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Sandi_T User ID: 1301649 United States 10/24/2011 08:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow... Quoting: exiled1 I am amazed at the outpouring of support...it really does mean a lot to me. I usually am not the type to write my feelings down. I usually try to mask things with humor. It's just how I am. Thank You To those of you who think I am trolling, yes maybe posting on here is a bit odd to some. Fortunately for you, you apparently have a large friend base to give you support. I do not. I can't expect my family to stay with me 24 hours a day, they all have families and lives to tend to still. Right now I am at home with nothing more than my dog and cell phone to give me support. I spent most my adult life trying to grow a business and family. I didn't leave room for close friendships. Yes, I see now how foolish that was..all in the pursuit of money basically. I felt that was what fathers did and were supposed to mainly do. In the last few years, I have lost everything else, and am finding myself quite alone. Even my sons were off doing their own thing most of the time..Yes, I realize I spend way too much time on here, but there are people on here I have grown to care for and enjoy conversing with as best we can in this situation. It has helped me tremendously over the past few months, and I am grateful for having met them...and very grateful for everyones kind words. I know I am pathetically fucking desperate but I can't help it right now...I wish this on no one any way thanks for all the great posts, it does help...got me through writing this all down without losing it. I know you feel alone. I'm so very sorry that you feel alone. But you are not. You are surrounded by the hearts and the thoughts of more of us here on GLP than you can even imagine. Thank you for the opportunity to reach out to you in love. Thank you for letting us be here to offer you what you may not have directly in your life right now. No more requests in the "Strangest things" thread please. :hf: Past Lives requests thread: Thread: That Which Once Was: Past Lives |
Sandi_T User ID: 1301649 United States 10/24/2011 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the flag must go up Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3930449 your son died yesterday and your on glp today hhmmmmmm attention seeker in such a sick fucked up way From one human being to another, I would rather risk giving love to someone so desperate for it that they make something up... than fail to give love to someone who truly has lost his son. Love is never wasted. No more requests in the "Strangest things" thread please. :hf: Past Lives requests thread: Thread: That Which Once Was: Past Lives |
tinygreen User ID: 427545 United States 10/24/2011 08:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i am so very sorry for you loss, exile1. there is nothing i can do except send love and prayers your way. many people are thinking of you and both your sons, sending love and strength. never be sorry to reach out to others, we are made that way. you will find that many of us have lived through tragedy and loss. we will be there for you. love to you and yours. 'it is not the duty of the police to protect you. their job is to protect THE CORPORATION and arrest code breakers.' (sapp vs tallahassee) |
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tinygreen User ID: 427545 United States 10/24/2011 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the flag must go up Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3930449 your son died yesterday and your on glp today hhmmmmmm attention seeker in such a sick fucked up way From one human being to another, I would rather risk giving love to someone so desperate for it that they make something up... than fail to give love to someone who truly has lost his son. Love is never wasted. those are wise and kind words, sandi_t. very well spoken and extremely correct. 'it is not the duty of the police to protect you. their job is to protect THE CORPORATION and arrest code breakers.' (sapp vs tallahassee) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1394135 United States 10/24/2011 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and from me too, a parent should never have to bury their child. Been there, so I can say it gets better, be mindful of others that will need your attention and strengths from now on. If it is any consolation (and I know it is not much, yet) he is fortunate to have been recalled by the manufacturer, you have no comprehension of the shiitestorm on it's way. It's some cold comfort, but there will come a time that you will find some small comfort in that he got out quick and easy. |
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Jude User ID: 801199 United States 10/24/2011 08:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the flag must go up Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3930449 your son died yesterday and your on glp today hhmmmmmm attention seeker in such a sick fucked up way From one human being to another, I would rather risk giving love to someone so desperate for it that they make something up... than fail to give love to someone who truly has lost his son. Love is never wasted. those are wise and kind words, sandi_t. very well spoken and extremely correct. Agreed..!! NOW is the time to truly 'turn the other cheek'... Love them more (them being those who are spitting hate) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3673855 United States 10/24/2011 08:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm so sad for you and your family. I lost my father last month and even that can't compare to the loss of a child. It is my worst fear and nightmare in life. You and your son are in my prayers. You need to grieve but don't forget your other son and family need you more than ever. Take heart in knowing you will all be together soon. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 3613770 United States 10/24/2011 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am so sorry for you tragic loss. I will say prayers for your son, you and family. As for being tough, I do not think anyone is tough enough to have a child taken away and not feel horribly damaged, heart, soul and spirit. I pray for you to overcome the heavy grief before you lose yourself. Your son does not want this to destroy you. |
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ttiger27 User ID: 3953736 Canada 10/24/2011 08:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the flag must go up Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3930449 your son died yesterday and your on glp today hhmmmmmm attention seeker in such a sick fucked up way From one human being to another, I would rather risk giving love to someone so desperate for it that they make something up... than fail to give love to someone who truly has lost his son. Love is never wasted. those are wise and kind words, sandi_t. very well spoken and extremely correct. Agreed..!! NOW is the time to truly 'turn the other cheek'... Love them more (them being those who are spitting hate) Hey anonymous coward you truly are a coward, a cold hearted human if you can even be called human, But you are definitely one of the lowest forms of life on this earth!!! |
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MentalPeace User ID: 1637432 Argentina 10/24/2011 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Embrace the pain. Dont avoid it. Be present with that pain feel it reaching the bottom of your soul. Every human being live his life and die and he is not your posesion, he is another human being. He was close, you loved him, but he is no your posesion. Every human being laugh and suffer for itself. Cry, happiness and grief are two faces of the same coin it is not bad to cry an be sad. But you must be profoundly sad, entirely sad... with all of your soul, embrace the sadness, dont look at it as if it were domething bad. Be in peace. I love you. Sorry for my english. Alex. “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3648934 United States 10/24/2011 08:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy Im sorry for your loss. I wish I could say something to help ease your pain... maybe just a little bit of hope in this dying world. I came to find that Jesus words are true..."I am the Resurrection and the life, he that believes in me, though he be dead, yet shall he live"... come check out this site and maybe you will find an ease to your pain here. I have. propheticseer*com blessings to you my friend. |
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Angel_Eyes User ID: 2106883 United States 10/24/2011 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm so sorry....I can not even begin to imagine the heartache and pain. I pray that God will hold you and your family in his healing hands...... and give you comfort and the strength to go on. I pray that you..... and your son.... stand in God's holy presence and have his everlasting love. I pray this in Jesus's name...Amen. |
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