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anon User ID: 3992206 United Kingdom 10/25/2011 09:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can not even begin to comprehend the hurt you must feel. Stay strong brother. Focus your energies on your remaining son. And thank you for sharing. I am turning off my cpu to go for a swim with my boy. Quoting: Macraider I lost a daughter to cot death 1 month after her first birthday january 25 she was an angel it was totally unexpected , you will come through it my friend, you never forget I still havent but the pain lessens, I pray for your strength and courage and the soul of your beloved son |
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Dark Age User ID: 2492215 United States 10/25/2011 09:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry, can't image, God bless. Freedom requires breathing room, the Constitution presupposes that there will be some crazies among us so that the rest of us can enjoy freedom. - Judge Andrew Napolitano A huge shit cloud is coming! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1321858 United States 10/25/2011 09:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. Your post made me cry. I lost my brother when he was 20 - he was a Marine and was murdered on his base just after basic training. I lost my sister two years ago when she was 40, and I lost my mother just this past April. I remember standing in the casket room with my only remaining sibling wondering what in the hell I was doing in that room - just seemed so surreal. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2169990 Your post made me cry on so many different levels. I don't know you, but I share your sorrow. I hope that you are able to make it through these next couple weeks and find hope and maybe even some comfort somewhere in the beautiful memories of your son. The only thing that gets me by some days is knowing my mother is with me and she is happy. I know this to be a fact, although my heart is so saddened by her leaving us.I hope you are able to find something to get you through this. I am sending love and hugs to you and your sons and your family. I hope you are able to someday find some peace. [[Hugs]] When you are ready there are many organizations that help with coping with loss of an adult child - I hope that you are able to seek that kind of support if you need it. I haven't read the other posts responding to you so someone may have already mentioned it and if so I'm sorry for duplication - just know that support is available to you when you are ready if you so choose. Hi I don't know if you had herd of this website please cheek it out their is a song called until we're together again this site is a blessing for those who lost a loved one my God watch over you. [link to www.spiritlyric.com] |
abhie User ID: 3992812 India 10/25/2011 09:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry to hear this. May God keep his soul, and give you and your family the strength to cope. Peace unto you. (I'm male, mid-40's, and live and work in India as a designer. Writing is a passion of mine, as is painting. My avatar represents my protagonist against the Illuminati -a female warrior.) :laotszungb: |
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kitkat11 User ID: 1321858 United States 10/25/2011 09:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so sorry for the lost of your son anyone who has lost a love one please go to this site and listen to the song! I have created this website so you can listen to a very special song titled, "Until We're Together Again." My intentions are simply to reassure you that your loved one is happy and safe on the other side, and for you to know that you will be together again. Before you listen to the song, please take a moment to read "The Story" behind it all, and be sure to sign the guestbook to let me know you stopped by! Thank you, Kathy Cochran Yes, that is a picture of me and my Q-Boy. Q crossed to the Rainbow Bridge on April 13th, 2009 at the wonderful old age of 15. Our hearts are hurting very deeply but Mark and I take comfort in knowing we will be together again.....one day. The Orlando Sentinel has already done a story on his life and death. You can read the story by clicking here: STORY |
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kit kat11 User ID: 1321858 United States 10/25/2011 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so sorry for the lost of your son anyone who has lost a love one please go to this site and listen to the song! Quoting: kitkat11 1321858 I have created this website so you can listen to a very special song titled, "Until We're Together Again." My intentions are simply to reassure you that your loved one is happy and safe on the other side, and for you to know that you will be together again. Before you listen to the song, please take a moment to read "The Story" behind it all, and be sure to sign the guestbook to let me know you stopped by! Thank you, Kathy Cochran Yes, that is a picture of me and my Q-Boy. Q crossed to the Rainbow Bridge on April 13th, 2009 at the wonderful old age of 15. Our hearts are hurting very deeply but Mark and I take comfort in knowing we will be together again.....one day. The Orlando Sentinel has already done a story on his life and death. You can read the story by clicking here: STORY [link to www.spiritlyric.com] |
kitkat11 User ID: 1321858 United States 10/25/2011 09:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this is a song for anyone who has lost a loved one god bless [link to www.spiritlyric.com] |
