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I caught my boyfriend of 10 years looking at porn!! | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1485094  United States09/11/2011 03:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm done with this thread. It just reinforces why I would never date a GLP man, because most fof you don't have a freaking CLUE about women and are full of stereotypes and self-righteousness. I am a VERY observant person, and for all you say here in this thread, you men are jealous as fuck, and if you were let's say 45 years old and your GF or wife said some 25 year old hunky guy was hot, you'd be feeling all jealous and insecure and YOU KNOW IT. Yet, you have 1000 excuses to be able to look at porn forever despite having a loving, faithful woman by your side who needs no one but you to get off. God forbid your woman openly looks at and gets sexually aroused by a younger, sexier man than you. A lot of you would lose it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391 Most of you are immature dogs anyway. No wonder most women initiate divorces. They never get back what they give. And fuck you for believing women should be your own personal porn stars. Why don't you try a little selfless generosity in the bedroom for once you spoiled, entitled boys. If you had never become addicted to porn you wouldn't even expect that from women, then feel sorry for yourselves and cheat when you don't get it, and how does THAT work out for ya? You all deserve to be alone. Grow up and be a man, and learn something about REAL women, not your precious porn star hoes that mostly end up dead because of the job YOU support as your "biological imperative". Pathetic the whole lot of you. Lol hate to say it but I have to agree.....  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States09/11/2011 03:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm done with this thread. It just reinforces why I would never date a GLP man, because most fof you don't have a freaking CLUE about women and are full of stereotypes and self-righteousness. I am a VERY observant person, and for all you say here in this thread, you men are jealous as fuck, and if you were let's say 45 years old and your GF or wife said some 25 year old hunky guy was hot, you'd be feeling all jealous and insecure and YOU KNOW IT. Yet, you have 1000 excuses to be able to look at porn forever despite having a loving, faithful woman by your side who needs no one but you to get off. God forbid your woman openly looks at and gets sexually aroused by a younger, sexier man than you. A lot of you would lose it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1517391 Most of you are immature dogs anyway. No wonder most women initiate divorces. They never get back what they give. And fuck you for believing women should be your own personal porn stars. Why don't you try a little selfless generosity in the bedroom for once you spoiled, entitled boys. If you had never become addicted to porn you wouldn't even expect that from women, then feel sorry for yourselves and cheat when you don't get it, and how does THAT work out for ya? You all deserve to be alone. Grow up and be a man, and learn something about REAL women, not your precious porn star hoes that mostly end up dead because of the job YOU support as your "biological imperative". Pathetic the whole lot of you. Women initiate divorces because they can get the money and property they want and dump the man for a shot at a better one, this fantasy is their own popular type of porn, the delusion that none of their problems are at least in part their fault. It's the delusion that it was all someone elses fault and weakness and none of their own doing. You "ladies" will be happy to bollox up your childrens lives over control issues, and give the better part of your families money to the lawyers, after which you'll thank him by letting him stretch your bottom, probably while watching porn. Such is the female gratitude. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States09/11/2011 03:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This thread is really turning me on. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1476953 I think i'll go find some fetish porn. Maybe something with midgets and animals. Nawww, porn with lawyers in it si the ticket. This thread is all about control of others and naught else. What two people allow is between them, and if youre not happy GTFO, how do you like that? Is this thread only about how to force a partner into submission? I think it is. How about you judgmental biyatches take some fkkking personal responsibility instead of passing judgment ffs? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1544988  Canada09/11/2011 03:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is absolutely warping the minds of this generation. All you need to do is take a quick peak on 4chan. There are millions of men addicted to the neverending search for the next "high" when it comes to porn. My good friend had this problem, the stuff he would find online is awful. Some of it was just curiosity but some was clearly sexually fueled. It fucks up your brain! It's not just men, women can be addicted just the same. Occasionally looking at porn is one thing. Using it once in awhile when bored, fine. But watching it multiple times a week? Multiple times a DAY?? It is NOT normal and it is sad how brainwashed a lot of people are. Porn is an industry meant to fuck your mind and get your money. Look at all the perversion porn. Of course perversions have always existed but not like this! It twists minds that without porn would not be so twisted. What's so wrong with using your imagination? Maybe reading a dirty magazine? Why must it be graphic fake sex? It's just bizarre. Take a look into the porn industry and it's very sad. The girls all have issues or drug problems. It's acting, it's not enjoyable sex for them, they are paid to make it seem that way. PAID. I've seen some interesting documentaries on the subject. Of course porn addicts would not want to see the reality behind the scenes. