I dont mean physically. And i dont mean in an insulting way either. In both of these situations i believe i have shifted my consciousness much away from allowing the perceived (initial) feelings of frustration or insult to actually effect me emotionally and (most importantly) energetically at all.

but in other instances in our lives we are challenged from a deep emotional energy of pain from our heart center and this is what im talking about. when we are lied to, manipulated, used, etc. from someone in which we have an established relationship and deep sense of love for already. these types of emotions can be intense and extremely hard to deal with for those of us with such open hearts. personally i struggle greatly with being effected by people who i love so much and they do something so inconsiderate to my heart. i can feel and understand these pains stem from the attachment i have emotionally to these people... but that is just my conflict. i dont understand how NOT to be attached to sincere loved ones and family members who you love deeply. especially when you are honest to them and treat them with love and respect in the most high. when someone like this hurts your heart it is hard to "see through" the negative feelings and choose a higher consideration..

i ask if anyone has any advice or personal insight to provide help because at the moment im dealing with an issue in my relationship with a loved one i have had a DEEP connection with for over 4 years and i dont understand how she can treat me the way that she does. there are times when this person makes me feel so absolutely NOT cared for and like she completely has no consideration for my emotions at all. i wonder as to how she can consciously choose these decisions to hurt me in the ways that she has. but anyways any feedback on how to deal with or release these ideas im sure we all struggle with, will be greatly appreciated thanks