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I don't know what to do please help with suggestions

 
closing eyes (OP)

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Go to the media...email/call your state reps...stay proactive & don't give up. Keep speaking out & up, let the media & politicians know you are being ignored.

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perhaps you could sue them then in civil court, you need to talk to an attorney or something as i am not one, that might be your best bet because they will know the laws. i don't know why the police would not call you back, have gone there personally to follow up on it or whatever? there is a time limit on stuff like this and if it has been to long then there might not be a legal avenue for you to follow....just trying to offer ideas.
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The police stations are locked and tell me over intercom to contact such and such number( who never answer). What lawyer(I was looking in the phone book tonight, but not sure who handles those cases) There is no time limit on molestation, use catholic church as example. Thank you for your ideas and help!
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i say call any of them, they will know more than you or me about it and i'm sure most if not all will help point you to where you need to be, or at least get you closer...if the guy works in a school currently or with kids call them too and tell them, they will probably investigate it and that could force attention to your case. also someone mentioned a prosecuting attorney which you might need to look into finding who they are for your area. i wish you good luck
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I don't think he is teaching in a school now, he left our school and started teaching in Monterey Ca, where he was arrested for the Sonoma charges.
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perhaps you could sue them then in civil court, you need to talk to an attorney or something as i am not one, that might be your best bet because they will know the laws. i don't know why the police would not call you back, have gone there personally to follow up on it or whatever? there is a time limit on stuff like this and if it has been to long then there might not be a legal avenue for you to follow....just trying to offer ideas.
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The police stations are locked and tell me over intercom to contact such and such number( who never answer). What lawyer(I was looking in the phone book tonight, but not sure who handles those cases) There is no time limit on molestation, use catholic church as example. Thank you for your ideas and help!
 Quoting: closing eyes


i say call any of them, they will know more than you or me about it and i'm sure most if not all will help point you to where you need to be, or at least get you closer...if the guy works in a school currently or with kids call them too and tell them, they will probably investigate it and that could force attention to your case. also someone mentioned a prosecuting attorney which you might need to look into finding who they are for your area. i wish you good luck
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o yea and the media if they roll your story it's fast track, even if not aired questions being asked will stir the pot
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Thank you everyone, I will keep at it until its decided one way or another, thank you for encourgement and strength for tommorow.
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I would think since it has already gone to court and most likely the statue of limitations may have exceeded you will only be feeding some greedy lawyer to fight a loosing case.

If you make it to court again (very doubtful)
First thing the defense lawyer is going to do is grill your daughter why she didn't tell the entire truth. ( I wonder this fact too.) Whatever reasons she gives they will make it seem like if she left out important information the first time then she may have lied all along.

That might leave you and the other parents in the position to prove it and if you can;t the perv then has the right to sue all the parents for defamation of character.

The court ruled, it's over.

You may want to ask your daughter yourself why she left out important information to the case the first time and let her know that is why the man is probably walking around free as a bird now so if she is assaulted in the future she needs to buck up and tell ALL the details when it comes to going into court. Withholding information in a case is a huge No-No.
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perhaps you could sue them then in civil court, you need to talk to an attorney or something as i am not one, that might be your best bet because they will know the laws. i don't know why the police would not call you back, have gone there personally to follow up on it or whatever? there is a time limit on stuff like this and if it has been to long then there might not be a legal avenue for you to follow....just trying to offer ideas.
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The police stations are locked and tell me over intercom to contact such and such number( who never answer). What lawyer(I was looking in the phone book tonight, but not sure who handles those cases) There is no time limit on molestation, use catholic church as example. Thank you for your ideas and help!
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i say call any of them, they will know more than you or me about it and i'm sure most if not all will help point you to where you need to be, or at least get you closer...if the guy works in a school currently or with kids call them too and tell them, they will probably investigate it and that could force attention to your case. also someone mentioned a prosecuting attorney which you might need to look into finding who they are for your area. i wish you good luck
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I don't think he is teaching in a school now, he left our school and started teaching in Monterey Ca, where he was arrested for the Sonoma charges.
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I'd also threaten, or even do it, if I had the proof, to hand out flyers to all the parents of the children in Monterey stating what he did and warning them about him if that's where he's teaching. Disgusting.

Good luck to you and your daughter.

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perhaps you could sue them then in civil court, you need to talk to an attorney or something as i am not one, that might be your best bet because they will know the laws. i don't know why the police would not call you back, have gone there personally to follow up on it or whatever? there is a time limit on stuff like this and if it has been to long then there might not be a legal avenue for you to follow....just trying to offer ideas.
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The police stations are locked and tell me over intercom to contact such and such number( who never answer). What lawyer(I was looking in the phone book tonight, but not sure who handles those cases) There is no time limit on molestation, use catholic church as example. Thank you for your ideas and help!
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i say call any of them, they will know more than you or me about it and i'm sure most if not all will help point you to where you need to be, or at least get you closer...if the guy works in a school currently or with kids call them too and tell them, they will probably investigate it and that could force attention to your case. also someone mentioned a prosecuting attorney which you might need to look into finding who they are for your area. i wish you good luck
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o yea and the media if they roll your story it's fast track, even if not aired questions being asked will stir the pot
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They shouldn't have anything to attack my daughter on, but let it fly, the truth will come out.

