even vacant and he can't establish intimacy with his much-younger GF. He likes younger and younger girls, and now boys, he likes teen tranny porn now too, he is really a repulsive human being. I would be surprised if he lives to see 60, just so full of demons as he is. Even if you're not Christian it's hard to deny the evilness of some people. I'd be a lot happier if we went back to the day of magazines. Like I said, those were a lot less harmful than porn movies and at least didn't cause actual brain damage and erectile dsyfunction nor destroy relationships. Men are just angry because women have more freedom than them to demand certain behaviors from men or leave and find a better man, plenty of which have fulfilling lives free of porn. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States 09/11/2011 03:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He needs something "new" to masturbate to. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, but you are not enough to satisfy all of his needs. Maybe you need to be more uninhibited in bed. Do you do EVERYTHING he wants you to? Think about... Quoting: A wife who knows... 1538047 I don't think that she should necessary be feeling guilty for his own shortcomings. It may be him and not her. And it may not. Humans seek novelty. Men seek it in physical situations, women seek it in possessions. This is what most dont get. IF one demands that a womans surroundings wont change, she'll dream of new furniture, new places to go, new peple to share with. Consumerism for consumerism is womans porn, vut somehow that's ok. Bollox? It's really the same mechanism, yet women want their change, but care not that a man wants something novel too, even if it's her in a new situation or a new playful randy look. The thing about most porn that's intriguing to most men is the novel situation that the woman involved is seen acting interested and involved, and making a decent finish of it having her fun too, not making it obvious that she's doing 'maintanance' that she wishes she could avoid. Once again it's the goose looking for the gander to do her bidding and not have desires or demands of his own |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 03:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its normal Quoting: dutchies guys look porn girls shop the guys drink beer with the guys and tell funny jokes the girls gossip with the girls live goes on Love the stereotypes. My partner doesn't look at porn I hate shopping, but when we shop we go together, more fun I drink beer with my man and his friends and we all tell funny jokes and stories, and their wives and GF's usually are there as well He gossips more than I do Stop trying to fit us all into your limited ideas about how it is or should be. Glad I don't live in the World of Sheeple, sounds boring as hell. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States 09/11/2011 03:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fact of the matter is that the majority of women dislike sex as an activity altogether. IT is a tool to another separate endpoint for them and an endpoint in its own right to men. THey feel degraded by penetration, the animalistic and anonymous nature of it when it gets hot and heavy and the fact that THEY are stuck with the mess and clean up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1394135 You are so wrong. You guys really need an education. Women love penetration, that's what we a biologically programmed to crave. If your woman has no sex drive for you, rest assured she's rubbing one off when you're not around. You guys need to know these things. When we're too tired to be your porn star whore, we just rub one off when you're not around, and it takes very little time trust me. Yeppers! I wont deny that women love the occasional hot beef injection, its just that most would have if be someone else that what they have at home. That's why when they step out, they willingly allow their fantasy man, what they'd never do at home. IT's the point of sale, they freak their fantasy in their own way. Face it ladies, most of you married poorly, and for the wrong reasons. Oh yes you did |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 822098 United States 09/11/2011 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the post I made on the earlier thread the OP made: I can't believe how many idiots here support the porn industry! You'd think people on here would be able to see through the bullshit better than most, but I guess not. And trying to use peer pressure to make the OP feel like she's weird; you're all just a bunch of sheep! You can't think for yourselves and have let the media/corporations define your sexuality and determine what you find sexy. They really have you by the balls, and in many cases by the wallet as well! And the funny thing is, you seem to think watching porn is somehow proving your manhood or something. Maybe you act this way because it is an addiction and you have to find any way you can to rationalize it or justify it? I don't know. But it really is crazy how mean and aggressive you all are toward the OP; you must really feel threatened by her for some reason. OP, don't let these fools bully you into changing your mind or feeling bad about opinion. You already know intuitively that porn is a bunch of shit. Don't go against your intuition or you will never be happy in the relationship anyway. And to all you ignorant brainwashed tools, none of this has anything to do with religion or prudishness! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1532110 United States 09/11/2011 03:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting? Quoting: ECLIPSE is he happy with you sexually? THIS^^^^^ trust me, a satisfied man will not turn to flat dimensional porn if hes getting the real thing ! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1532110 United States 09/11/2011 03:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the post I made on the earlier thread the OP made: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 822098 I can't believe how many idiots here support the porn industry! You'd think people on here would be able to see through the bullshit better than most, but I guess not. And trying to use peer pressure to make the OP feel like she's weird; you're all just a bunch of sheep! You can't think for yourselves and have let the media/corporations define your sexuality and determine what you find sexy. They really have you by the balls, and in many cases by the wallet as well! And the funny thing is, you seem to think watching porn is somehow proving your manhood or something. Maybe you act this way because it is an addiction and you have to find any way you can to rationalize it or justify it? I don't know. But it really is crazy how mean and aggressive you all are toward the OP; you must really feel threatened by her for some reason. OP, don't let these fools bully you into changing your mind or feeling bad about opinion. You already know intuitively that porn is a bunch of shit. Don't go against your intuition or you will never be happy in the relationship anyway. And to all you ignorant brainwashed tools, none of this has anything to do with religion or prudishness! This ^^^^^^ If you cant be a Don Juan stud in bed and satisfy a real girl. youre a pathetic loser. