and all of you caring people, these being your own words. not one standing up for me now, telling clown to back off or shut up or what ever you say you claim to be... Quoting: chipg 13295122
if someone spoke to a person i cared for in this tone and lack of any respect, i would have a few choice words for them. this makes your so called caring stance a false one to say the least.
i am not asking on any levle for yall to defend me, i can defend myself without any of yalls help, in fact i wish for yall to not defend me, but defend your own claim. you are what you say and do. this is why i say it only empty words on your part.
the truth is you sit on the fence while waiting for the outcome, should it fall on my side of the coin, if you will. you can say what you will, should it not, the same. a nice safe little place to live, but a pittaful place to die, you were luke warm at best...
it's not sad, it is desgusting.
Oh wow. This really needs to be addressed. I'm sorry you feel betrayed that no one came to your defense.
We are not on here all day waiting to pounce on someone for offending you. We all have different schedules and they may vary from day to day, depending on what's going on.
Truth be told, even if I had been on, there are 173 pages and you've handed out a lot of ammuntion. It's natural to expect some of that to be fired back at you.
Did you read your post that was quoted? Don't you feel your post was lacking respect and mocking? Getting respect is a two way street.
You've come a long, long, way in communicating without appearing hateful and mean. The way you handled this one shows that.
You communicated instead of attacking. People communicate in different ways. Sometimes we don't like the way they communicate, but they still have a message and they're sharing their thoughts.
There are some of us that care, but still don't agree with you. That doesn't mean we're "on the fence."
You know where I stand. That doesn't mean I can't care for you as a person without agreeing to some of your thoughts and beliefs.
Caring is so many things. Caring is being here, listening, and understanding. It could be that caring is telling you things you don't want to hear, but need to hear.
It's also understanding how you feel hurt. You've had a life of hurt and a lot to heal. If it's any comfort, most people walk in those shoes.
I'm sorry if you take these words as "empty", but that's all we have Chip. Words. We use them as best we can. Sometimes it may not seem enough, but sometimes it's all we can do. Using the words, even though they aren't what you want to hear, still show caring.