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1229039 United States09/11/2011 03:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are a controlling female that prefers to condemn men rather than try to understand them. If you don't understand male libido, which you obviously don't, inform yourself. Most women have no idea how powerful male libido is compared with female libido, and prefer to chastise men and make them feel ashamed of their normal drives. I remember a women that underwent a sex change, she had always felt like a male. She began the hormone treatment and was shocked by how powerful her "new" sex drive became on testosterone. She said, "suddenly I understood men, and felt sorry for them, and wondered how they ever got anything done". If you can't accept men as they are, find a women or be single. How little you know women. You must be a long time single. I have plenty of libido and so do most women I know. We have "powerful" libidos as well. Men's libidos are not quite as superior as you claim though, hence the popularity of viagra. It seems flacidity is an epidemic these days. Not for my man, but for a lot of men out there and even pretty young ones. The observations I was talking about COME from a women.....who later became a man. Can you think of anyone that could see both sides of the fence better? Men experience an accumulation of semen, and they can physically feel it, they have a physical need to ejaculate, which their bodies encourage because the semen factory never stops. You are the one that doesn't understand men and their sexual needs. The male urge is more frequent and more insistent, no matter what you may think, and you will never know. Women experience stronger sex drive if their testosterone levels are increased. Men make testosterone. I rarely hear of a man complaining that his women wants sex too much, I hear about the opposite ALL THE TIME. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States09/11/2011 03:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is absolutely warping the minds of this generation. All you need to do is take a quick peak on 4chan. There are millions of men addicted to the neverending search for the next "high" when it comes to porn. My good friend had this problem, the stuff he would find online is awful. Some of it was just curiosity but some was clearly sexually fueled. It fucks up your brain! It's not just men, women can be addicted just the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544988 Occasionally looking at porn is one thing. Using it once in awhile when bored, fine. But watching it multiple times a week? Multiple times a DAY?? It is NOT normal and it is sad how brainwashed a lot of people are. Porn is an industry meant to fuck your mind and get your money. Look at all the perversion porn. Of course perversions have always existed but not like this! It twists minds that without porn would not be so twisted. What's so wrong with using your imagination? Maybe reading a dirty magazine? Why must it be graphic fake sex? It's just bizarre. Take a look into the porn industry and it's very sad. The girls all have issues or drug problems. It's acting, it's not enjoyable sex for them, they are paid to make it seem that way. PAID. I've seen some interesting documentaries on the subject. Of course porn addicts would not want to see the reality behind the scenes. Care to hazard a guess who runs the porn industry? There is a tribal connection, btw. Wanna know who runs the sexworker business? Same tribe. |
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Sparkz  User ID: 1373274  Australia09/11/2011 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This porn addiction becomes a progressive thing just like several people on here mentioned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1523985 My husband of 6 years progressed and when I found his new favorite was men being fucked in the ass by women with huge strap ons, I declared that enough and divorced him. OP, only you can decide what you are ok with. It might be ok. He may not be addicted, but the fact that he has been hiding it, might mean he has affinity for stuff that you would NOT be ok with in the slightest. One of the guys on here discussed his porn addition once and spoke of losing his girlfriend because she found his choking porn videos. He had become addicted to watching porn with the man choking the women. Most old timers know and the guy will likely come right on this thread and admit to it. His initials are MM. Why divorce him for that? You would have fucked him up the ass for many years (money etc) you just cant see it can you. Come and bring your dildo around to my place and fuck me. I divorced him because our relationship went to shit in a hurry after that. If his sexual fantasy is to be fucked in the ass with a giant cock, he needs a boyfriend and not a wife. That was 18 years ago. I never regretted leaving him. I decided that my ability to be sexually intimate with him was clouded by what I had seen was what really turned him on. I started to fear he was secretly gay. Our marriage was in serious trouble and he didn't want to deal with it; only make excuses and tell me how stupid I was for having a problem with it. Some men always try to make out like divorce is always about the woman being a money sucker. It has nothing to do with money. I was making significantly more than him so, NO, we just split all assets 50/50 and said GOODBYE FOR GOOD when I moved several states away. By the way, I remarried happily while he stayed single and died alone of a heart attack while watching/wanking to porn. It was quite embarrassing for his co-worker to come in with the manager of his crappy apartment building to find his dead body and the movie he was wanking off to. He had not been showing up for work and they were worried about him. Sounds like bullshit to me. Just say'n. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1523985 United States09/11/2011 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not bullshit. That did happen. He was 53 when he died just like I said with his body found in an embarrassing way. I have no idea if he had taken viagra or some other drug that might have helped his heart issues along their way. I was given the details by a female police investigator. I was still listed on the apartment that he had lived in for so many years, thus I was the point of contact given by the apartment manager to the police. Of course they had to do an investigation of suspicious death and then notified me half way across the country the next day via a county sheriff at my door who gave me the investigator's phone number to call. By the way, I was 14 years younger than him and in excellent shape. His addiction had nothing to do with anything being wrong with me. Like I said, I think he was either secretly gay or just his porn addiction had progressed to what I felt was intolerable. I decided I was plenty young and not going to tolerate his behavior. I was not wasting my life away with a man turned on by being butt fucked. |
