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POST YOUR CHILD SUPPORT BULLSHIT STORIES...
I want to know just how bad it's gotten.

Other countries, feel free to chime in with your fucked up child support system.
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Time to vent!
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Thread: It's about fucking time....Changes to Ohio's child support laws arrive this week

Here's mine.
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My daughter is 22. At the time I left her father she was less than a year old. He worked under the table as a painter. I signed an agreement to only collect $199.00 per month from him and continued on with my life, attending college, getting married, creating a family, etc...

I gave him liberal visitation even though he never paid support. LOL, he used to tell me my husband and I made enough money, he didn't need to give us more.

The state of WA caught up with him so he left the state, moved to Hawaii, just dropped out of my daughters life.

He recently moved back. Still works under the table. He owes thousands because he never paid his measly $199 a month. It ticks him off most that he can't get a fishing license because of child support debt.

I had to work and attend college and raise my daughter with zero assistance from her biological father, you know, the one who helped create her.

You all can bitch all you want about having to help support your children and I'll tell you what, if you don't want to give their mother money then take fifty percent custody and support them that way. It sure would have been nice if her bio dad would have taken care of her half of the time while I was attending school and working. He rarely even stop by to see her.

Doesn't matter now. She's doing well, we're doing well. No hard feelings. Losers will do what they do.

And remember when you start bitching about how much you have to pay... childcare alone is $800.00 per month.
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pay up, hillbilly dead-beat
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pay up, hillbilly dead-beat
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My daughter is 22. At the time I left her father she was less than a year old. He worked under the table as a painter. I signed an agreement to only collect $199.00 per month from him and continued on with my life, attending college, getting married, creating a family, etc...

I gave him liberal visitation even though he never paid support. LOL, he used to tell me my husband and I made enough money, he didn't need to give us more.

The state of WA caught up with him so he left the state, moved to Hawaii, just dropped out of my daughters life.

He recently moved back. Still works under the table. He owes thousands because he never paid his measly $199 a month. It ticks him off most that he can't get a fishing license because of child support debt.

I had to work and attend college and raise my daughter with zero assistance from her biological father, you know, the one who helped create her.

You all can bitch all you want about having to help support your children and I'll tell you what, if you don't want to give their mother money then take fifty percent custody and support them that way. It sure would have been nice if her bio dad would have taken care of her half of the time while I was attending school and working. He rarely even stop by to see her.

Doesn't matter now. She's doing well, we're doing well. No hard feelings. Losers will do what they do.

And remember when you start bitching about how much you have to pay... childcare alone is $800.00 per month.
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bsflag

Nobody is bitching about paying to help raise their kids...it's the tactics and the trap once you're in the system that we are pissed off about.
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I got away with $250 per month at the time of divorce, but my whore of an ex-wife left me for another guy, so I still think it's more than I should have agreed to.

I tried to get primary custody, but, as usual, the courts are heavily biased against fathers.
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
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I told my sons father if he wanted me to not take him to court for child support, he needs to give me sole custody of my son.

yay for mistakes and dead beat parents.

my sons better off. and he has TONS of people who absolutely love him.

i dont ask for child support because i care more about my son growing up happy than taking money from some immature dead beat person that I trusted in a moment of weakness.
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


What kind of disability?

You couldn't work at the 7-11 to help pay to support your child?

Did you wait to inform the court that you were injured or were you proactive and go to the court/support enforcement and let them know of your condition and seek to have the payments lowered BEFORE you were in arrears?

See, that's key. You cannot go into arrears, period. The child can't suddenly be cut off from support. They are real people, not some parasite taking your money.

Go to the court and let them know that while you can't pay such and such an amount because of such and such injury you will gladly take custody of the child half the time, or care for the child so he or she doesn't have to go to day care.

It's BS that judges side with the mothers. My mother is in family law and that is just no longer true, at least here in WA state.

You just have to recognize there are rules in place, whether you like it or not, and you have to play by those rules.
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I told my sons father if he wanted me to not take him to court for child support, he needs to give me sole custody of my son.

yay for mistakes and dead beat parents.

my sons better off. and he has TONS of people who absolutely love him.

i dont ask for child support because i care more about my son growing up happy than taking money from some immature dead beat person that I trusted in a moment of weakness.
 Quoting: itai


Hear, hear, sister.

I knew I could raise my daughter with or without her bio dad. Seriously, work a legit job and take care of your business!

He wouldn't so I left and, knowing he wasn't going to change, I signed that paper asking only $199 a month, something anyone can afford.

Would he even pay that? No, of course not. Now he complains that he can't renew his license.

Whatev.
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


What kind of disability?

You couldn't work at the 7-11 to help pay to support your child?

Did you wait to inform the court that you were injured or were you proactive and go to the court/support enforcement and let them know of your condition and seek to have the payments lowered BEFORE you were in arrears?

