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POST YOUR CHILD SUPPORT BULLSHIT STORIES...

 
getmeoutofhere

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02/23/2013 02:39 AM
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The Australian Child Support Agency annualised (multiplied by 12 for those who need this explaining) my annual salary, and then started taking a massive amount of money from my pay each fortnight. I was left destitute and had to use my credit card to stay alive. That is why the credit card got over limit and I couldn't be a paid member for several months. I had to go to the Commonwealth Ombudsman to get them to correct it. They had 'corrected' it once before when I complained, but they didn't do it properly, only adjusted for one of my children, not all. It eventually got adjusted to the standard amount but it is still tough. My ex claimed 100% care of our children when they went to live with him because I got a job interstate. I barely survive payday to payday and don't see my children as much as I'd like because I cannot afford the airfares to fly back home to spend time with them. Sucks to be me, but the kids are growing up and getting their own jobs now and we have managed to keep a close relationship despite all of that. I don't tell them about the child support money problems because I don't want them to feel guilty and drop out of school. Getting a good education is important to me, and I want them all to graduate. One thing I have learned, I know how to survive!
Anonymous Coward
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02/23/2013 03:27 AM
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I was barefoot and eating mac and cheese for years in 1973 with two siblings and a mother working to keep our bellies barely full while we though our Dad was not sending child support to us for years. That is what the child services was telling us in Riverside, CA.

Then we found out that child services was keeping and spending our child support for years. $17,000 dollars went a very long way in 1973, and we suffered for it greatly. Government pigs at their best.
 Quoting: reptilicus 5473545


Same thing happened to me.Me and daughters dad were estranged and he remarried.For years we thought he never cared about her.Never got child support etc..Found out years later when I located him he had sent it to the state regularly all that time.My case was closed by then and she was an adult.I ask for records but could never get them..So someone got it.
Have to wonder how much is paid that the kids never know about especially if the mom and dad have no contact at all.
Anonymous Coward
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02/23/2013 04:14 AM
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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Never heard of such an absurd position to be in. The best one to be in is shared custody and no $$$ exchanged between parents...
SilverPatriot

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02/25/2013 12:02 AM

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I don't even get to see the kids I'm paying for.

Must be nice.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


Never heard of such an absurd position to be in. The best one to be in is shared custody and no $$$ exchanged between parents...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34241302


Therefore, which spouse in your opinion gets to skate on their financial responsibility to their children and why do you rejoice in the shirking of ones responsibility to a child the slacker brought into this world. How the hell is this considered to be shared responsibility if one spouse provides nothing but blathers meaningless verbal wind then scurries off like a rodent giving nothing else to their offspring.
rinks361
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02/26/2013 11:51 PM
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I just started paying $375 a month in child support, even though the mother and I are still together, just not married. I'm forced to pay support, even though I've been taking care of our daughter since she was born. We were both surprised that we had to go to a child support hearing, as she never filed for support. We did file for welfare so we could cover our daughter with the needed health care required as she is ineligible for health insurance at her job and my insurance costs $375 a month at my job, which is very unaffordable with having a car note, insurance, rent, food and utility bills on a monthly basis.

Apparently since we weren't listed as living together before the child support order went in, the state went after me for support. This wouldn't be too bad, as the mother returns the money to me so I can afford a place to live. What is total, utter bullshit is it costs me $120 to ensure my daughter has enough formula, diapers and personal effects to last her a whole month. Why the government feels I have to pay $375 a month (plus have their share of that for themselves of course) is beyond me.

We tried to fight it in the child support hearing but were told there was nothing we could do and since we didn't inform whoever the hell we are supposed to inform that we are living together, the support order had to go through (even though she didn't process anything through on her PC yet, considering we just gave her our pay stub information). Now we are going to try to appeal to the court and see if we can have it cancelled or at least lowered. We don't like it that the state forces this on parents who are equally raising their children just so they can take even more from us. redface
Anonymous Coward
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02/27/2013 12:13 AM
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I'e got 4 kids by 4 different men and only one pays up. angryface
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508557


