Help, I want to know if I'm with a delusional person or not

are they posting on this site?

why don't we start with ANY info

Delusional symptoms are..

1. They hear voices
2. They obey the voices
3. They cant be reasoned with
4. They are usually religious in some way
5. Even hard evidence they are wrong will not sway them.

Ok here are some traits.

He says he is here born on earth to help save the planet through his meditation on healing the planet.
Says he's a healer and has no karma.
He's been told he's the reincarnation of Archangel the healing Rafael and that he's also has other lives in pleadies and I think Sirius.
Now, he is following some mentor online for deep meditational practices with the lunar cycle.
He believes in the whole reptilian thing and that they are now gone and where thrown out by the good aliens.
He thinks with his energy he can make people start moving and his journey here is about healing.
He was very gifted in high school but I could swear he mentioned one time he was diagnosed borderline aspergers and that this could be cured by cleaning out the acids in your system.

The problem I am having, and Im actually pretty open minded about all this is that he will tell me he;ll get back to me and then disappear into his saving the world meditation practices. Very intense , very funny, extremelly smart but wtf is this.

I find him unavailable and unreliable as a partner because of all this that he;s into.

So, is he delusional or can all this be real?

NO voices but does say his guides are telling and guiding all the time as to what to do. He calls this his inner higher self.

He says he's no longer dualistic and is now one with everything. He has no ego anymore.

Is he a liberal democrats?

The issue here is, I am falling in love with this guy for all his other traits but I;m not sure if he's just crazy and I need to just detach.

LOL
No, he reads and believes the whole NWO thing and therefore isn;t affiliated with any party since he thinks they all play for the same team.

yes he is delusional

I dont know. I dont think so.
I mean I am so I can see why I was attracted to the guy but I come here now more for news and open minded conversations.

I just have never dated someone like this before and I;m freaking out before I get my emotions more involved.
I want to be smart about this and just detach if I have to.

Sounds normal to me. Give this man a gun asap.

And the reason I come to this site to ask this is because I know there are extremely open minded people here but who also have common sense and sanity, even with all the things we read here.
I need some clarity.

I would listen and learn from him. He is just fine!!!!!

I would hide sharp objects from this person each time they visited. Now think about this, if he were a divine soul sent here to heal the world would he have time to be shagging you?

Also, he won't just tell anybody this info. He knows people will think he;s crazy, so he only tells those he feels safe with and I guess he begins with small bits to test if you're open to it.
He;s a functional person but I think this stuff can get carried away sometimes.

IS this some type of psychosis or delusional disorder or really is all this real?

I have learned allot from this person. he;s so at peace. He really sometimes shows like he has no ego but he's so intense sometimes and hyper and goes so deep into these converstations on all these topics.

Im really fucking confused!

Sounds like he is a cult follower.

if you are even considering being with that guy then you are delusional too.

Anyone who thinks or cares that other may think he is crazy....is NOT crazy!!!!! Listen and learn from him!!!!!!

Bingo. Starseeds exist and he sounds like one. Not all his statements may be 100% true because soul memory often gets mixed up with the imagination creating an exaggerated effect.

But the problem is that, will he open up to you? Or is he here strictly on business?

THIS is a great point. I have asked myself this question.
Why would a planet healing want to do sexting and have sex with me.
My reasoning for this is that they are in human form therefore have carnal desires; however, this whole heal the planet thing just fucking doesn't make sense if he can get so horny! lol

also, if he is this devoted to his non-sense then he will never give his full devotion to you.

move on

The reason I created this thread is because I am beginning to feel the pain of feeling so left out and being second to all his "stuff"
If he's a starseed and here to heal the planet, he's not healing me, he's hurting me unintentionally, and even if Im the one with the problem where I can't just be with someone who;s so preoccupied with such important work, I need to just accept that I have needs to be loved, by anyone, whether they are delusional or not, I am definitely not feeling loved so maybe my lesson is to break away and make room for someone who will devoted themselves to me and trully love myself that way.

I dont think Im delusional. I have my feet pretty planted on the grouns. I was a psychology major and know very well mental disorders but I;m just at a loss at how I can be questioning this and not be clear and it is partly from all the stuff I have read about Crystal, Starseed, Indigo stuff.

Now, My father was an alcoholic though and he acting pretty insane allot and I think this made me sort of accept the unacceptable at times and maybe not be clear on what is sane and what is out of the ordinary insane.

You mentioned he'd functional. Does he spend time in the real world? Hold a job? Does he give his (or your) money to his Gurus?

If he is functional in the world, and capable of loving & you love him - have a great time.

(If he sold his soul to a corporation and had no time or patience for you, society would call it a normal relationship)

My comments appear after yours...

Ok here are some traits.

He says he is here born on earth to help save the planet through his meditation on healing the planet.

Most conventional spiritual paths feel similar.



Says he's a healer and has no karma.

So? Nothing wrong here.



He's been told he's the reincarnation of Archangel the healing Rafael and that he's also has other lives in pleadies and I think Sirius.

This could get annoying while visiting your parents.



Now, he is following some mentor online for deep meditational practices with the lunar cycle.

Sounds calming in a very stressfull time.



He believes in the whole reptilian thing and that they are now gone and where thrown out by the good aliens.

Sounds like most bankers. However THEY are still here.



He thinks with his energy he can make people start moving and his journey here is about healing.

Sounds amusing and very useful in heavy traffic.



He was very gifted in high school but I could swear he mentioned one time he was diagnosed borderline aspergers and that this could be cured by cleaning out the acids in your system.

Rah Roh. Speach impaired? Isolationist? Autism. Consider offspring being affected with this if your considering a future and a family.



The problem I am having, and Im actually pretty open minded about all this is that he will tell me he;ll get back to me and then disappear into his saving the world meditation practices. Very intense , very funny, extremelly smart but wtf is this.

Sounds like aspergers.



I find him unavailable and unreliable as a partner because of all this that he;s into.

So, is he delusional or can all this be real?

Last Edited by Being * gnieB on 12/06/2011 05:05 PM

Well, since angels don't 'reincarnate', that part is delusional

Everyone is delusional. If he can function in this madness, he's probably fine.

neither do purple chick a fils!

This sounds like a blond joke. Where is the punch line.

Plenty of fish in the sea. :heygirl: