Why are MEN SO SELFISH and ungrateful?

Nice try.

Placing "men" in place of "women" actually makes this totally unbelievable and unrealistic. A MAN rarely if EVER behaves like this.

Man those were the days

Because of women

oh okay! lmao...I don't think so. Some men are extremely selfish...just because they are the man the woman must bow down to them. I can't stand that shit.

On your knees where you belong.. Also get in the Kitchen and make me a pie

i8 agree angels/...

Simply put OP.

Most men see a girlfriend as a replacement of their mother So they expect you to wait on and serve them.


Mothers raise their sons to be taken care of by a future wife.

Also a lot of guys are part of the boys club and see a womans only role should be to breed, take care of them and sexually please them.

There may be some exceptions to the rule.

Not all men are that way. Sounds like he may have skipped out of fear. His feelings felt stronger then yours. May have stirred up some past baggage. That is just one of the possibilies, could be many others.

*****5 stars

if you never loved him anyways, then why do you care...just move on.

Men are worthless.

You are actually right.. couple giveaways:

The only sentence where the first letter isn't capitalized. The 'S' was removed:

"he also said that he thought he loved me at the time."

Then:

"All this time I was trying to be so supportive of her."

Hey don't talk to Angels like that :P also I just out of the kitchen damnit!! lol

man tells you he loves you.
After 5 months you cannot even come close to saying it.
What were you waiting for, no wonder he bailed...
EXCUSE ME but NOT all MEN are like this...

oh yeah good post lol

well the answer to this is easy.

You don't know how to Love or even what it is.

sorry, not being mean. But your a user like many modern women.

Seriously... your with the guy for 5 months and you can't say "I love you"

well... what do you expect for him to do but be rational and go looking for someone who will.

Okay, you bypassed love at first sight, you didn't fall in love with him when you met, you weren't head over heels like he obviously was... then you give the guy five months and haven't found what you consider reasons to have fallen in love

and you know what Love is something you give... part of it's a choice a commitment to Give something, a decision... "i'll open my heart to this guy and you obviously couldn't do that...

so your insulted when he doesn't want to wait around? What should the poor bastard do...wait around and hope you'll fall in Love one day? Just because he keeps you happy or fills some need on a temp basis...

No offense but if you don't love him now your not going to, he made the sane male choice...

Sorry I know when a woman Loves me I know the first week if not the first day if she is truly smitten or not and so does she

Stop reading stupid psych shit in Cosmo and go for it with a guy that makes your heart race and stop being an attention whore

Don't kill the messenger

Did you make me my pie???

Kitchen now or GTFO!

I don't make pies honey...I make the big dinners...and I buy the desserts...a girl can only be in the kitchen so much ya know lol :P

damn I'm being told to get in the kitchen too much with this thread...I'm out

Then face up to the fact that it is not men you hate it is God because he made the rules that you reject and are rebelling against like a spoiled child.

Genesis 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.


Colossians 3:18
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

Corinthians 7:3
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other,

Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Corinthians 11:9
Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Corinthians 14:35
And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.

Timothy 2:11
Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing,

Peter 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

So your saying we want you to be a woman?

well yeah... it's NORMAL not convoluted crap your fed from text book in college or a bad magazine

DUHR

What the fuck in hell does a guy want a Woman for if not to reproduce and take care of children? I need a friend who's a financial dependent for the rest of my life who wont give me sons or make me sexually happy????

For what? I have a guy named Mark he's big and fat and he plays video games with me and likes beer... and he doesn't cost me shit but a 6 pack.... you can't even compare as a friend or a companion you'll never be as funny and you likely suck at soul caliber

What other role do you suppose a woman is needed for by a guy... can you Fart well and make me laugh, do you like football what?

OMG he wants me to breed.... ROFLMAO yes that is exactly why I seek out a woman...NEWS FLASH someone to have sex with is part of life, I was born with needs so were you, can't help it any more than I can help eating shiting or breathing not part of the "choice" category

I have like 40 dudes to drink beer with and they are all every last one better at it than you.

and just for the record most of us take great pride in giving that pleasure back in bed just for the record it's not a one way street.

