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Why are MEN SO SELFISH and ungrateful? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 2119121  Netherlands07/25/2012 06:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8977946 Then face up to the fact that it is not men you hate it is God because he made the rules that you reject and are rebelling against like a spoiled child. Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Corinthians 11:9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. Corinthians 14:35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. 15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; I don't hate men. Not at all you took my words to literal...and I'm not reading all of those bible verses sorry....  If I were a rebellious women then I wouldn't read them either. It is hard to look at yourself in the mirror. The ego is a hard thing to keep in check especially when you refuse to face reality. I took your words too literally? I think your words said exactly what you think because most women think the same. I don't play games with my words like you do. I don't leave "plausible deniability" as an escape loophole. Put it this way, you say something and then claim it was taken out of context even though you refuse to read the very evidence that dispute what you say in the bible. You need to suppress those "Eve" genes. . lol...okay dude...it's just that you got bible tards throwing bible verses all over the place here on glp. I just skip right past it. I don't need to read them...it's in the past and done. I'm in the present now and moving forward. Stop judging people I said I hate how some men treat their women like they are below them. I never said I hated men....but whatever you will twist that too...have fun... You are wrong, it is not in the past, the word of the LORD endureth forever! 1 Peter 1:25 25 But the word of the Lord endureth for ever. And this is the word which by the gospel is preached unto you. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 10103014  Australia07/25/2012 07:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19951651  United States07/25/2012 07:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you can not decide if you love the guy after five months OP . Then why should he waste any more time or resources courting you. Sounds like you are just keeping him around as MR Right now , while waiting for Mr. Right 1%er to show up and ride off into the sunset in his aston martin. So fuck off you shallow gold digging cunt , there are millions of girls out there that swallow , you are not special |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25345072 United States10/10/2012 11:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | MEN ARE SELFISH AND ALL THEY EVER CARE ABOUT ARE THERE OWN NEEDS. THEY BELEAVE THAT A WOMAN SHOULD TAKE CARE OF THEM AS IF THE WOMAN WAS THERE MOTHER. WE ARE NOT YOUR MOTHER SO GET OFF YOUR BUTT DO SOME DISHES, MAKE A HOT MEAL, AND DO YOUR OWN LAUNDRY. JUST AN FYI TO MOST MEN OUT THERE WELCOME TO THE 20TH CENTURY. WOMEN WERE NOT PUT ON THIS EARTH JUST TO PLEASE YOU. NOT ONLY THAT SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE AFTER 5 MONTHS. GET REAL. JUST BECAUSE YOUR FEELING NEEDED AND LONELY AT THE TIME. LOOK AT MOST MARRIAGES THESE DAYS THE IN WITH IN THE FIRST YEAR CAUSE THEY GOT MARRIED WAY TO SOON. NOW LOOK AT MOST OLDER COUPLE MARRIAGES THAT HAVE SPENT THE LAST 50 YEARS TOGETHER AND THEY ARE STILL IN LOVE. LOVE WILL NEVER BE THE WAY IT USE TO BE LIKE IT WAS BACK THEN AND IT SURE DOESNT MEAN THE SAME THING EITHER. |
| eve incognito User ID: 25176502  Bosnia and Herzegovina10/12/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | please OP men are amazing creatures. last thing i'd ever want to see when im making love is my butt wide open..and my man he just takes it like a man hasn't had a weak stomach once....i lurv my man, and since he is a man too, i can't say men are bad:Psee my point here... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25028055 United States10/12/2012 12:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well the answer to this is easy. Quoting: sd 1470454 You don't know how to Love or even what it is. sorry, not being mean. But your a user like many modern women. Seriously... your with the guy for 5 months and you can't say "I love you" well... what do you expect for him to do but be rational and go looking for someone who will. Okay, you bypassed love at first sight, you didn't fall in love with him when you met, you weren't head over heels like he obviously was... then you give the guy five months and haven't found what you consider reasons to have fallen in love and you know what Love is something you give... part of it's a choice a commitment to Give something, a decision... "i'll open my heart to this guy and you obviously couldn't do that... so your insulted when he doesn't want to wait around? What should the poor bastard do...wait around and hope you'll fall in Love one day? Just because he keeps you happy or fills some need on a temp basis... No offense but if you don't love him now your not going to, he made the sane male choice... Sorry I know when a woman Loves me I know the first week if not the first day if she is truly smitten or not and so does she Stop reading stupid psych shit in Cosmo and go for it with a guy that makes your heart race and stop being an attention whore Don't kill the messenger  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21003130 United States10/12/2012 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina10/12/2012 12:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well the answer to this is easy. Quoting: sd 1470454 You don't know how to Love or even what it is. sorry, not being mean. But your a user like many modern women. Seriously... your with the guy for 5 months and you can't say "I love you" well... what do you expect for him to do but be rational and go looking for someone who will. Okay, you bypassed love at first sight, you didn't fall in love with him when you met, you weren't head over heels like he obviously was... then you give the guy five months and haven't found what you consider reasons to have fallen in love and you know what Love is something you give... part of it's a choice a commitment to Give something, a decision... "i'll open my heart to this guy and you obviously couldn't do that... so your insulted when he doesn't want to wait around? What should the poor bastard do...wait around and hope you'll fall in Love one day? Just because he keeps you happy or fills some need on a temp basis... No offense but if you don't love him now your not going to, he made the sane male choice... Sorry I know when a woman Loves me I know the first week if not the first day if she is truly smitten or not and so does she Stop reading stupid psych shit in Cosmo and go for it with a guy that makes your heart race and stop being an attention whore Don't kill the messenger my husband also knew i loved him. even tho i raised all hell to pretend i didn't...