I think sex is gross!

At least you have a sense of humor. Good karma for you!

OP, when you really love a person nothing feels gross about them, in fact you crave them, their touch, taste, smell and everything about them.

You need to relax and get what ever is in your head gone, you're missing out.

Well, sweetheart, at least you can feel sexual. That's a good thing. Sex is a gift, but there are a lot of things that can keep us from being able to enjoy it.

I am a 37 year old woman and I've had two children. I know a thing or two about sex. You are correct about the fluids being gross. I totally have the same problem. I don't think there is ANYTHING wrong with thinking about holding hands or having a cerebral relationship thing with a member of the opposite sex in order to reach sexual pleasure. There is nothing wrong with that and I hope you can understand and believe me about that. You don't have to think about the really nitty gritty parts of sex to enjoy sexuality. We are all different and that's a fact.

First thing I want to impress on you is that followed by some facts about being a female that might help you. I have a vagina, dear, but I am certainly not a vagina or the secretions of one. I am a human being just like all other women are human beings first and foremost. I live in my mind and use my body to do the things that I need to get done to live and sometimes for things that I want to do-that's what it's there for. Women have a "reverse phallus" and the penis head is located in the skin above the opening to our body. It was designed by God to be this way so that I can have sex with my husband and so that I could have children-that was before I had all my reproductive organs removed.

When I was 11, I had my first period and it really sucked. I was so angry with my body for doing that because I didn't want to do it and I think there are other women who feel that way, esp when we are young ladies. I was angry with God sometimes because I had to have blood coming out of my body and it lasted for a week and it hurt me really bad. Sometimes, my back hurt so bad I wanted to put a wooden board across the lower part of my back and have someone heavy stand on it because that felt like it might relieve the horrific pain. The blood is blood and clotted material and it is disgusting to us women as well, but we can't exactly get away from it you understand. It feels like peeing your pants to be honest, so I never equate it with bowel type of things because it feels like urination to a female. Sometimes when you are on your period and you stand up, it runs out and you have to look to see if you just peed your pants. It's an irritation, but it is one that we have to bear in order to have our children. I did want children.

Personally, I think it would feel very weird to have a penis and testicles hanging down. I don't think I would like the feeling of that myself. I have had problems when I have had issues with the ejaculate as it makes me itch wherever it comes into contact with my skin and I hate that. Also, ejaculate contains chemicals that are intended to cause the vagina to "convulse" sort of, but it also effects the bowel because they are in the same area, so the day after I've had sex, I usually end up having stomach pains and have to have BM's that I find to be not normal and irritating. My husband doesn't understand why that would bother me, but I am telling you what it is like to have a vagina and be a woman, so I hope you are sensitive enough of a person to understand that that is frustrating to me.

Now, when a woman is sexually aroused, the vagina does give off a fluid from the Cowper's glan-why on earth they have to call it that I will never understand cause it sounds even worse. The fluid is to lube things up because it would hurt a woman very badly to be penetrated and have sex dry, I'm sure you understand that. Talk about and Indian Skin Burn-Oi.

Men's sexual fluids smell very bad to me. I don't like the smell and especially the taste of semen. I find it VERY disgusting. Condoms can help with that so that you don't have to come into contact with quite so much of the woman's fluids and to keep her from having to come into contact with yours. Still, I highly do NOT believe that you should have sexual intercourse with a woman if you aren't married to each other. God designed all of these things and He intended for this to be something that only married people do with their spouse-I don't care what this world tells people that's what God wanted. And He does want married people to do it, OK. God ain't no prude, I'll have you know. Sex is supposed to be a gentle, precious, intimate joining of two people. Unfortunately, this world has perverted God's creation of sex until it is just a violent, dirty, nasty thing and a lot of people can't enjoy it unless it is illicit and not as God intended. I'm so sorry that the world is this way, but it's satan's plan, not God's.

I don't know if any of this helps, but you sound like a real nice young man and I hope that you will be able to find a young lady who is kind and caring and that the two of you will be able to have a wonderful, happy life together. I know that would make God very happy-especially if you included Him in your lives as your Lord and Savior. Then maybe if the fluid issue bothers you, and believe me it bothers me too, dear, you and your wife can use condoms unless you are actively trying to get pregnant-which is a wonderful thing dear to have a child of your own so it's not gross in that case because you are trying to get pregnant with a new life to love and nurture.

God Bless You Dear! Don't let the perverts of this world cause you to lose out on the beautiful gift of sex that God intended for you to have. He loves you as His Child, if you love His Son Jesus Christ.

There is nothing wrong with you my sweet. You are the way things should be...NOT the way things have become! Society is being brainwashed into a lower primal vibration. Your reaction to this reflects you to be a more highly evolved, older soul and perhaps even a crystal. Just be who you are and trust that when the time is right and the right person is by your side, you'll be inspired to express your sexuality on a deeper level and in a more profound way:)

Oh, you mad? Happened to you to eh?

I understand what you're saying, I read upon A sexuals, i thought i may be, but it's not that i don't find them attractive physically... I just am not sexually attracted.. and i can only speak for myself on this, but, in my eyes Beauty is Beauty, I see a beautiful paintiing or scenary, I don't get the urge to wanna screw it.. it's No different with a person..they're beautiful and that's it.

Thankyou. Back atcha.

Aunty, you sure jumped on this post quick.. you a cougar? lol

Okay, now that's gross!

Apollo! I'm a respectful girl. No cooties, no STD's and not containing multiple semens.

Permucosis...it's what you get when you don't have enough sex!

Now THERE'S a piece of information we could do without....LMFAO.

And hey, WHERE ARE YOU?! You were suppose to get here a WEEK ago, and the month before, YOU WERE EARLY! DAMNIT WOMAN!

Stop loving on you family dog, the St, Bernard and try a human and you will be fine. Plus you don't have to put up with the doggy breath.

Well maybe ?

Thats good to know..

LOL. Damnyouautocorrect

And the irony is, OP, hot women will obsess to screw your brains out because you don't show them any attention. Women go nuts over stuff like that.

Too much thinking can ruin a good thing.

it is gross and that is also its attraction.

sort of like watching a pig rolling around in the mud or dogs sniffing ass and crotches.

you have a problem with being a living creature.

you need to find the grossest drug addicted, street walking prostitute (male or female) and cure yourself.

LOL. I love you Anonymous poster.

Oh noes. Are you thinking of expanding the family?

ppfft ;)

;)

Maybe you would make a good priest, They don't have sex or they are suppose to anyway. They devote their life to God and thats it except for a few that are naughty. lol

That's because you're right.

It is gross. All those fluids.

But the feeling is interesting.

SEX IS SACRED.

I do believe.

In truth you will be dead soon.
Your soul will still yearn and for such you will perish.

Not like it's a bad thing, hey, you try to schpoiking when you're SPIRIT.

I kind of feel this way.

hahahahaha