Op,

You need to take responsibility for bringing your child or children into this world and accept your financial obligations. Your initial post did not indicate problems with visitation hence it appears you resent “wasting” your money on your own children when you could be out drinking, golfing or whatever instead.

Would you be happy keeping your money in your pocket and walking away from your children, as that appears what might be best for your family, as eventually your children will feel your resentment and animosity towards them?