any other married people completely fucking lonely?

I'm sorry to hear that...I am married and not lonely.

It's taken work to ensure, but I'm so afraid of becoming another failed marriage statistic that we are very open an conscious of the peaks and valleys...we actively prevent these kinds of feelings.

np mate i realy wish i could be more of a help to you ,
haveing a child is always to makes divorce so hard, in our time and age so many kids go lost because of the lack of good paranting ,

lsn to me, sit with her, tell her the excat same things you are telling us here now, after haveing a good romantic dinner or something, share all your fears and pains and let her share hers, if she does not accept and help you and you dont do the same for her and you guys slowly try to make things work out for the best
, then you know that it does not work out

Years ago I experienced this situation. I learned that I should set aside some time and develop an interest in something appealing to me, learn and pursue this interest with like minded people with whom I could exhange and advance information or kudos within the framework of whatever is selected.

Sometimes we rely on one person in ways that makes them feel smothered(not saying this is the case) and when we separate ourselves from this, just a little, even. they will notice the difference. Usually, if there is a foundation of something which can survive in the relationship the other person may attempt to mend the differences.

In doing this the possible control mechanism of ignoring you is severly muted, especially if you gain satisfaction from your new pursuit. It is important to never lose who you are or completely sublimate it .

Blessings to you in this, it is very lonely .

Yeah, Like I want to taste another mans spit in my wifes cooter or have his hairy ass in the way, his pubic hairs on our bed.

Youre a freak out man

Go party it up after the divorce.

Why not, didn't you bring up the subject?

Oh and so your big wiener has really saved the marriage? LOL Fail.

You know little about women, you have to meet her emotional needs before she will meet your physical needs. She lays there like a dead fish because you turn her off psychologically. Has nothing to do with the size of your member.

You are looking to solve relational problems from a point of view from a person whose only sexual knowledge came from the Penthouse forum.

ok and?

your such a pussy.


if you havent figured it out yet, welcome to life .

uhhh..that sounds terrible...marriage can be much more. It's a bit disappointing how many people have such low expectations of what marriage is.

Or delusional expectations from start to finish.

wow i agree with you

he needs to go to a sex shop and get some fun toys

apollo,
regardless of how much i dislike your take on the cultic things,
sometimes i admire the high morality and virtues in your replies, would love to debate with you on some matters some time , like real time chat or something

regards.

They have swingers clubs where married (pseudo married) couples walk thru the party house and peek in rooms where people are getting it on. They decide which rooms to go into and many spouses like to pick out the person they want to f*ck their spouse and they will watch or swap

Messed up psychopathic sh*t

Those people are crazy.

just divorce her and then turn into priest..apply for a job on your local church and then you will be fuck unlimited small children...life will be happy god will be happy and your wife will be proud that you turned to God and not another hore...

Friend, sure thing ! I have a chat room on my blogsite. (link in sig) its one of the best chat rooms ever !

Thats my policy on real occult work. You uphold your morality. Love is the highest vibration and it generates more power within the person when they uphold LOVE as their creed

Sexual sins are the worst of the worst to muddy up ones aura and karmic debt and will likely result in reincarnation over and over again till the person gets it right.

Thanks for the compliments !

Shukran , jazillian !

^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^

Took the words right outta my mouth!

:-)

That's being going on since the dawn of time. This is not what a committed and loving marriage is to me. That's swinging folks...sex, drugs, and rock and roll.

that is insane.

Ahem, I meant 1,000 partners in a lifetime, a few every week

lol

Singles do their thing, Married people do theirs. Dont mix the two.

Yup, thats their high.

Id rather be in love. Nothing compares to that feeling.

isn't marriage a platform to support each other on?
from that stable support you can expand out and explore life-be more-blossom.
marriage is not a cure for your own inability to connect with the world thus removing all loneliness.

good plan, and if i get caught they will just pay to move me to fresh city. i should aspire to live a moral life like that right apolo?

so love means ownership to you huh?

i love my wife so much i want her to expirience all the joys life has to offer.

You have answered your own problem-o, OP, just as you created it in the first place.

She's laying there like a corpse because she can barely stand the thought of you inside of her. Can't say I blame her.

Oh, sorry for your troubles btw. Good luck with that.

So sorry.

Damn straight.

Its about surrender as well. Why marry a wild horse? You have to tame them. Surrender to love both ways as they say.

uh, okayyy

I wanted to be a Priest once. It was appealing to me. I saw the world changing and its inevitable downfall. Technically it makes more sense to withdraw from a dying world. But God has other plans

sugarcoat it all ya want its spousal tryanny. the bible says to beat your wife too.