| Sparkz User ID: 1373274 Australia09/11/2011 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women I know have a dildo or vibrator or a whole box a toys that they use to masturbate with. Men don't need a dildo or any holes to be filled. We are visual creatures. It's exactly the same thing in comparison. Of course u can do it yourself but who always has the time to start the engine. This is the age of technology, high speed travel and microwave ovens. Do you really want to go back to the horse and buggie or oil lamps? Women should just realize it's a visual tool instead of making claim to cheating or feeling insecure about their partner and themselves. So just wake up, get off, wipe up and shower then get to work like everyone else! Quoting: Sparkz Fact of the matter is that the majority of women dislike sex as an activity altogether. IT is a tool to another separate endpoint for them and an endpoint in its own right to men. THey feel degraded by penetration, the animalistic and anonymous nature of it when it gets hot and heavy and the fact that THEY are stuck with the mess and clean up. How can you say this as fact? Every woman I know is a sex manic. You sure live on another planet there buddy! |
| fearno1 User ID: 1268571 United States09/11/2011 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Mkguyver User ID: 1538236 United States09/11/2011 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The word that comes to mind is...commitment. Stop with the playing house and commit, otherwise it's shak'n-up and if your shak'n-up who would care if your beau is looking at porn. Is it just me or does anyone else see the bigger issue here being "my boyfriend of 10 years"? Quoting: Mkguyver My god woman, go get a life and ditch the boyfriend thing. That's some insight into a womens mind. Why the pressure to get married? Who cares if gf and bf for 70 yrs.. Must get married, must get married, must get married. programming has worked well on this one. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1106916 United States09/11/2011 05:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes OP, unfortunately now in this society, it's "normal" to look at porn. It's also "normal" for 2 men to have sexual relations as well as 2 women, it's perfectly "normal". For some couples, it's also "normal" to swap partners. It's also 'normal" for men to wear womens underwear, diapers and suck on a pacifier, pee and poop on eachother too. These things are "normal" in our society, I'm sorry to inform you. What people are not willing to admit is that looking at porn is cheating with your heart. You might not be physically sleeping with that person, but you are lusting over them which is cheating with your mind. Sure........go ahead and yell about it, I don't care. The truth is the truth. God knows the truth, and He isn't happy with "normal" society these days. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1476953 United States09/11/2011 05:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes OP, unfortunately now in this society, it's "normal" to look at porn. It's also "normal" for 2 men to have sexual relations as well as 2 women, it's perfectly "normal". Quoting: Lisa*Lisa For some couples, it's also "normal" to swap partners. It's also 'normal" for men to wear womens underwear, diapers and suck on a pacifier, pee and poop on eachother too. These things are "normal" in our society, I'm sorry to inform you. What people are not willing to admit is that looking at porn is cheating with your heart. You might not be physically sleeping with that person, but you are lusting over them which is cheating with your mind. Sure........go ahead and yell about it, I don't care. The truth is the truth. God knows the truth, and He isn't happy with "normal" society these days. HOw do you know he is not happy with it? Have you spoken with him? OR are you trying to impose your own morality and guilt on everyone else? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1544579  United Kingdom09/11/2011 05:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is absolutely warping the minds of this generation. All you need to do is take a quick peak on 4chan. There are millions of men addicted to the neverending search for the next "high" when it comes to porn. My good friend had this problem, the stuff he would find online is awful. Some of it was just curiosity but some was clearly sexually fueled. It fucks up your brain! It's not just men, women can be addicted just the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1544988 Occasionally looking at porn is one thing. Using it once in awhile when bored, fine. But watching it multiple times a week? Multiple times a DAY?? It is NOT normal and it is sad how brainwashed a lot of people are. Porn is an industry meant to fuck your mind and get your money. Look at all the perversion porn. Of course perversions have always existed but not like this! It twists minds that without porn would not be so twisted. What's so wrong with using your imagination? Maybe reading a dirty magazine? Why must it be graphic fake sex? It's just bizarre. Take a look into the porn industry and it's very sad. The girls all have issues or drug problems. It's acting, it's not enjoyable sex for them, they are paid to make it seem that way. PAID. I've seen some interesting documentaries on the subject. Of course porn addicts would not want to see the reality behind the scenes. Care to hazard a guess who runs the porn industry? There is a tribal connection, btw. Wanna know who runs the sexworker business? Same tribe.