any other married people completely fucking lonely?

^this^
Imagine living with a husband who is always negative, always whining and always comparing our family's situation with another family... Imagine a husband who does not know generosity at all!! Can you imagine receiving no gift, no greetings on your birthday or any special occasion? It's too much to bear but I have to endure for the sake of my young children.

Swing an uppercut or a right cross to her face?

Op...you are a fool. She presented herself to you and only you on a silver platter and you still weren't/aren't happy.

Not me. My wife is awesome. She's not the best cook in the world but she takes awesome care of our kids. We've been together 12 years now. And she keeps herself hot and skinny. She never flirts or disrespects our marriage. We still have sex at least everyday. Sometimes 2 or 3 times a day if theres time. She doesn't piss away money on mindless crap even though i make a buck fifty a year. We are in our 30's and can retire in the next few years if we want.

Marriage doesnt have to suck. But you have to make wise and thought out choices. Dont marry a chick just because her tits are huge. Marry her cause she is honest. Dudes bring on their own hell because they get blinded by tits and ass. Dont get me wrong, my wife is a sexy bitch, but she is also enlightened and wise. Choose the right girl. Dont settle for the first piece of ass you get. Or you pay the price. Choose a traditional girl. Not a modernized whore. Traditional chicks make great wives and a lasting marriage.

Id want to beat her if she decided to double dip herself to another penis,

lol.

Convert to Muslim . lol

Jealousy and Love is much more fun than letting it all out and burning out.

God talks about his jealousy over and over in the Bible. Jealousy has its place.

I wonder what your attitude would be like if she suddenly let herself go? Just curious...

I'm 50 and about to get separated from my 2nd wife. You don't know how good you have it dude. Your life is where I'm headed back to. If you need a little female company you can always rent it.

the short, and these days cliched answer, but still true is that you need to actively show her love and she will return with respect.

Its the balance inherent in marriage, that so many these days ignore. Whenever we lose sight of that things get fucked up.

he would head for zee hills. he would get a lawyer and try to leave her with nothing. what a farse.

Get a dog, you won't feel lonely...

I'm happy to be single and live a non-complicated lifestyle in which I can make whatever decisions I want to, and do whatever I want, whenever I want.

think your lonely now, pray she doesnt pass before you .

or
if you lost your job.

then he would be posting threads about being lonely. no money= for new GF

DING DING DING!!!

I feel like a crappy wife because he doesn't want to have fun of any kind (depression or? I have been held at arm's length for a very long time so who knows?) I know we cannot control others' behavior, and we must first be our own best friend, but I am fuckin' starved beyond the beyonds. Hate to think I have flushed 27 years down the toilet... I just turned 50 and am feeling pretty good except for the marriage. Just try to hang in there and don't do anything stupid, bro.

Rule # 1 - (to both sexes):Never Ever Get Married.
Rule # 2 - Always Follow Rule # 1.

rule #1: don't apply your own failures to everyone else as if its a foregone conclusion

This.

Happy 29th wedding anniversary Dan.

This is our third one without you baby. I miss you beyond comprehension.

I know that you are around me guiding and inspiring me.

Is heaven fun?

Love
Me

I have been monitoring this post because my laid off husband gets depressed every winter. Wont take meds. He has been off two weeks. Has made dinner two times in that time. Did dishes once(we have a dishwasher) I make more than him and make good money. He has a Harley and bought "us" a new 60 inch TV for Christmas. I also got a meat thermometer so I could make Christmas dinner for his parents. I have np with any of this HOWEVER he feels lonely. R U serious? I go to work everyday. We have one kid who is in college another who turned sixteen. I put out every week whether I feel like it or not. He looks at porn all day. So DUDE FUCK OFF and GROW UP!

It has been three years and your grief is still so raw. Let it go and give your love to a warm, alive, living person now. He might even tell you the same if he truly loves you.

Take it from me, don't marry a high school principal of a huge high school. If you do, keep a picture of her in your wallet. You'll need it.

Sheeet need a mistress then who gives a fuck man!

LOL, i love what you said.

I always feel lonely, no matter what.
How do you talk to someone who doesnt want to listen???

I swear i have daydreams of my husband being in a wheelchair, tied with heavy rope, mouth gagged and me telling him exactly what i think.

He's nothing but a miserable human being (questionable) and i have felt like this for 30 years!!!! Yes, 30 years!!!!!!!

And lets not go into the sex part.

OP forget about all of this moral bullshit from these higher priests/worshiper of god stupid asses. I understand what you are going through. Having babies is normally putting a lot of pressure on the woman, where they feel that they have to be there 24-7, they get all of their emotional needs taken care of, by their/your baby, and you as a husband is no longer wanted. This is very common. I would agree with others, talk to her and explain how you feel. If it does not work, move on. Women tend to get more frigid by age, aim for someone younger if possible :).

My wife changed very much after having a baby.


I think part of it now is that she is just worn out all the time......from working and being a mommy to a 5 year old. Maybe her hormones changed a bit as well.


This will probably change.....as the child gets older......and she will at some point in time have more energy.


For the moment however she is emotionally numb.


I guess that we all go through phases in our lives.....and the question is... can the other spouse have patience through the time of difficulty?

Of course the spouse can always have patience if the other half is been truthful and honest. But when the wife is not been truthful and honest, then seperate as quick as possible. Research as shown that the so called 'christian' women are the most deceptful and dishonest, and you have to watch your back constantly. They constantly seek approval for their evil deeds from fake pastors, who basically tell them what they want to hear.

I have wasted 6 years of my life with a deceptive, loveless, christian woman and I hope in 2012 she will be gone.

only when I'm around other people

YOUR MOUTH TO SATAN'S EAR!

haha...lol.. dunno why am i feel fun reading this thread.. sorry op.. maybe i not marry yet

If the grass is looking greener on the other side, try watering yours a little more often.