| Users Online Now: 1,186 (Who's On?) | Visitors Today: 344,542 | |
| Pageviews Today: 456,830 | Threads Today: 148 | Posts Today: 2,015 |
| 03:58 AM | ||
| Users Online Now: 1,186 (Who's On?) | Visitors Today: 344,542 | |
| Pageviews Today: 456,830 | Threads Today: 148 | Posts Today: 2,015 |
| 03:58 AM | ||
Judge's Daughter who was beaten Intervoewed with her Mom | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1170246  Canada11/03/2011 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't believe people can actually defend beating a 16 year old. Spanking a little kid is one thing as long as it doesn't really hurt.....beating may stop things in the short term but odds are your creating a monster down the line. Of course this will be someone elses problem which is what it comes down to.....a lazy response from a lazy parent. Make the child not want to hurt you or disappoint you out of love not fear. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3868757 The response here from so many "men" is so disappointing, & sadly points out what a sorry state of affairs we have here. We still seem to be in the dark ages with regard to raising our children. This is a generational problem that will not go away as long as we make excuses & denials & cover-ups. Why can we not recognise that as long as we keep beating the crap out of our children we will raise up yet another violent & dysfunctional society. Are we not tired of this yet. No excuses for this anymore.....so many classes available to help parents these days. But this story highlights 2 problems......the one of an abusive father & spouse and the other a Judge who is an abuser making decisions in a family court on behalf of other children. This is a serious problem & I believe that any of you fathers here would not want to be on the receiving end of this mans judgement if you were to go before him in a trial. He is a monster and a hyprocite. |
Madame X  User ID: 1442220 Canada11/03/2011 08:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Madame X The mother was divorced in 07, from what I gathered from the sort interview I saw this am, he is still harrassing and trying to control their lives, with money, cars whatever. Daughter is stronger now, been out of the house for awhile and is now in control of herself.  with all due respect Madame, If Judge wanted to gain access he has all the legal means necessary to have doen so and I am sure he would have used the full extent of legal powers to do so long before. It really is that simple If the daughter now a stronger woman wanted to resolve this there are legal means that ALL of society would follow, but in her and her aggressor's (ie robomom's) case, they decided to do it via Youtube?, and 7 years later, so this is what I am contesting, not the beating, or the excessive use of force. She obviously had her reasons, it is not for us to judge her. I am sorry, I don't understand your first paragraph. Makes no sense. It is a family matter that has gone out of control, I can sympathize with her actions and reactions to what she has done. It will be very healing for her in the long run, dangerous for her in the short. Being stronger and no longer under his control, perhaps she felt the time was right to use this weapon. Apparently she had given him warning to stop harassing or she would release it. Guess he didn't and she kept her word to him and did it. Maybe he should have taken her at her word. After all, wouldn't that be one of the lessons he beat into her, to tell the truth and keep your word. Guess he reaped what he sowed. Pardon Madame, je suis desole that you did not understand the first paragraph, allow me to explain... If the good Judge wanted to cause harrassment, he had the legal means to cause a great deal of problems for the family thorough his legal connections, but he did not... Any mean spirited Judge not that I know of any, would have pressured the family until they would be forced into care,k where he could have had the rights to take the children into his care, which by all accounts he did not, thus he is not the bad one here. Ahh, you truly don't understand abusers. They work in the shadows, while most often presenting a sunny front to the world. NO way would a judge use his judicial powers to crush his family, it would bring him down faster than the video. A judge is supposed to remain impartial, a critical thinker, not some idiot that goes off on his family. He is, most certainly the bad one here. What he did to the girl would most definitively earn him the loss of his position as well as a review by the law society as well as possible criminal charges. I am thankful I live in a civilized society that recognizes that no human deserves or should ever be treated the way he treated his daughter. By the way some of the effects of abusive child rearing. Child » does not trust » fearful of physical contact » startles easily, cowers, cringes » afraid when other children cry » aggressiveness or withdrawn » exaggerated politeness » profound sadness » difficulties in school » difficulty concentrating » lying » stealing » low self-worth » psychosomatic illnesses Youth » does not trust » developmental lags » never cries or always cries » extreme aggression or extreme passivity » rage » thrill-seeking behaviours » manipulative » self-harm and/or harms others » failing in school, truancy » sets up negative reactions from others » inability to control emotions; physically lashes out » short attention span » substance abuse » runaway » criminal behaviours » attempted suicide [link to www.child-abuse-effects.com] On abused women, you can find info here. [link to helpguide.org] or a million other places on the web. Wake up those of you that think physical abuse is ok. It's not. Remember, with every hit, you too could be producing the next serial killer. Food for thought. "The wise man's home is the universe." ~ Democrites Catch the blue train...somewhere down that crazy river. