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Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being

 
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Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
So thats basically the deal...

I am not engaged or married (no kids either but she has a daughter), but have been dating GF for a little over a year...

Have a chance to meet up with girl i knew from high school tonight, have been in touch since but only casually. she is in town tonight, my GF is not, and I have plans 1 on 1 with her- a first and I think there is something there that i might have a shot.

I hope i wouldnt ever consider this type of thing if engaged or married, and no guarantees it would even happen...

and so with no guarantees regarding future with my GF, although I think there is a future, and while there could be in other option i realize its long odds no matter what happens.

Obviously I cant come clean to GF she wouldn't understand, but should I feel like a complete deuchebag for perhaps attempting perhaps my forseeable attempt at strange before taking current relationship to next level?
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11/21/2011 12:03 PM
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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
Yes, you should feel like a complete douche.
Fantasy is just *that*--fantasy. Not real.
If you think you might have a future with your GF, then you'd certainly blow it, by cheating.
If you DON'T think you have a future with your GF, then you should break it off with her, BEFORE running after fantasy girl.
Otherwise, you're just a coward.
Think of how you'd feel if the situation were reversed, and your GF would be doing that to you.
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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
The ass is always greener on the other side thing..... maybe better mown too!
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11/21/2011 12:05 PM
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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
whats up pecker brain?
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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
Since you even have to ask, it's time to let your GF go. Your heart is not in it and you're leading her on. Stop wasting her time.
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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
Yes, you should feel like a complete douche.
Fantasy is just *that*--fantasy. Not real.
If you think you might have a future with your GF, then you'd certainly blow it, by cheating.
If you DON'T think you have a future with your GF, then you should break it off with her, BEFORE running after fantasy girl.
Otherwise, you're just a coward.
Think of how you'd feel if the situation were reversed, and your GF would be doing that to you.
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
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11/21/2011 12:07 PM

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Re: Advice? I have a GF, have a clean chance to go for girl I've had fantasy 'bout for years, but not sure what it would mean besides me being
Yes, you should feel like a complete douche.
Fantasy is just *that*--fantasy. Not real.
If you think you might have a future with your GF, then you'd certainly blow it, by cheating.
If you DON'T think you have a future with your GF, then you should break it off with her, BEFORE running after fantasy girl.
Otherwise, you're just a coward.
Think of how you'd feel if the situation were reversed, and your GF would be doing that to you.
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