(i was a jerk at the moment we met, it was my be a real nasty jerk period)my husband is very smart, i could never fool him....he is also brave, and isn't afraid of anyone....sorry offtopic rant, you remind me of my hubby, so i'm ranting....means you're a good man, and i can see from your post smart man too....just like my lovely man....anyway the point of this post is i got me my man,and i tell him i love him whenever i feel it, and that is a lot.... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24960373 United States10/12/2012 12:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It seems to me that there are men and women world-wide that are selfish. Oh, and also many reds, blacks, yellows, whites and browns that are selfish. While I'm at it: there are also many rich and poor people that are selfish. Don't even get me started on young/old either. ;-) |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1611181 10/12/2012 01:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you can not decide if you love the guy after five months OP . Then why should he waste any more time or resources courting you. Sounds like you are just keeping him around as MR Right now , while waiting for Mr. Right 1%er to show up and ride off into the sunset in his aston martin. So fuck off you shallow gold digging cunt , there are millions of girls out there that swallow , you are not special Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19951651 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25266136 United States10/12/2012 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No absolutely not. Just a bunch of angry women ready to jump on the bandwagon. haha exactly. LOL..SO FUNNY..LOL..I THINK ILL USE KARMA AN PINN BOTH THREADS.. not!!! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1290769 United States10/12/2012 01:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't understand why men are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship he told me that he had great feelings for me and that he loved me. I on the other hand told him that I liked him but that I couldn't call it love yet. he pressured me to love him but I told him I needed more time. Then he broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first he told me he wants to stay friends and a week later he wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of him and asked him why was it that he was so cold to me. he told me that he has no more feelings for me. So I asked him, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. he said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. he also said that he thought he loved me at the time. I told him that wasn't normal but he kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for him when he needed me the most. When he had a stomach flu I was there for him. I even took him to the hospital and was there with him even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how men are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8414734 Because we were raised by women. |
| Von_Boner User ID: 320079 Australia10/12/2012 01:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23325970 United States10/12/2012 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't understand why men are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship he told me that he had great feelings for me and that he loved me. I on the other hand told him that I liked him but that I couldn't call it love yet. he pressured me to love him but I told him I needed more time. Then he broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first he told me he wants to stay friends and a week later he wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of him and asked him why was it that he was so cold to me. he told me that he has no more feelings for me. So I asked him, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. he said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. he also said that he thought he loved me at the time. I told him that wasn't normal but he kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for him when he needed me the most. When he had a stomach flu I was there for him. I even took him to the hospital and was there with him even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how men are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8414734 Woman act the same way. Girls and guys act selfish equally. |
| eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina10/12/2012 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I couldn't even make it past the first sentence. Women these days are just men with tits. Some can even grow facial hair. Quoting: Von_Boner 320079 hey, that was completely uncalled for. it is called polycistic ovarian syndrome, and it is heridatory man. why don't you spring for my laser removal treatmant, and there will be once less bearded lady up in this place. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25394394 Australia10/12/2012 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| SevenThunders User ID: 15851599 United States10/12/2012 02:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't understand why men are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship he told me that he had great feelings for me and that he loved me. I on the other hand told him that I liked him but that I couldn't call it love yet. he pressured me to love him but I told him I needed more time. Then he broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8414734 Selfishness is not exclusive to men. Your ex is very immature and does not understand the nature of love. Love is a choice, not a feeling that you accidentally fall into. The Bible makes this point very clear in that it commands men to love their wives and to love God. Biology has designed humans to experience that feeling of romantic euphoria for only about 5 or 6 months and then it fades. Hence unless you have a real commitment you can not sustain a relationship on this alone. For this reason arranged marriages actually fare better than the random untrustworthy feelings based approach. The next best thing would be to use some kind of scientific matchmaking service so that your desires align with your prospective mate's. Also what often destroys these sorts of relationships is unsanctioned sex outside of marriage, otherwise known as fornication. The Bible condemns this behavior and for good reason. Look at the fate of unwed mothers and their children in many urban communities. With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible |
| eve incognito User ID: 25176502 Bosnia and Herzegovina10/12/2012 02:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't understand why men are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship he told me that he had great feelings for me and that he loved me. I on the other hand told him that I liked him but that I couldn't call it love yet. he pressured me to love him but I told him I needed more time. Then he broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8414734 Selfishness is not exclusive to men. Your ex is very immature and does not understand the nature of love. Love is a choice, not a feeling that you accidentally fall into. The Bible makes this point very clear in that it commands men to love their wives and to love God. Biology has designed humans to experience that feeling of romantic euphoria for only about 5 or 6 months and then it fades. Hence unless you have a real commitment you can not sustain a relationship on this alone. For this reason arranged marriages actually fare better than the random untrustworthy feelings based approach. The next best thing would be to use some kind of scientific matchmaking service so that your desires align with your prospective mate's. Also what often destroys these sorts of relationships is unsanctioned sex outside of marriage, otherwise known as fornication. The Bible condemns this behavior and for good reason. Look at the fate of unwed mothers and their children in many urban communities. you sir, are talking complete giberish nonsense. |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 4665114 United States10/12/2012 02:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This should explain it to you, it is the shadow, the shadow grows from lust Thread: what do you think of this theory? how to transmute yourself into a higher dimensional being the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19671181 Australia10/12/2012 02:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Simply put OP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1527041 Most men see a girlfriend as a replacement of their mother So they expect you to wait on and serve them. Mothers raise their sons to be taken care of by a future wife. Also a lot of guys are part of the boys club and see a womans only role should be to breed, take care of them and sexually please them. There may be some exceptions to the rule.  |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 39409691 United States03/21/2014 12:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't understand why men are so selfish. I have been with someone for 5 month. Already a month or so into our relationship he told me that he had great feelings for me and that he loved me. I on the other hand told him that I liked him but that I couldn't call it love yet. he pressured me to love him but I told him I needed more time. Then he broke up with me out of the blue one day after being with me for 5 month. At first he told me he wants to stay friends and a week later he wouldn't reply to my SMS or even calls. So in the end I got a hold of him and asked him why was it that he was so cold to me. he told me that he has no more feelings for me. So I asked him, how could this be? If you truly loved me you would still at least miss me. he said 'I don't want to hurt you but I don't have feelings for you anymore'. he also said that he thought he loved me at the time. I told him that wasn't normal but he kept saying that I can't define what is normal and what isn't. All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her. We practically been together almost everyday. I was there for him when he needed me the most. When he had a stomach flu I was there for him. I even took him to the hospital and was there with him even though I haven't slept for more than 24 hours. This is already not the first time I observe and experience how men are really selfish human beings who only care about themselves in the end. They are good PRETENDERS that's for sure. Nothing they say it seems can be really taken seriously because anything they do only serves their Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8414734 You're calling him selfish and ungrateful? He told you he loved you, you rejected him while trying not to make it look like a rejection so you could keep him in the background, and then he dumped you. Now, you're stunned he won't have anything more do to with you because it's clear you didn't have the same feelings he did, and he knows he has to move on. And you're calling him selfish? Really. Men, read her "complaint" closely and understand. This woman completely lack any empathy for a man at all. While sympathy shows through, which is nice, that isn't enough for a relationship. |
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