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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3160 United States 10/30/2005 11:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The days will come when you´ll be needing some forgiveness too. You can take on a problem solving approach. Concentrate on the act, why she did it, and does she understand why so she will not repeat the bad behavior. THe goal should be for both of you to understand what her void/insecurity was that she was trying to fill. She can learn to do this in other ways. Only be addressing the root problem will this be solved. Then it becomes not like a ´she cheated on ME´ but a ´her self esteem is so low that when she was angry she tried to fill the void with bad behavior´. See, even if it WAS personal to you, what she did, at the root it never is. Because the bottom line motivator is always something a person is lacking in. Don´t take it personal. Examine. Understand. Resolve. Move on. |
FS User ID: 4718 United States 10/30/2005 11:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Rise above it BROKEN SOUL. Continue to improve your relations with everyone, including the one who shook your reality Free Spirit |
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