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4586500  Germany11/03/2011 08:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a grandmother who also got spanked and sometimes even whipped like that - on a rare occasion. I am not emotionally or physically scared because of it. I am well mannered with morals and integrity. I fully believe in discipline of varying degree for various offenses. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510904 The girl disobeyed her parents, defied the 'lay on your belly' order and she technically was being a thief. ... ... BTW. P2P being illegal is the real problem here. you're a nut. "disobeying the 'lay on your belly' ORDER??!?!" WTF do you think that girl is, a fucking dog? roll over, play dead, fetch? what in the world gives you the right to give these "orders" in the first place? do you think you OWN your kids? you live in a truly sick world. Yes, I totally agree with you. I cannot believe that so many are still in the belief that beating children is ok...I'm speechless... Thats what happens when people have power...its always about power and control over another being. So terrible...no words ... |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019  Mexico11/03/2011 08:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't believe people can actually defend beating a 16 year old. Spanking a little kid is one thing as long as it doesn't really hurt.....beating may stop things in the short term but odds are your creating a monster down the line. Of course this will be someone elses problem which is what it comes down to.....a lazy response from a lazy parent. Make the child not want to hurt you or disappoint you out of love not fear. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3868757 The response here from so many "men" is so disappointing, & sadly points out what a sorry state of affairs we have here. We still seem to be in the dark ages with regard to raising our children. This is a generational problem that will not go away as long as we make excuses & denials & cover-ups. Why can we not recognise that as long as we keep beating the crap out of our children we will raise up yet another violent & dysfunctional society. Are we not tired of this yet. No excuses for this anymore.....so many classes available to help parents these days. But this story highlights 2 problems......the one of an abusive father & spouse and the other a Judge who is an abuser making decisions in a family court on behalf of other children. This is a serious problem & I believe that any of you fathers here would not want to be on the receiving end of this mans judgement if you were to go before him in a trial. He is a monster and a hyprocite. Have you seen the pain Fathers go through with Child SUpport and the way you lovely ladies treat them? [link to www.coeffic.demon.co.uk] dadsnet.co.uk read it and weep. You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Madame X User ID: 1442220 Canada11/03/2011 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for my first ever pin! Quoting: CalmB4theLight I am surprised that no-one has commented, am I the only one who feels that this is unreasonable and a plot to destroy the Judge for a lapse of Judgement over 7 years ago? Why do I always end up taking the minority (yet just) point of view? Uh, YES. If you call that a lapse of judgement, I hope you don't have any children. Explain to me why the Mom is not being Judged, whilst the Dad is being roasted on the spit of the plebian sheeple? Was the Mom not an accomplice? did you not see the fucking video of her agression towards her own flesh and blood? Worse than the Dad, and yet she is now 'helping' the disabled daughter? That is Ok right? RIGHT???  Please read it and perhaps a few others like it on the web. Go to a women's shelter, listen to their stories. Get back to me after you have completed this mission. Knowledge is power. [link to helpguide.org] "The wise man's home is the universe." ~ Democrites Catch the blue train...somewhere down that crazy river. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4411952  Australia11/03/2011 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That goes for parenting too.. Beating and hitting your kids was fine 50 years ago, but we now know it cause's all sorts of problems and it's better not to hit them. He's the kind of person who is stopping the advancement of the human race. People who are so set in their ways they will not compromise for anything or anyone. I really wish he will grow up and admit what he did was wrong, otherwise I hope they throw the book at him so hard it goes right through his fucking skull. My 2c  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4588587  United States11/03/2011 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the girl was too old for a whooping like that. who beats their 15 yr old like that? sicko freaks, that's for sure. yeah, maybe a couple lickings and it would have not been so bad. but he went too far with this. he's pretty much done and he deserves it for his sadistic behaviors. |