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I would think since it has already gone to court and most likely the statue of limitations may have exceeded you will only be feeding some greedy lawyer to fight a loosing case.

If you make it to court again (very doubtful)
First thing the defense lawyer is going to do is grill your daughter why she didn't tell the entire truth. ( I wonder this fact too.) Whatever reasons she gives they will make it seem like if she left out important information the first time then she may have lied all along.

That might leave you and the other parents in the position to prove it and if you can;t the perv then has the right to sue all the parents for defamation of character.

The court ruled, it's over.

You may want to ask your daughter yourself why she left out important information to the case the first time and let her know that is why the man is probably walking around free as a bird now so if she is assaulted in the future she needs to buck up and tell ALL the details when it comes to going into court. Withholding information in a case is a huge No-No.
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She wasn't in the first case, this is new information, she was never interviewed. My daughter was a third and fourth grader and was too ashamed and scared of him to admit it. Happens to a lot of girls. SHE WAS NEVER IN THE FIRST CASE, NEW SEPERATE TRIAL. She never was interviewed or in the trial.

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Don't just go after him, go after the school system who hired him in the first place.

Homeschooling is rewarding. Trying at times but very much worth it. You don't have to be a genus or wealthy and there are tons of resources available to you.

Because this was a teacher, you may be able to go to the media. If he were any regular guy, they wouldn't give you the time of day.

Nothing beats friends in low places who love you and yours.

I would seriously advise against inviting CPS into your life. I used to be CPS until I figured out the real agenda. These people are not and will never be your friend.



taylorisking21, your offer is kind but your research skills are frightening.
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Now that I feel like an idiot, I meant genius.
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I just want my daughter to be okay and know how much she is worth and loved. I will fight for her!
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In Nov. of 2010, he plea bargained on charges of felony child endangerment. He was sentenced to 5 yrs. probation and served about 9 months in jail after being arrested.

Charges of committing lewd and lascivious acts and assault
with a deadly weapon were dropped in exchange for the plea.

The Assistant DA, Diana Gomez, felt those counts weren't provable.

The terms of his plea bargain say he can't work with children, can't live near schools, parks, pools, or day care centers.

He allegedly returned to his home country and pursuing another career. If he didn't and he's at that school, you won't have to do anything. He'll be in prison for four years.
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He got arrested at the other school, not there now, but heard he could be in texas. My daughter wasn't heard and she has the right to her day in court.
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The police stations are locked and tell me over intercom to contact such and such number( who never answer). What lawyer(I was looking in the phone book tonight, but not sure who handles those cases) There is no time limit on molestation, use catholic church as example. Thank you for your ideas and help!
 Quoting: closing eyes


i say call any of them, they will know more than you or me about it and i'm sure most if not all will help point you to where you need ifto be, or at least get you closer...if the guy works in a school currently or with kids call them too and tell them, they will probably investigate it and that could force attention to your case. also someone mentioned a prosecuting attorney which you might need to look into finding who they are for your area. i wish you good luck
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o yea and the media if they roll your story it's fast track, even if not aired questions being asked will stir the pot
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Well if they attack my life, it will be a Bonnaduchi traffic mess, I don't care, I was who I was...I am who I am now,
They shouldn't have anything to attack my daughter on, but let it fly, the truth will come out.
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sorry you misinterpreted, it is good for you if the media picks up your story, sorry if i was not clear enough...
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Whoa, I've lived in Sonoma county all my life. Expose this bastard to every and anyone who will listen.
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He got arrested at the other school, not there now, but heard he could be in texas. My daughter wasn't heard and she has the right to her day in court.
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Ok. If he is in Texas and working with or hanging around children, he's violating his probation and would go to state prison. He'd be in a nice secure location waiting for his trial on the charges involving your daughter.
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Wow. Yes I know this creep. My kids go to the school in monterey county that he was arrested at. He even came to a party at my house. Thank god he never spent time with my kids. He was definately weird with a bad vibe. My understanding is he was aquitted and that he is no longer in california. However, I stumbled upon this thread because I was looking him up to see where he went. My advice: stay strong, press the charges, sue the school system.
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First don’t let your emotions control you; you get nowhere unless you have direction.
I’d suggest taking your child out of school and home school, however it takes allot of time and will to teach a child at home and mold them into someone who will be productive in society. And at this point you seem to be angry with the teacher and your focus will be there instead of on teaching. So leave the child in school (if you feel it’s still safe, I don’t know her/his schooling environment) this way you can focus your mind on the problem at hand.

I can see you’re angry, however if you have a job and are raising children you can’t let anger rule you. You’ll need to designate time for the worry.

Work when you can, keep a close eye on your Childs progress at school, and devote your free time to justice for you’re child.

Start by filing a report with the police, then try writing your local news, channels; tell them the same thing you told us.
Write it all out once, and then copy and paste the same story to everyone you can. This way you don’t waste time typing the same thing over and over, be sure to include all the details.

Next secretly record your conversations with your child if he or she begins talking about what happened, don’t provoke too much talk with them if it’s troubling, because it will cause them to have to relive the moment again in their minds, and that’s no good.

Make a youtube video to warn other parents.
People need to know to keep their children away from this man (if he could be called such).

Report your situation to the police at least three times in the form of a certified letter.
So that you have proof that they received your complaint.

After you have confirmation that your complaint was received by your local authorities.
Begin calling again. They are lazy, so if you can, gather lots of information about the guy, where he may live, phone number what ever you can get. The easier you make it for them the more quickly they will act.

They like swift justice, when they don’t have to do all the work.

It’ll be worth it for your little one.

And when your child comes home, don’t let her see you are angry or rant around the house with anger about the whole situation.
It won't help anything.

Have a talk with her/him and let them know that you are taking care of things. Reassure them that YOU are in control. And not to worry anymore, and if anything like this happens again, to tell you immediately, and it’s not their fault some people out there have damage to their brains. (I’m assuming here that your little one is in fact a “little one”, hence the wording.

Then try to live normally during personal time, and keep trying to get justice in your free time.

If you balance things correctly, and have patience, I believe you will get justice.
Good luck and I’m sorry about your little one.
People who hurt children make me so angry.

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Instead of calling and leaving messages, you go down to the police station and raise hell until they take a report and act on it. Once the report is filed, give them a few weeks to act on it and then you can go to the news channel, but only on a "the police refuse to investigate my claim" story, not on the actual abuse story unless you want to blow your case.
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Well,

[link to www.pressdemocrat.com]

What you have to realize is these creatures are entrenched throughout all aspects and sectors of government.

They always protect the deviants.

It is up to each of us to remove with prejudice these creatures from society.

Do it yourself methods sometimes work, or find some young folks who don't mind going malicious on a carpetbagging, pedophile?

You will find ZERO justice through the Justice Department, they are about as putrid with pedophiles as any organization in the United States.

When one of these creatures attacks, it needs to be addressed with malice and malice alone. There is NO other way.
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I am SO VERY sorry about what happened with your daughter. This pedophile is not supposed to be around children.

The problem is WALDORF. The guy transferred from one Waldorf school to another. This happened to my kids and lots of others in the Waldorf system. They protect their own.

Read all about it and other Waldorf-related crimes on my website: [link to petekaraiskos.blogspot.com]

A Waldorf teacher and her pedophile teenage son were moved around from school to school in Southern California... They have moved to Somerset, UK now - working in the new Waldorf school there, presumably.

Put the blame where it belongs - the Waldorf system is bound by an underlying spiritual philosophy - Anthroposophy. This permits covering up of abuse (like some Catholic environments). A thorough examination of this system needs to transpire... and SOON!
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I seriously don't know where to go with this!
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Instead of calling and leaving messages, you go down to the police station and raise hell until they take a report and act on it. Once the report is filed, give them a few weeks to act on it and then you can go to the news channel, but only on a "the police refuse to investigate my claim" story, not on the actual abuse story unless you want to blow your case.
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Did all interviews, they said she said the same as the other girls and weren't going to do a new trial. So he got a get out of jail card free.
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This is completely out of line. The administrator does her job very well and who are you to judge her anyways? As someone who has been in the community as long you have, I would expect a little more respect. No school admin skills my ass. How catty of you...this isn't middle school. This blog is not based on the facts of the case. Please try not to stir the pot.

While the desire for justice for your daughter is understandable and I know you are frustrated, I suggest you keep the snide remarks about the administrator out of it. Discussing her salary is extremely inappropriate

Didn't say she wasn't doing a good job, just sketchy why she got the job in my eyes. Inappropriate, I think not. Everything is public knowledge. This is none of your business unless your involved. The people at our school kept quite about alot he did before he was kicked out. Glad you want to stick up for her but don't tell me how to act. Thank you! I think its weird she got the job.As what occured at the school.1doh1 It is all about facts of the case. K

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He was my teacher and I heard he is out of the country. They aren't going to bring him back. I am sorry for what happend to your child but there are a lot of kids out there that suffer from abuse from a family member, stranger or teacher. She needs to keep moving straight ahead and not look back even if it's hard. And as a parent you will cheer her on. I know what he did was wrong but he is gone and you should focus on that HE will never be able to come back here.

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