See, that's key. You cannot go into arrears, period. The child can't suddenly be cut off from support. They are real people, not some parasite taking your money.

Go to the court and let them know that while you can't pay such and such an amount because of such and such injury you will gladly take custody of the child half the time, or care for the child so he or she doesn't have to go to day care.

It's BS that judges side with the mothers. My mother is in family law and that is just no longer true, at least here in WA state.

You just have to recognize there are rules in place, whether you like it or not, and you have to play by those rules.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


I couldn't get out of the hospital bed for 6 months.

Good enough excuse for ya?
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


What kind of disability?

You couldn't work at the 7-11 to help pay to support your child?

Did you wait to inform the court that you were injured or were you proactive and go to the court/support enforcement and let them know of your condition and seek to have the payments lowered BEFORE you were in arrears?

See, that's key. You cannot go into arrears, period. The child can't suddenly be cut off from support. They are real people, not some parasite taking your money.

Go to the court and let them know that while you can't pay such and such an amount because of such and such injury you will gladly take custody of the child half the time, or care for the child so he or she doesn't have to go to day care.

It's BS that judges side with the mothers. My mother is in family law and that is just no longer true, at least here in WA state.

You just have to recognize there are rules in place, whether you like it or not, and you have to play by those rules.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Went to the modification department immediately and they refused...same story for the subsequent 3 times I applied for modification over the next 2 months from a hospital bed.
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meh, I never got any child support and to be honest, I'm perfectly happy with that.

If you don't want anything to do with your child, and you don't give enough a shit to do something as meager support to a child, then I don't want anything from you.

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I told my sons father if he wanted me to not take him to court for child support, he needs to give me sole custody of my son.

yay for mistakes and dead beat parents.

my sons better off. and he has TONS of people who absolutely love him.

i dont ask for child support because i care more about my son growing up happy than taking money from some immature dead beat person that I trusted in a moment of weakness.
 Quoting: itai


Hear, hear, sister.

I knew I could raise my daughter with or without her bio dad. Seriously, work a legit job and take care of your business!

He wouldn't so I left and, knowing he wasn't going to change, I signed that paper asking only $199 a month, something anyone can afford.

Would he even pay that? No, of course not. Now he complains that he can't renew his license.

Whatev.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Well this person just isn't in my or my sons life anymore and I can rest easy and plan our future without worry. I can pay for my sons care without help and its worth it to me. I can move to fucking ireland if I want to.

but i do think its a different story when the father has a relationship with the child
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I got away with $250 per month at the time of divorce, but my whore of an ex-wife left me for another guy, so I still think it's more than I should have agreed to.

I tried to get primary custody, but, as usual, the courts are heavily biased against fathers.
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Instead of focusing on if your kids are being well cared for you're spending your time calling her a whore and being pissed off?

$250 is too much to pay for the kids you created?? Wow, listen to yourself. I can see why the judge didn't give you custody.

It's over. Accept it, be happy, spend time with your kids, and move on.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
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I want to know just how bad it's gotten.

Other countries, feel free to chime in with your fucked up child support system.
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Be happy you can take care of you kids. Even if it is fucked up, they are your kids.
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


What kind of disability?

You couldn't work at the 7-11 to help pay to support your child?

Did you wait to inform the court that you were injured or were you proactive and go to the court/support enforcement and let them know of your condition and seek to have the payments lowered BEFORE you were in arrears?

See, that's key. You cannot go into arrears, period. The child can't suddenly be cut off from support. They are real people, not some parasite taking your money.

Go to the court and let them know that while you can't pay such and such an amount because of such and such injury you will gladly take custody of the child half the time, or care for the child so he or she doesn't have to go to day care.

It's BS that judges side with the mothers. My mother is in family law and that is just no longer true, at least here in WA state.

You just have to recognize there are rules in place, whether you like it or not, and you have to play by those rules.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Went to the modification department immediately and they refused...same story for the subsequent 3 times I applied for modification over the next 2 months from a hospital bed.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


That is really hard to believe. I'm not saying impossible but really hard to believe.

Were you already in arrears? Did you have an attorney? What state are you in?

If what you say is true, then I'm pissed off for ya, dude.
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Listen to all the women chiming in here.

Not a peep about this fucked up system.

In fact, you support it and at the same time swear to fight tyranny.

Fucking hypocrites.
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I personally know woman who take advantage. One I know has 2 children, collects 600 a month from 2 different fathers and uses it to do whatever she wants.

I don't agree with giving cash to the mother. No, I believe that if you have a child with someone you should be forced to raise that child. Whatever differences you have you should be forced by law to put them aside and raise the child together, even if you sleep in separate rooms.

Too many woman out there having babies and then "leaving" the man only to force him through court to pay child support, so they can use the money to get their hair and nails done, and do whatever they want.

The system is fucked up.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
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thats bullshit. i would be someones worse nightmare if they tried to do me like that.
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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


What kind of disability?

You couldn't work at the 7-11 to help pay to support your child?

Did you wait to inform the court that you were injured or were you proactive and go to the court/support enforcement and let them know of your condition and seek to have the payments lowered BEFORE you were in arrears?

See, that's key. You cannot go into arrears, period. The child can't suddenly be cut off from support. They are real people, not some parasite taking your money.

Go to the court and let them know that while you can't pay such and such an amount because of such and such injury you will gladly take custody of the child half the time, or care for the child so he or she doesn't have to go to day care.

It's BS that judges side with the mothers. My mother is in family law and that is just no longer true, at least here in WA state.

You just have to recognize there are rules in place, whether you like it or not, and you have to play by those rules.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Went to the modification department immediately and they refused...same story for the subsequent 3 times I applied for modification over the next 2 months from a hospital bed.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


That is really hard to believe. I'm not saying impossible but really hard to believe.

Were you already in arrears? Did you have an attorney? What state are you in?

If what you say is true, then I'm pissed off for ya, dude.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Ohio and no up until the day I was injured, I paid like clockwork.

Two days after I called up the mod dept. sent all necessary forms in (which was also fucking ridiculous the amount of info they want, took me two weeks to get it all together)
and they still refused...well...first they said they lost all the paperwork so I had to get it all together again...then they rejected it.

No money for child support, also no money for an attorney.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Alright, I'm having a hard time believing this now.

Do you live in seperate states? Sometimes that can make it more difficult and why it's always best to live near your kids, not only legal-wise but because kids want to see their daddies.

Is there an order of protection? Do you have a visitation schedule?

Sounds like you didn't have representation which is ALWAYS recommended. The courts are ravenous monsters, any court, not just family law. Civilians rarely do well without representation.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
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thats bullshit. i would be someones worse nightmare if they tried to do me like that.
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I'm biding my time.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
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thats bullshit. i would be someones worse nightmare if they tried to do me like that.
 Quoting: itai


I'm biding my time.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Biding your time for what? No, you need to be proactive.

Get yourself an attorney, even if it means selling a beloved possession, and get your shit straight.

It's only going to get worse if you don't.

Once in a while you can find an attorney who will take your case on for free but that's pretty rare.

Dude, you need representation or it's going to get worse.

Why aren't you seeing your kids????
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Alright, I'm having a hard time believing this now.

Do you live in seperate states? Sometimes that can make it more difficult and why it's always best to live near your kids, not only legal-wise but because kids want to see their daddies.

Is there an order of protection? Do you have a visitation schedule?

Sounds like you didn't have representation which is ALWAYS recommended. The courts are ravenous monsters, any court, not just family law. Civilians rarely do well without representation.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Nope she claimed I abandoned them after moving into a new home and not telling where she was located, the court granted the abandonment claim and they legally adopted my boys.

Changed their name and everything.

No order of protection, they have been legally adopted and there is literally nothing I can do.

Have spoken with attorneys, she works for the court system that this order originated from...best buddies with the entire city council, mayor, judges, cops, etc.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Alright, I'm having a hard time believing this now.

Do you live in seperate states? Sometimes that can make it more difficult and why it's always best to live near your kids, not only legal-wise but because kids want to see their daddies.

Is there an order of protection? Do you have a visitation schedule?

Sounds like you didn't have representation which is ALWAYS recommended. The courts are ravenous monsters, any court, not just family law. Civilians rarely do well without representation.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Nope she claimed I abandoned them after moving into a new home and not telling where she was located, the court granted the abandonment claim and they legally adopted my boys.

Changed their name and everything.

No order of protection, they have been legally adopted and there is literally nothing I can do.

Have spoken with attorneys, she works for the court system that this order originated from...best buddies with the entire city council, mayor, judges, cops, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Had them every other weekend up until that point like clockwork.
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Alright, I'm having a hard time believing this now.

Do you live in seperate states? Sometimes that can make it more difficult and why it's always best to live near your kids, not only legal-wise but because kids want to see their daddies.

Is there an order of protection? Do you have a visitation schedule?

Sounds like you didn't have representation which is ALWAYS recommended. The courts are ravenous monsters, any court, not just family law. Civilians rarely do well without representation.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


Nope she claimed I abandoned them after moving into a new home and not telling where she was located, the court granted the abandonment claim and they legally adopted my boys.

Changed their name and everything.

No order of protection, they have been legally adopted and there is literally nothing I can do.

Have spoken with attorneys, she works for the court system that this order originated from...best buddies with the entire city council, mayor, judges, cops, etc.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


How are you paying child support when another man has adopted them?

That's impossible.
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No money or possessions worth enough to sell to get an attorney.

I have lived in extreme poverty for the last 8 years because of this.

Sometimes even not eating so I could pay the support.

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