| 11.11.11 User ID: 4260788 United States11/03/2011 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I prolly cant post the video due to copyright restrictions, so here is the link... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4570019 You be the Judge and Judy. Hmm.. If I were The Judge and Judy would I be a transvestite? Spirituality is the opposite of religion, religion is a substitute for spirituality. Spirituality is a direct connection to Creator The Most high. Anyone who inflicts pain on others will suffer themself from that pain. Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4478061 United States11/03/2011 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I prolly cant post the video due to copyright restrictions, so here is the link... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4570019 You be the Judge and Judy. Hmm.. If I were The Judge and Judy would I be a transvestite? LOLS! Be what you wanna be, just dont use violence against your kids :) You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 08:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | {quote}I am thankful I live in a civilized society Umm Hmm... MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH That civilized enough for ya? You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| anonymous321 User ID: 3662136 United States11/03/2011 08:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The video which is now viral, was posted over 7 years after the daughter was hit, and was interviewed on msnbc news with her Mom present. Quoting: Devil's Advocate 4570019 [link to today.msnbc.msn.com] The daughter decided to publish it very close to when the Judge is up for re-election, and obviously this has caused a shit storm for the poor guy. The judge is not up for re-election! Not for a few more years. |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 08:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am thankful I live in a civilized society Umm Hmm... MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH Thread: UPDATE ON MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH That civilized enough for ya? You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Madame X User ID: 1442220 Canada11/03/2011 08:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't believe people can actually defend beating a 16 year old. Spanking a little kid is one thing as long as it doesn't really hurt.....beating may stop things in the short term but odds are your creating a monster down the line. Of course this will be someone elses problem which is what it comes down to.....a lazy response from a lazy parent. Make the child not want to hurt you or disappoint you out of love not fear. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3868757 The response here from so many "men" is so disappointing, & sadly points out what a sorry state of affairs we have here. We still seem to be in the dark ages with regard to raising our children. This is a generational problem that will not go away as long as we make excuses & denials & cover-ups. Why can we not recognise that as long as we keep beating the crap out of our children we will raise up yet another violent & dysfunctional society. Are we not tired of this yet. No excuses for this anymore.....so many classes available to help parents these days. But this story highlights 2 problems......the one of an abusive father & spouse and the other a Judge who is an abuser making decisions in a family court on behalf of other children. This is a serious problem & I believe that any of you fathers here would not want to be on the receiving end of this mans judgement if you were to go before him in a trial. He is a monster and a hyprocite. Have you seen the pain Fathers go through with Child SUpport and the way you lovely ladies treat them? [link to www.coeffic.demon.co.uk] dadsnet.co.uk read it and weep. Boohoo. Never took a dime from my ex. Not all of us are money grubbing evil witches. I took crap from my ex, until he threw my oldest, he was four at the time, against the wall. That was MY breaking point. I plotted my way out and as soon as I was able, I left, with the kids and never looked back. Told the judge I wanted no money from him, just a restraining order, thank you. My kids are grown now, well educated, well adjusted, functioning adults, with whom I have a close relationship with. No beatings. Yes there are fathers that have been screwed over, big deal, there are many more women that have gotten the short end of the stick. Get a better lawyer. You think raising kids is cheap, ha. So I know of what I speak. "The wise man's home is the universe." ~ Democrites Catch the blue train...somewhere down that crazy river. |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 08:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The video which is now viral, was posted over 7 years after the daughter was hit, and was interviewed on msnbc news with her Mom present. Quoting: Devil's Advocate 4570019 [link to today.msnbc.msn.com] The daughter decided to publish it very close to when the Judge is up for re-election, and obviously this has caused a shit storm for the poor guy. The judge is not up for re-election! Not for a few more years. Three years to be precise, do you think the shit storm created by the dynamic duo gold digging robosheep will go away or not mar the Good Judge's next term??? Last Edited by CalmB4TheLight on 11/03/2011 08:59 PM You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1510904 United States11/03/2011 09:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I never said I thought beating kids (or anyone else) is ok. I said kids that disrespect parents and their rules are not cool. This child was indeed disrespectful as was dad's frustration of said disrespect. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1170246 Canada11/03/2011 09:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's a Judge, he can't afford to have his daughter breaking laws on his ISP. How do you think that would have looked being pursued by the Feds for illegal downloading of music and games? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3345566 His 16 year old daughter deserved that ass whooping. Her pulling the tape and publishing it on the internet really confirms her true nature on a deep level. She probably had that camera up so she could video herself shaking it for the boys online. Yes Daddy taught her well & she paid attention. OOps |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4025269 United States11/03/2011 09:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I saw the original video and felt the mother was as foul as the father. She had no problem taking her turn hitting the girl and yelling at her. She showed 0 empathy for her daughter. My guess would be that there's some reason they are teaming up against him (maybe he divorced mom and got remarried). So yes I question their timing and motive. The mom is as bad as the dad. |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Boohoo. Never took a dime from my ex. Not all of us are money grubbing evil witches. Quoting: Madame X I took crap from my ex, until he threw my oldest, he was four at the time, against the wall. That was MY breaking point. I plotted my way out and as soon as I was able, I left, with the kids and never looked back. Told the judge I wanted no money from him, just a restraining order, thank you. My kids are grown now, well educated, well adjusted, functioning adults, with whom I have a close relationship with. No beatings. Yes there are fathers that have been screwed over, big deal, there are many more women that have gotten the short end of the stick. Get a better lawyer. You think raising kids is cheap, ha. So I know of what I speak. I am glad you got away form the tyrant, and I wish ROBOMOM had done the same, but instead, rather than do the logical thing, they wait 7 years to get away? and then screw the Dad for all his worth becuase of a dare? That sux to high heaven. You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I saw the original video and felt the mother was as foul as the father. She had no problem taking her turn hitting the girl and yelling at her. She showed 0 empathy for her daughter. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4025269 My guess would be that there's some reason they are teaming up against him (maybe he divorced mom and got remarried). So yes I question their timing and motive. The mom is as bad as the dad.  + 1000 for using common sense deductive skills. + 1000 MORE IF YOU ARE SMOKIN HOT. You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Madame X User ID: 1442220 Canada11/03/2011 09:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Umm Hmm... MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH Thread: UPDATE ON MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH That civilized enough for ya? I never said all within it are civilized, I said that we live in a civilized society that recognizes that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable, therefore we have laws against it. Not everyone follows the law, otherwise there would be no need to make one. The law is on the books to prevent the action and if it does not, to punish the perpetrator. Life would be great if no one broke the law. By the way, in case you haven't noticed by my flag, I don't live in the country where the shopping cart incident took place. We have our own problem children and most of them are the result of neglect and abuse. "The wise man's home is the universe." ~ Democrites Catch the blue train...somewhere down that crazy river. |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for my first ever pin! Quoting: CalmB4theLight I am surprised that no-one has commented, am I the only one who feels that this is unreasonable and a plot to destroy the Judge for a lapse of Judgement over 7 years ago? Why do I always end up taking the minority (yet just) point of view? Uh, YES. If you call that a lapse of judgement, I hope you don't have any children. Explain to me why the Mom is not being Judged, whilst the Dad is being roasted on the spit of the plebian sheeple? Was the Mom not an accomplice? did you not see the fucking video of her agression towards her own flesh and blood? Worse than the Dad, and yet she is now 'helping' the disabled daughter? That is Ok right? RIGHT??? Please read it and perhaps a few others like it on the web. Go to a women's shelter, listen to their stories. Get back to me after you have completed this mission. Knowledge is power. [link to helpguide.org] I lived in one ffs I know of what I speak. You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 2347814 United States11/03/2011 09:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The video which is now viral, was posted over 7 years after the daughter was hit, and was interviewed on msnbc news with her Mom present. Quoting: Devil's Advocate 4570019 [link to today.msnbc.msn.com] The daughter decided to publish it very close to when the Judge is up for re-election, and obviously this has caused a shit storm for the poor guy. I am not in favor of disciplining children but I think that there is something more going on than meets the eye. The video justifiably has caused a massive response the world over, but to put it out there now is just pure vindictive and serves no purpose other than taking revenge and discrediting a Dad who prolly did not know what else to do. Parenting is heavy shit, and many parents are in despair the way their kids talk back, challenge and goad them into responding beyond conventional measures and hell, I understand that, although I do not condone the excessive beating that was given. I myself suffered severe beatings as a child, and it is not good at all, but I have come to terms with the fact that this was the only thing our parents knew to respond, as did schools (slipper, cane). Now what I see is two vengative people out to get the Judge and this sux. The Mom, when asked why she also participated in thrashing her daughter, states that it was because she lived in an environment of dysfunction that steadily got worse????  