Biding your time for what? No, you need to be proactive.

Get yourself an attorney, even if it means selling a beloved possession, and get your shit straight.

It's only going to get worse if you don't.

Once in a while you can find an attorney who will take your case on for free but that's pretty rare.

Dude, you need representation or it's going to get worse.

Why aren't you seeing your kids????