Lot's of good movies in the day, how about a few newer ones that may have a great message.
1).Employee of the month
2).Just Friends

From long ago "It's a Wonderful Life"

But for me it was sneaking into the theater when I was about 12 or so with my older brother and his friends to watch Animal House, no one has been able to try and control me since I made it back to love on my own terms with some real good fun along the way.
Peace to all, Rob