One of the most basic and universal of indian spiritual beliefs would give you great comfort if you would only stop believing in the mainstream nonsense. Why do you think they ave made it ILLEGAL to teach creation in public schools? They want the children to feel like there is no point to morality. You daughter may be with you in spirit but if so it will be by er choice, not yours. Personally i wouldn't count on it. She could be incarnate in any number of things including another human or animal, or she could remain in the spirit realm unattached to any physical manifestation, but she doesn't have to remember you necessarily. I can remember bits of previous lives but very little about my loved ones.