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1106916 United States09/11/2011 05:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes OP, unfortunately now in this society, it's "normal" to look at porn. It's also "normal" for 2 men to have sexual relations as well as 2 women, it's perfectly "normal". Quoting: Lisa*Lisa For some couples, it's also "normal" to swap partners. It's also 'normal" for men to wear womens underwear, diapers and suck on a pacifier, pee and poop on eachother too. These things are "normal" in our society, I'm sorry to inform you. What people are not willing to admit is that looking at porn is cheating with your heart. You might not be physically sleeping with that person, but you are lusting over them which is cheating with your mind. Sure........go ahead and yell about it, I don't care. The truth is the truth. God knows the truth, and He isn't happy with "normal" society these days. HOw do you know he is not happy with it? Have you spoken with him? OR are you trying to impose your own morality and guilt on everyone else? How do I know? Because the Bible is very specific about it. Make no mistake, God isn't happy about it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States09/11/2011 05:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women I know have a dildo or vibrator or a whole box a toys that they use to masturbate with. Men don't need a dildo or any holes to be filled. We are visual creatures. It's exactly the same thing in comparison. Of course u can do it yourself but who always has the time to start the engine. This is the age of technology, high speed travel and microwave ovens. Do you really want to go back to the horse and buggie or oil lamps? Women should just realize it's a visual tool instead of making claim to cheating or feeling insecure about their partner and themselves. So just wake up, get off, wipe up and shower then get to work like everyone else! Quoting: Sparkz Fact of the matter is that the majority of women dislike sex as an activity altogether. IT is a tool to another separate endpoint for them and an endpoint in its own right to men. THey feel degraded by penetration, the animalistic and anonymous nature of it when it gets hot and heavy and the fact that THEY are stuck with the mess and clean up. How can you say this as fact? Every woman I know is a sex manic. You sure live on another planet there buddy! You have to step away from the brothels, mate, or stop selling the crack. Most of your sheilas look for mericans who are more likely to treat them as they wish to be treated. |
| MsStarshipTrooper User ID: 1382311 United States09/11/2011 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok...we have been together for 10 years. I'm 26 years old...I'm so confused!! Is this a normal thing guys do or am I overeacting? Quoting: ECLIPSE Yeah unfortunately you are overreacting. Female to female...I mean yeah it's disrespectful I won't lie...but normal? Very. They're cavemen at heart...they can't fight the urge! Once you label me you negate me. -Søren Kierkegaard |
| Accidental Stoner User ID: 1191993  Finland09/11/2011 05:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its very normal. The only people uptight about it are usually uptight about sex to begin with! It doesnt mean he doesnt find you attractive. Quoting: strangela Bloody good post, actually. Why don't you and your boyfriend watch porn together, OP? (If you can find some, that dont make you want to throw up, that is. WTF happened to good, hornifying pornography? Mostly yuchh nowadays. Go for the vintage stuff.)  |
| MsStarshipTrooper User ID: 1382311 United States09/11/2011 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its very normal. The only people uptight about it are usually uptight about sex to begin with! It doesnt mean he doesnt find you attractive. Quoting: strangela I disagree. The people that are uptight about it understand that it is very disrespectful to women in general, let alone the woman of a man who watches. It's terrible that our society has made this a "normal" thing. Which you can clearly see in the comments of the desensitized people. Once you label me you negate me. -Søren Kierkegaard |
| pinkpixiexx User ID: 1461617 United Kingdom09/11/2011 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think OP is really interested in our responses!!..lol "When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace" "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1301802 United States09/11/2011 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its very normal. The only people uptight about it are usually uptight about sex to begin with! It doesnt mean he doesnt find you attractive. Quoting: strangela Bloody good post, actually. Why don't you and your boyfriend watch porn together, OP? (If you can find some, that dont make you want to throw up, that is. WTF happened to good, hornifying pornography? Mostly yuchh nowadays. Go for the vintage stuff.) May I recomend Ass Blasters 3D? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1529690 United States09/11/2011 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not normal and it's wrong because it's hurtful. Not one good thing will ever come from it. I caught my husband looking at it after about 20 years of marriage. I went through his temp directory and internet history and went and found all the images he's seen. I made them into a collage and put them as the wallpaper on his computer. He was very ashamed. I asked him how he would feel if he found I'd been looking at men and he admitted, he wouldn't like it one bit. He's never done it since and yes I know because I'm in IT and he has problems attaching a document in Outlook so it's not as if he could hide it from me. Just tell him how it makes you feel and if he respects and loves you, he'll stop. |
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| Keep Smiling User ID: 72261 New Zealand09/11/2011 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its normal Quoting: dutchies guys look porn girls shop the guys drink beer with the guys and tell funny jokes the girls gossip with the girls live goes on There is obviously something wrong with me and my friends. We girls hate to shop We look at the porn with our partners (mostly for a laugh) We all drink and joke together and have a ball. Our men make us laugh and laugh and we make them laugh and laugh. We have very happy time. Threads like this make me realise how lucky we are. (btw - I am not slagging your post - what you say is true for the most part)  |