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 03:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of you are immature dogs anyway. No wonder most women initiate divorces. They never get back what they give. And fuck you for believing women should be your own personal porn stars. Why don't you try a little selfless generosity in the bedroom for once you spoiled, entitled boys. If you had never become addicted to porn you wouldn't even expect that from women, then feel sorry for yourselves and cheat when you don't get it, and how does THAT work out for ya? You all deserve to be alone. Grow up and be a man, and learn something about REAL women, not your precious porn star hoes that mostly end up dead because of the job YOU support as your "biological imperative". Pathetic the whole lot of you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1532110 United States 09/11/2011 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a girl, I have a boyfriend and I watch porn. I think that happens because I'm a bit more sexual and he's a bit more romantic. Sometimes you just need an orgasm, with porn 5min and you're done. In case your significant other is a bit more romantic that will take way more than 5min and you just may not have the time for that. But there's nothing wrong with that, I don't want any of those guys in the movies, hell no! Your boyfriend doesn't want those girls either. Just don't stress him out because that's normal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1478058 Yep, with porn you're done in 5 minutes and feel psychologically empty afterwards. I'll take 30 minute sex and the glow and endorphins rush you get that stick around anyday to the short-lived rush of a porn-induced orgasm. Most dont have the stamina for a 30 minute spring squeaking, headboard slamming sex marathon, just sitting at the computer getting blister palm is their workout. lol I know how to satisfy mine and were sweaty and panting for a long afterglow... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1529459 Canada 09/11/2011 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here is the post I made on the earlier thread the OP made: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 822098 I can't believe how many idiots here support the porn industry! You'd think people on here would be able to see through the bullshit better than most, but I guess not. And trying to use peer pressure to make the OP feel like she's weird; you're all just a bunch of sheep! You can't think for yourselves and have let the media/corporations define your sexuality and determine what you find sexy. They really have you by the balls, and in many cases by the wallet as well! And the funny thing is, you seem to think watching porn is somehow proving your manhood or something. Maybe you act this way because it is an addiction and you have to find any way you can to rationalize it or justify it? I don't know. But it really is crazy how mean and aggressive you all are toward the OP; you must really feel threatened by her for some reason. OP, don't let these fools bully you into changing your mind or feeling bad about opinion. You already know intuitively that porn is a bunch of shit. Don't go against your intuition or you will never be happy in the relationship anyway. And to all you ignorant brainwashed tools, none of this has anything to do with religion or prudishness! I'm sorry, but the kind of man women dream about is 1 in a 1000. And even those guys are probably in pain from being 'undersexed'. There are very tasteful studios out there that create adult material for couples etc. There are doing a service to the world.. but yes, a lot of it is absolutely disgusting. Normal people don't migrate to this shit unless they have mental issues to begin with. I'll admit that I have been with my wife for 12yrs now (married 5) and still look at porn. I love her very deeply and wouldn't dream of cheating on her or leaving her. I also enjoy our sexual life when we have it, which isn't enough for me unfortunately. She gets quite horny when there's a porn or romantic movie on, so we exploit that from time to time. Also, she knows that I still do pleasure myself to pornography in the downtime. Access and quality of porn needs to be addressed in the internet age. A dirty mag from the past is fine, but there's is some seriously f'ed up stuff on the internet that she be classified as deviant behavior. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1509212 United States 09/11/2011 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you should figure out where this relationship is really going. Are you going to shack up honey for another couple decades or get married? Some people rationalize it doesn't matter but it makes a huge difference. Shacking up is just a continuing for convenience unless something better comes along, DECIDING to commit with a wedding and a DECISION this partnership is a commitment cements that you are actually creating something not just butt buddies. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1517391 Costa Rica 09/11/2011 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm a girl, I have a boyfriend and I watch porn. I think that happens because I'm a bit more sexual and he's a bit more romantic. Sometimes you just need an orgasm, with porn 5min and you're done. In case your significant other is a bit more romantic that will take way more than 5min and you just may not have the time for that. But there's nothing wrong with that, I don't want any of those guys in the movies, hell no! Your boyfriend doesn't want those girls either. Just don't stress him out because that's normal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1478058 Yep, with porn you're done in 5 minutes and feel psychologically empty afterwards. I'll take 30 minute sex and the glow and endorphins rush you get that stick around anyday to the short-lived rush of a porn-induced orgasm. Most dont have the stamina for a 30 minute spring squeaking, headboard slamming sex marathon, just sitting at the computer getting blister palm is their workout. lol I know how to satisfy mine and were sweaty and panting for a long afterglow... |