Good grief, so you married with a high sex drive, got the other end of the spectrum with a frigid wife and you urged her to join the sex swingers? Sex swinging is the death blow to any marriage, Who wants to sex swap their partner or watch another man pound their lady while they wank off.

Just end it already. You proposing that froze her up and shes closed up to you and cant trust you.

Play the field as a single man and stop living a lie.