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Through2012 User ID: 3612639 China 10/25/2011 09:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really could feel your sadness pricking your heart now also as a father of a child......, All could I do for you deep sorrow is to share tears on heart with you and an old Chinese saying (I translated here for your relief) "What we could do before an unexpected misfortune is just control our depress hold on and let it silently slip away from our life in a natural way"-----as you might know we just had an unfortunate little girl Yueyue died(killed) by traffic in China, which cause so large sadness to us. |
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WhoseZoominWho User ID: 2968733 United States 10/25/2011 09:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy I completely understand what you are going through. I just lost my spouse of 20 years three weeks ago. Although in your case you didn't get a chance to say goodbye. Grief and quietness are the worst. I wake up crying at night. I never knew that one could cry in their sleep. Also, understand that as a visitor of GLP you have a glimpse of what is coming to this earth and rest in the fact that your son will not have to endure this. Also keep in mind that you will see him again someday. My deepest and sincerest condolences. The Broken Cord We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name In life we loved you dearly, In death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, You did not go alone; For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, Your love is still our guide; And though we cannot see you, You are always at our side. Our family chain is broken, And nothing seems the same; but as God calls us, one by one, The Chain will link again. ---Author Unknown This is one of many sympathy poems that has helped me make it through. God Bless |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 10/25/2011 10:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am so sorry about your son and the pain you are going through. Here is a link I hope will help and give you comfort. The Bible does say that we can see our loved one again one day soon. [link to www.watchtower.org] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1438107 United States 10/25/2011 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers going up for your son and for you. Tears heal, so don't be afraid to let them rain. Cherish the memories, know you were loved by him, and that doesn't end. You will find strength when you need it, and lean on family & close friends when you can't. Blessings*~ |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2706830 United States 10/25/2011 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | exiled1, there is something about you and your son that seems to really be resonating with people. it's a positive thing even in this sadness and tragedy. i think it is unique and unusual, and i hope you will see this, so that you may have some kind of consolation. bless your heart |
magazineguy User ID: 2526802 Germany 10/25/2011 10:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am very sorry for your loss. Recently I have also experienced the loss of family members due to illness. I have found tremendous comfort in watching psychic/medium Lisa Williams who tells us they are not gone and will always be with us, watching over us. I hope you have time to visit a few of her links and hear what she has to say. Thanks and God Bless. [link to www.lisawilliams.com] [link to www.mylifetime.com] |
Relativity User ID: 1542283 United States 10/25/2011 10:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry for you loss...my thoughts are with you..May your son rest in the arms of the lord!! “In finding balance between lies and trust there will never be a better source than to speak your truth or make your peace some other way.” ~Sully Erna Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then do not be too eager to deal out death in judgment. For even the very wise cannot see all ends. -Gandalph "A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool." - William Shakespeare |
Tears User ID: 3977401 United States 10/25/2011 10:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Makes me cry to read this as my son is the reason that I get out of bed every morning. What a profound loss for you. I don't know how I can deal with this if my son passes so suddenly. I saw the movie, 'Courageous' and it deals with a child dying suddenly in a car accident. Prayers for you and yours. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1522137 United States 10/25/2011 10:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy Eternal Father, I offer you the precious blood of thy divine son Jesus, in union with the masses said throughout the world today, for the soul of this woman's son. May he be in your divine presence and gaze upon your most holy face for all eternity. Amen. |
anonimalle User ID: 3996538 United States 10/25/2011 10:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy We lost our son last month killed by a careless cell phone operator speeder. I begged God to take me and leave my child. This is the worst thing we have ever gone through. Behind every myth lies a mystery, and every legend holds an echo of the truth …… Que Sera Sera "For not by numbers of men nor by measure of body but by valor of soul is war decided" Bilisarius " At the siege of Vienna in 1683 Islam seemed poised to overrun Christian Europe. We are in a new phase of a very old war." Gates of Vienna. "May we smite our enemies to the darkest chamber of hell, for we wish only to live in peace, and they desire only to put their boot upon our neck." |
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