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Big Daddy D Chaotic Constitutionalist User ID: 506049 United States 10/25/2011 01:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Last Edited by Big Daddy D on 10/25/2011 01:06 PM HWR The US is a One Party State controlled by a small cadre of Financiers Big Daddy D |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1221928 United Kingdom 10/25/2011 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy I have seen the streams and rivers of souls that lead to the corner stone ( statue of christ ).You should not give up hope. |
strangela User ID: 4003327 France 10/25/2011 01:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | may i ask how did your son died ... ?? was he driving? ... was he the passenger?? was he alone walking on the street and a car hit him??? was he with some one else that was driving that also died?????? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1291630 His son was alone & driving & did strike another car but no one else was injured. Please continue to pray for peace and love for exiled1's family. My heart is . My only child turns 13 today and I cant imagine life without him in it... Music produces a kind of pleasure which human nature cannot do without. ~Confucius |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2595311 Canada 10/25/2011 01:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My love, prayers and sympathy go out to you and your family. Though I don't know you I know the road that you will have to travel though agonizing and difficult and often at times you wish to just give up on life altogether, please have faith and know you're not alone and loved truly. I don't know if you believe in God but God is what saved me my brother was killed in a mva just before he was to turn 26 it happened in another province so never got to see him or tell him how much a love him though I know both your son and my brother are in heaven. When life seems at the most darkest pit of hell you can go through there is a light at the end of the tunnel and if you cry out to God He will comfort you and heal all your wounds. Time heals and God is the one whom saved my life I pray that you find comfort and healing and that you always know that you're loved beyond anything and that you will see your son oneday again. |
Only Me Strawberry Girl User ID: 947435 United States 10/25/2011 01:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are just no words to make this better, Exiled. I am so sorry this has happened. I can't imagine it happening to me. I don't know what I would do. I'm proud of you for being strong enough to begin working on funeral arrangements. I truly wish there was something I can say or do to help you feel better. Rest in peace, little man. Goodbye, halcyon days... There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory mentioned, which states that this has already happened. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1319764 United States 10/25/2011 01:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry Partner. So very sorry. Take time to be with your grief. Your son was lucky to have a dad that loved him as much as you obviously loved him. So many young men have NO fathers in this world. So, the fact you loved him this much, as evidenced by your words, that is a VERY special thing. Peace be with you as you struggle through this dark valley of life. Why we must suffer these things no one knows. Why some are blessed while others suffer no one knows. We are but to shoulder through the travails of this life...and do the best we can. And trust in the grace of the universe...despite our pain. Peace be with you. |
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BBQ Guy User ID: 1410244 United States 10/25/2011 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen..... Very sorry to hear of your loss, I have two boys and one girl and I could never imagine what you are going through. Stay strong my friend and keep your head up; your son will always be in your heart. "If Tyranny and Oppression come to this land, it will be in the guise of fighting a foreign enemy"- James Madison "Joining the military does not mean that you will be defending the country. The purpose of the U.S. military should be to defend the United States. Period. Yet, one of the greatest myths ever invented is that the current U.S. military somehow defends our freedoms. First of all, our freedoms are not in danger of being taken away by foreign countries; if they are taken away it will be by our own government. It is not a country making war on us that we need to fear, it is our government making war on the Bill of Rights. And second, how is stationing troops in 150 different regions of the world on hundreds of U.S. military bases defending our freedoms? It is not the purpose of the U.S. military to change regimes, secure the borders of other countries, or spread democracy at gunpoint. The Department of Defense should first and foremost be the Department of Homeland Security."--Laurence Vance-- |
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DDan User ID: 4015335 Germany 10/25/2011 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is nothing anyone can say here (or with you) that can make it better...NOTHING! You will never stop hurting...so let it hurt as it is part of the process. You need to cry, you need to hurt, you need to feel. What you need to remember is that you have another son that needs to go through the same process you do. Don't forget to let him know how you felt for your son that passed......but do NOT forget to hug him and let him know how happy you are that he is STILL with you!!! He not only lost his brother, but he lost his best friend too, someone he looked up to. Now you have but one son to raise now...don't make him pay for being the one that lived. Instead show him how happy you are that he wasn't in that car! I am not someone that will tell you about God and what to to religously...but I will say that you will see him again. Until then there are others in your life that need you more than ever...hell, you need each other!! Focus on that and you will find yourself not crying as much, not thinking about him that much, etc... but you will NEVER forget. You will make it and you will be stronger from it. And when someone else looses someone close, you be sure to tell them that men cry too and that it is all part of the process...it is called HEALING!! Don't be affraid to heal!!! |
dettro99 User ID: 3506095 United States 10/25/2011 05:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well think you useless fucking american arsehole how the mothers felt when you fuckers and your troops killed innocent men women and children fucking retards, now you know what it feels like what comes around goes around fucking muppets and i hope you will learn whats its like when someone loses someone they love like all those tens of thousands of people your american troops killed for fuck all and all the children they raped too i hope you suffer. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4016914 |