She goes on to claim she was completely brainwashed and controlled?:wtf The daughter is not angry with her Mom, so this means that the Mom can attack the child and blame the dad? I wonder if there is a divorce in play or of the two people are just making life hell for something that the Dad apologized for and no doubt regrets his moments of bad parenting. However, it is no reason to have a witch hunt on the Dad, hell, if all parents who smacked their kids were to be challenged in the street, there would not be enough hours in the day to cover it all. So why did they do it now, and how come the Mom is painted as a woe betide innocent victim, when she also revelled in the beating that was metted out to the daughter? Must be the greenback and revenge nothing more. What a fucked up society we live in. Fuck the judge, did you see or hear the way that man expressed himself humiliating that child and the wipe ass mother betraying a mother child trust? The judge must love to punish people even if he know they are innocent, he looks and sounds like it, on the video he sounded like he wanted to beat physically and spiritually that child, there was no attempt to reason or develop a sense of communication with that child. The man is obviously an over kill kind of guy. To me he is not emotionally stable enough for a judge and has a very poor emotional personality. I agree children need discipline but if the parent lives what he/she preaches then the child will respond. Must parents think that they just need to say discipline and BOOM the child is discipline, but most forget that we learn from actions more than with threats and humiliation. Lastly, I dont think that child look like a threat, maybe she should have been sleeping instead of the internet but by simply removing the computer and banning her(like here at GLP) from using the computer for a time would have been a better approach, rather than humiliate her, emotionally and physically beat her, its not what a real loving caring parent would do. I say good the judge sucks as a parent, so what if the girl is vengeful, in my book he deserves that and more |
| nagarjuna User ID: 4569917  Croatia11/03/2011 09:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [quoteinst it. Not everyone follows the law, otherwise there would be no need to make one. The law is on the books to prevent the action and if it does not, to punish the perpetrator.:CalmB4theLight:MV8xNjkxNDY0XzI3OTU5OTMxX0UxQ0NGRTY3] Quoting: Madame X I am thankful I live in a civilized society Umm Hmm... MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH Thread: UPDATE ON MOM ATTACKED WITH SHOPPING CART BY UNDERPRIVILEGED YOUTH That civilized enough for ya? I never said all within it are civilized, I said that we live in a civilized society that recognizes that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable, therefore we have laws aga Life would be great if no one broke the law. By the way, in case you haven't noticed by my flag, I don't live in the country where the shopping cart incident took place. We have our own problem children and most of them are the result of neglect and abuse. I didn't look but this issue is endemic in every society, alas, and that is why I can;t understand the daughter sides with her Nodding head Mom the same one that beat the shit out of her once she was bruised to fuck by the excessive beating of the father who apologized and asked for forgiveness, instead of asking for a meal ticket like the Momma is doing right now... How does that feel for you as a beautiful woman of the world, Madame? Can you not see the victim suffering from the influence of a form of Munchahausen's Syndrome? Last Edited by CalmB4TheLight on 11/03/2011 09:14 PM You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Rawrss User ID: 1499672 United States11/03/2011 09:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The daughter also has cerebral palsey. According to the judge, he was punishing her for "stealing". She was on the computer downloading songs & movies, and the video shows his response. I'm all for discipline, but that's downright fucking abusive. Asshole seemed like he was getting off on it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1331394 Downloading ILLEGAL songs and movies, after being told several times to stop going onlineand doing this, which would have jeapordized the whole family... Imagine a Judge being arrested for illegal downloads? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Everyone does that now a days its normal! Luke 6:22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man's sake. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1170246 Canada11/03/2011 09:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't believe people can actually defend beating a 16 year old. Spanking a little kid is one thing as long as it doesn't really hurt.....beating may stop things in the short term but odds are your creating a monster down the line. Of course this will be someone elses problem which is what it comes down to.....a lazy response from a lazy parent. Make the child not want to hurt you or disappoint you out of love not fear. