What would you do if your partner cheated on you?

Divorce first , then get lots of pussy.

Depends on how long we were a couple.

Film it?

stupid question , what do you think? , relationship is over , move on

Nuthin'

This ^^^^

I'd sure be devastated, not sure what I would do.

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It's only evolution. Every single person has, or will, cheat.
Just get over it already you closed minded freaks.

Really depends on the circumstances.

1. You giving them any reason to be pushed in that direction.
2. Are you not the best mate. Lie, cheat, steal or an overall asshole or bitch to them. Treat them like dirt.
3. Are they the kind that when drunk, easily persuaded or one who is not all their when drunk.
4. Did they get too drunk.

There could be many reasons, good or bad. Granted it is not always pleasant. But at least try and find out why in order to resolve it. Blowing up, freaking out only makes things worse and you never get any answers. Answers help no matter what. Could help you realize what you may have done wrong or what to look for in the future. But keep in mind, just because a person is a man or women and you were burned by a man or women does not mean they are the same as the previous man or women. Or even because they did or do something that this person who burned you did does not mean they are the same.

I actually had a girlfriend say she was drunk and cheated on me. She actually called me up to tell me and that it was a mistake and she did not know what really was going on. The fact she called me from out of state to tell me this said a lot to me. But I am also smarter than that. Month or so later I casually brought it back up and saw inconsistencies in the story.

Its all about being calm and solving the situation. You come out on top when you have it figured out and you are the winner. More satisfaction, you feel so much better and not so damn angry and bitter.

Also had another GF cheat on me in high school. I found out. Was calm about it. She ended up being so embarrassed that she changed schools after I was done. Revenge is also great, without violence or anger. Embarrassment is much better.

Cheer them on and send them packing! :-)

Well at least then I would know why I was never getting any! LOL

After being married for 38 years I would get the necessary proof so I could divorce her, and not get cleaned out financially.

Been there. Was a mistake. We worked through it. Won't happen again.

Are you Serious?

I'm seeing two woman right now that are in other relationships. People Cheat - Lots.


I go out for Halloween, made out with two women on the dance floor (at different times), I was embarrased shouldn't do that stuff in public. What do I find out - their both married, but at least they left it there and went home by themselves..

I would never be faithful to a woman unless she just isn't in the game like most woman are. The one woman in another relationship goes to a womans party and let it slip out she had a guy friend. To her shock she wasn't the only one doing it.

Lesson to the men.

Hit the Gym because the fit guys have more woman than they can care to get it up for...

If your woman is cutting you off sex, your out of shape and she isn't .. Guess what bud... :)


Like Micheal Douglas said in Wallstreet, if you want a partner you can trust - get a dog...

think about it , the woman layed downed on a bed , spreaded her legs and let another man screw her , a man pulled down his pants and stuck his penis in another woman , either way or one of these incidents = leave , move on

Aaaaaannd upload it.

From my experience only maybe 35-40% of the population doesn't cheat. Good luck. You'll move on to the next cheater.

Besides people also will compartmentalize things. It won't be cheating in their minds if they only kiss.. If they only grind dance... If they rub up against each other while both are turned on. There are so many shades of infidelity..

I would rather date a woman that is open about it, especially ESPECIALLY a hot woman than have her out getting cock on the side quietly playing that she is faithful..

Woman and men get addicted to the serotonin high, they become junkies, the rush of that forbidden interlude is addicting, and they will keep going to whoever is going to give them the biggest rush.


For me its impossible for a woman to cheat on me because I have redefined what the term 'relationship' means.

For me a relationship starts when I get in bed and ends when I get out in the morning. Rest of the time I'm single, and I never worry about what she is doing because she is going to do whats in her heart anyways..

I'd personally pack his things for him, in garbage bags, and kick him to the curb. Cheating is a deal breaker, for me.

Clean out the bank accounts and move to another city, buy a new ID and let the ex wonder where the cash and investments are now!

Hit em where it hurts! In the wallet! Someone new? I can understand that we all get bored. But you're not going to have them on my dollars. Better make sure they're far richer than I am - otherwise the cheating spouse is broke! (No, no marriage contract and no prenup. They couldn't do much about it!)

Congrats on never knowing love.

There can be such a thing as a mistake, but it has none of the signs of someone with no standards who "gets off" running a game on someone else as a way to feel powerful, which is usually whats going on with a real cheater (not the one time poor judgement isolated incident type thing).

The game running type person is usually addicted to the adrenaline rush of all this "running game" and should be gotten away from as fast as possible unless they and you can commit to heavy duty long-term treatment where they relearn how to live "clean and sober", ie., with some standards. This usually doesn't happen until people hit bottom.

