Fuck relationships~!!!

What do you mean " it makes make you both legally liable if you cheat on each other.." ..HOW ??? Can you please explain...im interested ..Tx

Yeah the other way is not working.

Might as well treat them for the way they act, as opposed to who they really are.

Last Edited by Scuba7 on 11/17/2011 07:34 PM

Your bitterness and lack of success is because
everyone does what it right in his own eyes.
When they do what is right in their own eyes, that usually means they are takers, not givers.
Throughout the Bible, in the stories where "every man did what was right in his own eyes," they met with failure.
When Christ rules in a life, then there is success, in relationships and life's other challenges.

Also, I've noticed when people say that others are selfish, hypocritical, or other detrimental traits, that the speaker is the one who is definitely what he is accusing others of.

The angry, crude, vulgar words you use in this post to express your hostility shows where you are coming from. Until your heart changes, relationships are going to continue to be unsuccessful.

wow..so true

Giving all that you are and loving with all you have..getting nothing but silence back. Loosing your best friend and not knowing why.. They make choices you can't understand. You try to respect them and they won't respect you back. You make sure to keep the people away from you that hurt your relationships and they don't. Being torn apart..Forgiving someone and not getting the same back..I think many of us have been there. There is not a lonelier place to be or a worse feeling to be in. Still loving them anyway and hoping they will see, but knowing they won't. Having everything looked at the wrong way and not given the chance to tell them they are looking at things the wrong way.

Last Edited by Mooshi Kin on 11/17/2011 08:10 PM

Relationships can suck but I'm not giving up on them... but marriage is antiquated and stupid.

What is the point? Women typically are all "I wanna get married!!!"

Why? What does it achieve other than make you both legally liable if you cheat on each other.

If you love someone, why do you need a piece of paper and an expensive ass ring to be with someone.

Marriages have been destroying marriages for thousands of years.


+1+1+1!!!!!!

Are you retarded? Did God come up with the Uniform Commercial code and contract law too???? Dumbass

Now and then I think of when we were together
Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
Told myself that you were right for me
But felt so lonely in your company
But that was love and it's an ache I still remember


But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened
And that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger
And that feels so rough
You didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records
And then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
And I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know...

Last Edited by Mooshi Kin on 11/17/2011 09:14 PM

It can be hard. Good luck to you, I am sure you will find the right person when your least expecting it.

I don't appreciate being called a "dumbass". If you don't think God designed marriage and did condone it to be a certain way, then you've obviously never read the Bible. God clearly instructs people to marry and multiply. The word says that a man should leave his mother and father, and cling to his wife. He also commands us not to commit adultery, and much more.

The Bitches should be seen not heard!

Yes, the next one will be slower and look you in the eyes longer. And her heart will be slightly broken as the way your is broken, but you'll live longer without sitting on the wall.

STFU

I just wanna say i wish my girl would understand me. I feel like she don't give a hoot about nothing. She is a cool and loving person, I just don't understand why I have to do the most in a relationship. She don't attempt for the best in life. Its like we the totally opposite on having nice things. She wants them but she don't know the responsibilities to make things happen. She waits on me to handle everything I need someone who knows how to keep a good job and handle life. Its very simple when u can find someone who tries the same as u. Life is fun if u make it. Relationships are stupid to me know. Maybe its time to move on with traveling and making a success for myself mob mob mob mob mob

Eh going through this myself now. Was contemplating posting a thread like you but resisted!
It s a fucked feeling that your talking about.
Giving numerous people everything you have offer only for it to be taken for personal gain.

my conclusion?

People are shit.

The day i meet someone who is loyal and has decent morals!
Damn i dont even think one exists!

People say "ahh you just picked a bad one", "ahh stay positive".

NO!

not possible when you constantly get fucked!

Over and over again.

Fuck a relationship. Yeah, that is right. a relationship. Girls are a piece of shit. They took my dang love and spat out nothing. They kept me on the verge, making me believe that we will have future and they threw me away. I am not a punch bag!

We maintained a relationship for 4 months. I sent flowers, letters, emails, text messages regularly. She didn't give it a shit. She only got the love and said a simple thank. Then she just went on living her life, not giving me any dang second of her days. She was good at keeping me believing that she was in a real relationship. This is a piece of shit.

I am tired of shit. What do I have to lose anyways? I am a talented engineer that makes a good amount of money and she is the fucking social worker with the minimum paycheck.

I was interested in her when I first met her. It was originally because I thought like 'yeah, she is a social worker. She is a nice person. She is probably serving. I could do something meaningful in life help some people with her working for whatever social services.. or something.'

Gush... She doesn't care much about the less fortunate people.. She thinks like 'There is nothing I could do with just a Masters degree.' Fuck that shit. I mean.. Are you kidding? There are tons of troubled teens. You don't need a PhD degree to help them as a social worker. She was more interested in systems and some kind of social status or her careers. I cannot say that it is bad. But shit. It's not like she does social work with her devotion. She just wants to do something easy in her life and get away with it.

All that matters is the following:
Self
Animals
Nature
Planet


When certain people evolve, they understand that "relationships" are vacuous and worthless.

A male and female cannot, by definition, co-exist in total harmony . . . for males, it is 100% about sex and dependence, which females too often provide against their will and want . . . for females, it is about emotional needs, which males ONLY provide in the belief it will lead to sex.

The only possible worth of a male/female "relationship" is the creation of life . . . and the only people who procreate in these times are selfish and/or ultra-religious.

Same-sex relationships work only to the extent that one can understand the same gender, emotionally, but females especially, are too catty and petty to ever offer unconditional friendship . . . once sex enters the picture of any same-sex relationship, the relationship no longer has any meaning.

Sex is a distraction from all things good and creative, it is detrimental baggage.

The best anyone can hope for when interacting with other humans is the strongest possible degree of "friendship" that involves genuine care and concern and respect, whether it's same gender or opposite. But good luck in ever finding that.

Beyond that, the absolute best thing anyone can do is be an independent, solitary soul . . . learn to be alone, love and care for animals, respect nature, be creative and productive. NO ONE can be truly happy or creative or productive when others humans are in the picture, because humans are inherently selfish, petty, and distracting.

Fuck relationships are the best kind.