My son died yesterday, please say a prayer for his soul...and mine

I can not even begin to comprehend the hurt you must feel. Stay strong brother. Focus your energies on your remaining son. And thank you for sharing. I am turning off my cpu to go for a swim with my boy.

I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. Your post made me cry. I lost my brother when he was 20 - he was a Marine and was murdered on his base just after basic training. I lost my sister two years ago when she was 40, and I lost my mother just this past April. I remember standing in the casket room with my only remaining sibling wondering what in the hell I was doing in that room - just seemed so surreal.

Your post made me cry on so many different levels. I don't know you, but I share your sorrow. I hope that you are able to make it through these next couple weeks and find hope and maybe even some comfort somewhere in the beautiful memories of your son.

The only thing that gets me by some days is knowing my mother is with me and she is happy. I know this to be a fact, although my heart is so saddened by her leaving us.I hope you are able to find something to get you through this. I am sending love and hugs to you and your sons and your family. I hope you are able to someday find some peace. [[Hugs]]

When you are ready there are many organizations that help with coping with loss of an adult child - I hope that you are able to seek that kind of support if you need it. I haven't read the other posts responding to you so someone may have already mentioned it and if so I'm sorry for duplication - just know that support is available to you when you are ready if you so choose.

so sorry for the lost of your son anyone who has lost a love one please go to this site and listen to the song!


I have created this website so you can
listen to a very special song titled,
"Until We're Together Again."

My intentions are simply to reassure you that your loved one is happy and safe on the other side, and
for you to know that you will be together again.

Before you listen to the song, please take a moment to read "The Story" behind it all, and be sure to sign the guestbook to let me know you stopped by!


Thank you,
Kathy Cochran

Yes, that is a picture of me and my Q-Boy. Q crossed to the Rainbow Bridge on April 13th, 2009 at the wonderful old age of 15. Our hearts are hurting very deeply but Mark and I take comfort in knowing we will be together again.....one day.

The Orlando Sentinel has already done a story on his life and death. You can read the story by clicking here: STORY

I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way...

My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now.
One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings.

I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now???

I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow...

I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this.

I love you buddy

I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way...

My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now.
One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings.

I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now???

I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow...

I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this.

I love you buddy

I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way...

My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now.
One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings.

I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now???

I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow...

I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this.

I love you buddy