The thing to remember thought is that the one cheated ON in these game running scenarios has some kind of dysfunctional investment in it (they are usually co-dependant and that's their addiction) so it can really help them to get some therapy and insight into their own behavior/self-esteem or they will just attract another "same type" person to them or accept relentless apologies from the cheater who vows never to do it again.

IMHO its time to expand our definition of addiction to "any irresistable urge or compulsion to do something that you can't resist even though you know there are negative consequences". With this expanded definition, more people will get into recovery programs where you relearn how to live "clean and sober". Reading the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book is practically a mystical experience if one feels they have hit bottom.

Any addiction leaves you emotionally unavailable and/or impaired to loved ones. Addiction can be to a substance or a behavior, even cleaning, monitoring your children or spouses behavior constantly for what they are doing wrong, tracking/stalking your boyfriend/girlfriend on FB, taking risks like with your finances, constantly acting out with anger outbursts, even depression or anxiety. (Goggle all addicts anonymous for more info).

I am a recovering relatiohship, co-dependency, shopping and sugar addict and this is some of what I have found helpful in my recovery from the grips of addiction.

you bake some cookies and fry some pork chops,twice bake the potatoes and...........................then you KILL,EM!!!

People choose to be cheated on and thus deserve it. We mask our fears and choose not to confront with the charade of ignorance. If you are married, there should be absolutely no question about trust. Otherwise you fucked up and your marriage is a sham. If your wife flirts around in front of you or tries to sneak it, then she will definitely cheat on you when you aren't there. Besides, flirting IS a form of cheating anyway. So if you wish it away and 'forgive' like a sap piece of shit, then you deserve to be cheated on. You need to be cognizant about all details in your existance. This includes your spouse's behavior. If you bobblehead along happy go lucky like a damn fool ignoring the signs, then you deserve what you get. It's that simple. Now that isn't to say you should rule anyone with an iron fist. But you should definitely give them enough rope to hang themselves.

One of my good friends, one of the more intelligent ones, had his wife at a bonfire party a few years back. His wife was prancing around drunk like a slut and hanging on a couple guys. My friend is very succesful, his wife does not work. Two days later he had divorce papers on the kitchen table along with a list of minimum standards expected of her. Since she wasn't smart enough to figure it out on her own. He made no secret of what he was doing. All family and friends knew the papers were presented. She had a choice. They are still married. Her behavior has since changed and she is the model partner. Loyal, restrained, and self-respecting. Sometimes you just gotta drop a nuke on them. But if they cheated and you stay with them, for any reason, then you are the epitomy of a pathetic bottom-feeder and the world does not need you. Without principles and convictions you are nothing. These brainwashed goons claiming to get with the times or any of that other horse shit are responsible for the destruction of society and they will get theirs in the end. Even if you were an abusive asshole cheating is not acceptable. You divorce the bastard first, then move on. And depending on the state you live in, you can sue the guy that banged your wife. Definitely look into that. Take his monkey ass to the cleaners. It is your duty to fight evil. Good luck.

Very specific....experience?

They always cheat.

The only question is if you find out about it.

Shit in her handbag. And then leave....simples

Games are only for children. If they are not faithful to you, kick em out. Not worth all the heartache and mistrust that might ensue. People who exhibit these kind of behavior are psychologically screwed and broken.

This was pretty good, I'll have to file it away for reference. My new mantra is "Standards...have some!" That'll be enough to fix the world.

Thats not true, its like people choose to be raped.

And I don't care how prim and proper your spouse behaves, or appears they can still be involved in infidelity.

When I was in another province I had a gf, who I picked up some drinks for, and I informed her to bring your friends so she did, a couple of them. One was the most reserved proper english 'housewife' you could picture.

After a pile of shots everybody was cut, so we went out. Sure enough guys were trying to pick her up, and she ended up leaving with this guy only to come back to the house were we all regrouped, and sure enough this guy comes with her.

Long and short of the story anyone can guess what happened. I had nothing to do with this.. But the weirdest part of the entire thing was my GF thought absolutely nothing of the fact that this housewife was humped all night.

Sure enough the GF herself cheated, which hurt, but I was accustomed to it having a X wife who had cheated often as well.

The real point of this issue is does your love for your spouse overlook their mistakes, that is the only thing that really counts. If the two of you are in love you will look past it. If you hinge a relationship on personal ability to remain faithful in its myriad of forms your gonna be disappointed.

People are in denial if you think everybody doesn't cheat. A woman watches a movie sees Brad Pitt and in her heart desires him. A guy watches the same movie sees Angelina Jolie, and well you can guess it.

The thing I don't get is the female rabid hatred of males who are accepting of this.

Myself I don't even expect fidelity from a partner.