....4 kids, four different men. It takes two to tango!
 Quoting: Graceland

Yea disgusting...
Womenarewhores
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07/06/2013 02:01 AM
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First of all I'd like to point out the epidemic of whores this country has in modern day, American women are not only retarded (on a general large scale but not all women) but there is now laws that allow them to be parasites & be rewarded for it. The industrial revolution and womens rights movements led to the end of marriage now it's a joke, a legal document that entitles women to legal theft in this system of injustice that is our legal system. Child support IS something I agree with however there should be laws governing where and how the money is spent as most whores pocket the cash and expect the father to buy the children thier needs. Whore support is wrong but unfortunately it's legal. Another issue that will blow your hair back is alimony and how somehow it's legal, Yes you can marry a whore for a few years she can go bang the nieghborhood while your deployed in the military or at work or whenever and then you must pay her when she petitions to leave you because in the courts eyes she is so weak & frail minded she does not have the ability to take care of herself as an adult and somehow that's your fault and you now must pay because she eats paint chips. Child support has ruined alot of good men and kept children from thier right to being raised correctly. In some countries divorce is punishable by death. I know tons of sluts are going to comment on this post all pissed off attempting to defend the legal system and all its flaws. I honestly don't care go read the black & white print and all the good individuals sitting in jail right now because some whore was empowered by these BS laws. I went to combat 2 times for this country (actually fought as an infantryman not eating burger king in a foreign country like most of the armed forces), I must say american women today make me lose pride and hope in my country. The older generations would roll over in thier graves I'm sure. American men are weak in todays world, that too has been a big factor in the demise of the modern man. In conclusion, I refuse to get married & give my life away to one of these blood suckers men you need to open your eyes and do a little research into the laws that can alter your life for the worst.
Anonymous Coward
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07/06/2013 02:03 AM
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First of all I'd like to point out the epidemic of whores this country has in modern day, American women are not only retarded (on a general large scale but not all women) but there is now laws that allow them to be parasites & be rewarded for it. The industrial revolution and womens rights movements led to the end of marriage now it's a joke, a legal document that entitles women to legal theft in this system of injustice that is our legal system. Child support IS something I agree with however there should be laws governing where and how the money is spent as most whores pocket the cash and expect the father to buy the children thier needs. Whore support is wrong but unfortunately it's legal. Another issue that will blow your hair back is alimony and how somehow it's legal, Yes you can marry a whore for a few years she can go bang the nieghborhood while your deployed in the military or at work or whenever and then you must pay her when she petitions to leave you because in the courts eyes she is so weak & frail minded she does not have the ability to take care of herself as an adult and somehow that's your fault and you now must pay because she eats paint chips. Child support has ruined alot of good men and kept children from thier right to being raised correctly. In some countries divorce is punishable by death. I know tons of sluts are going to comment on this post all pissed off attempting to defend the legal system and all its flaws. I honestly don't care go read the black & white print and all the good individuals sitting in jail right now because some whore was empowered by these BS laws. I went to combat 2 times for this country (actually fought as an infantryman not eating burger king in a foreign country like most of the armed forces), I must say american women today make me lose pride and hope in my country. The older generations would roll over in thier graves I'm sure. American men are weak in todays world, that too has been a big factor in the demise of the modern man. In conclusion, I refuse to get married & give my life away to one of these blood suckers men you need to open your eyes and do a little research into the laws that can alter your life for the worst.
Anonymous Coward
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07/06/2013 02:10 AM
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My ex paid $6 a fortnight for his two kids, for 9 years...oh lucky me..
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Netizen Ribbonmind

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08/24/2013 07:51 PM

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My ex paid $6 a fortnight for his two kids, for 9 years...oh lucky me..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 486097


I paid 10x more in atty fees, all of our kid's expenses and still never got a dime from my x. I think he owes about $200K. Life is sweet. hf
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beeches

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08/24/2013 08:04 PM

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My daughter is 22. At the time I left her father she was less than a year old. He worked under the table as a painter. I signed an agreement to only collect $199.00 per month from him and continued on with my life, attending college, getting married, creating a family, etc...

I gave him liberal visitation even though he never paid support. LOL, he used to tell me my husband and I made enough money, he didn't need to give us more.

The state of WA caught up with him so he left the state, moved to Hawaii, just dropped out of my daughters life.

He recently moved back. Still works under the table. He owes thousands because he never paid his measly $199 a month. It ticks him off most that he can't get a fishing license because of child support debt.

I had to work and attend college and raise my daughter with zero assistance from her biological father, you know, the one who helped create her.

You all can bitch all you want about having to help support your children and I'll tell you what, if you don't want to give their mother money then take fifty percent custody and support them that way. It sure would have been nice if her bio dad would have taken care of her half of the time while I was attending school and working. He rarely even stop by to see her.

Doesn't matter now. She's doing well, we're doing well. No hard feelings. Losers will do what they do.

And remember when you start bitching about how much you have to pay... childcare alone is $800.00 per month.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1554261


you had a long, hard road, and have every right to be angry. I wish you and your daughter the best. What a nightmare.
Now is the time.
beeches

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08/24/2013 08:08 PM

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They refused to lower my payments when I was on a severe disability.

Making nothing and forced to pay over 600 bucks a month.

Then, because of debt racking up they take my license which pulled the rug out from under at least 60% of the jobs I was available to perform.

Real fucking smart system.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2050028


OP, that is a mess, too. Both sides should be more angry at the system than at each other, usually. There are exceptions.
any time the courts enter your life, you give up a lot of freedom.
Now is the time.