Wake up and stop being so frigged and feeling so cursed by your biology.. Sex and children that's why we like women, work on your funny voices all you want 200,000 years of evolution says you'll never be as good at is a guy

and if you want to be "in the boys club" well ... there are surgeries these day and hormones and stuff...but until you grow a mustache you can get me in the "friend zone" via my own stupidity but i'll still want to fuck you and you wont actually be one of the guys any more than i'll be invited to the sewing circle to talk about my period

The difference is tho...I don't want to be in the girls club, I have no Vag envy, doesn't exist... you'll never see a bunch of dudes sitting around going..."gosh can't we just be friends and do things she likes together" because...i'm a guy I don't like the shit you do that's why you have girlfriends...perfectly content to be there to protect and provide and make you feel pleasure so long as you let me watch the Giants beat the shit our of the 49ers next week...

gimmie a break lol

its a strange dude indeed OP.

but i can relate somewhat with him.
i try to help you understand it.

1)he told you he loves you,
2)you told him you like him,
3)he has seen you take care of him while having flu,
4)so he thinks that you love him but that you just won,t say it,
5)you say that you like him but can,t say that you love him,
6)he thinks: she likes me but don,t love me ive been around with her for 5 months and she still can,t say it,
7)well she don,t love me? i better end it right now,
8)and YES love can run cold instantly when someone is really hurt be that physical or non physical,
9)so now he has no feelings for you anymore he says,
10)either he,s a good liar or he speaks the truth,

to think that he didn,t loved you as much as he does not have any feelings for you know anymore, is a flaw in thinking.
things can change in an instant that isn,t necessarily his fault nor is it yours its just how he feels it and took it.

for him its like you slapped him in the face multiple times
and he was tired of it hurted and fled from you

for you you just didn,t felt that way for him then,maybe someday you realize you loved him more than you liked him

you both cannot be blamed for this, but maybe talking more about the subject to reach into each others minds that creates understanding and patience...

i had it when i was very much in love with my sisters friend, she said she loved me too,everything was good, after a while she got second thoughts about it and then after few weeks she said to my sister that she never said that she loved me.,
my sister told me that, and i said that she,s lying,my sister took her side...
my head became numb for a second or 2 and then.
my blood run cold instantly
my love ran cold instantly, and i didn,t even shed a single tear, and didn,t even felt the dagger in my back anymore.

even later when i saw her back at my sisters marriage(and the alan parsons project came to my mind) and i smiled and thought you where a friend of mine and the sadness would be lifted before my eyes etc
now im old and wise.
after a few years she admitted the lie to my sister, my sister said: sorry i shouldn,t have taken her side, i said i told you then and now you see who,s right.
no hard feelings or something

that girl has a though life now with 4 children and a man that is always away from home....

so try to find yourself a new man.
and try to find each other out.
talk talk talk you can always kiss between the talk...

God bless ya

okay that was good even I have to admit that lol

I don't hate men. Not at all you took my words to literal...and I'm not reading all of those bible verses sorry....

People, its people, you discriminatory sexist brain fucked scumbag

OP ~~~ as you see things, so you are them...
(you must be selfish and ungrateful)

I sure you have some good qualities, pay them attention, not the negative ones(~).

It does amaze me that when a woman picks a loser for a b/f, husband, the woman blames their choice on the guy !!!!

Love yourself first, then you'll find someone to Love You(!)

lol, above poster is an ass hat.

If I were a rebellious women then I wouldn't read them either. It is hard to look at yourself in the mirror. The ego is a hard thing to keep in check especially when you refuse to face reality.

I took your words too literally? I think your words said exactly what you think because most women think the same. I don't play games with my words like you do. I don't leave "plausible deniability" as an escape loophole. Put it this way, you say something and then claim it was taken out of context even though you refuse to read the very evidence that dispute what you say in the bible.

You need to suppress those "Eve" genes.

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oh excuse me, I can tell by the shot of your pecks that you have a huge amount of time devoted to relationships... how the hell a kid who can't be old enough to have ever had a meaningful relationship can even comment is beyond my sensibilities.

What are you doing kissing women's ass and posting yourself with your honestly badly formed and slightly high fat pectorals in hopes you get some internet sex?

Please by all means spend five months of your time while in college or whatever with a woman who can't say "I love you" see how many times your willing to do that before you say "Fuck That"

I'm not much older than you but I assure you people wasting your fucking time gets old real fast

You'll say anything to get a girls attention your a walking hormone STFU