Why do you use that Avatar OP ?
I guess it's not you.
So why?

And you lost me when you started calling your kids ""my ladies"".....

just going overboard a bit aren't you?

Men have no clue, probably shouldn't be looking after a 2 year old anyways..... been there, done that, glad it's over and the kids grew up fine, it's hard going but that's what divorce is - a total mess for everyone.