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3868757 The response here from so many "men" is so disappointing, & sadly points out what a sorry state of affairs we have here. We still seem to be in the dark ages with regard to raising our children. This is a generational problem that will not go away as long as we make excuses & denials & cover-ups. Why can we not recognise that as long as we keep beating the crap out of our children we will raise up yet another violent & dysfunctional society. Are we not tired of this yet. No excuses for this anymore.....so many classes available to help parents these days. But this story highlights 2 problems......the one of an abusive father & spouse and the other a Judge who is an abuser making decisions in a family court on behalf of other children. This is a serious problem & I believe that any of you fathers here would not want to be on the receiving end of this mans judgement if you were to go before him in a trial. He is a monster and a hyprocite. Have you seen the pain Fathers go through with Child SUpport and the way you lovely ladies treat them? [link to www.coeffic.demon.co.uk] dadsnet.co.uk read it and weep. I am quite familiar with the child support story. To this I will say, there are those fathers who abscond & pay nothing for their children & there are those who pay up as they should. Then there are those who pay up & still they don't get to see their kids on the weekends, because Mom is playing games. She needs to get counselling because she is hurting her children this way. There are many scenarios in this, but this story is not about that, is it? Its all a big mess & at some point we all need to stop the denial, & start talking about better ways to parent our children. We need to do the hard work of healing our own wounds so that we do not inflict our pain upon our children. |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The daughter also has cerebral palsey. According to the judge, he was punishing her for "stealing". She was on the computer downloading songs & movies, and the video shows his response. I'm all for discipline, but that's downright fucking abusive. Asshole seemed like he was getting off on it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1331394 Downloading ILLEGAL songs and movies, after being told several times to stop going onlineand doing this, which would have jeapordized the whole family... Imagine a Judge being arrested for illegal downloads? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Everyone does that now a days its normal! I for one, pay as I respect the fact that copyright laws exist. Only bummer is I cant get the best tunes from itunes (RIP JOBZY),US! However, I would rather wait for the release in my region that illegally download the software and if my Pops (RIP) was a Judge, I would not dare, for fear of jeopardizing my Dad's role in society and gettign an ass whooping. Last Edited by CalmB4TheLight on 11/03/2011 09:18 PM You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| CalmB4theLight (OP) User ID: 4570019 Mexico11/03/2011 09:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a grandmother who also got spanked and sometimes even whipped like that - on a rare occasion. I am not emotionally or physically scared because of it. I am well mannered with morals and integrity. I fully believe in discipline of varying degree for various offenses. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1510904 The girl disobeyed her parents, defied the 'lay on your belly' order and she technically was being a thief. ... ... BTW. P2P being illegal is the real problem here. you're a nut. "disobeying the 'lay on your belly' ORDER??!?!" WTF do you think that girl is, a fucking dog? roll over, play dead, fetch? what in the world gives you the right to give these "orders" in the first place? do you think you OWN your kids? you live in a truly sick world. Yes, I totally agree with you. I cannot believe that so many are still in the belief that beating children is ok...I'm speechless... Thats what happens when people have power...its always about power and control over another being. So terrible...no words ... For the record, I don;t agree with beating anyone, adult or child, and I don't think it was intentional on the part of the dear Judge, though the Mom, well, she shoulda known better than to carry it on don;t you think? She coulda moved as they claim it happened so may times before, and she lives in the USA - land of the free from abuse?!!! Last Edited by CalmB4TheLight on 11/03/2011 09:20 PM You are Godlike unto your domain, did you forget that - or did you just choose to ignore it?... BEWARE THE LIGHT, FOR IT SHINES BRIGHT AND IS FULL OF YOUR ERRORS See you on the other side :) 1...million...souls... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4249652 United States11/03/2011 09:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh whatever. Kids need their asses whipped. Why do you think kids do so much horrible stuff nowadays. All these bad ass kids running around who know no kind of discipline whatsoever. I am glad my mom beat my butt when I was younger because I know they worked. When I was younger even if consequences are explained over and over...nothing worked as good as a threat for a good ass whipping. Kids look at their parents these days basically like ..."what are you going to do about it?" and a lot of parents are scared of putting them in their place because of all this bs about abuse. No I do not feel sorry for the girl in the video. She should have not been stealing and should have turned her thieving ass over to get her whipping. Now she just seems like she brought it up to screw her dad for unknown reasons and I am willing to bet her mom is coaching her all the way. I feel bad for the dad honestly...they are doing this for a reason and getting him "help" I am willing to bet.. is not one of those reasons. |
