So, OP, are saying that when you look at a man
you are thinking that he is thinking about having
sordid sex with you?

It sounds to me, in all seriousness, like you have the
problem. Not all men are beasts that can't think in
more creative and productive ways than that.

I know plenty of women who get angry because they aren't
being noticed. We men are very busy people and when we
get out we like to talk about serious things, not just
fantasize about women.

Out of the threads on page one, yours is probably the only
sex thread going!