I actually still have something akin to Post traumatic stress syndrome after my dear boyfriend who I was greatly in love with was so upset at me for stirring my tea and setting the wet spoon on the counter. He didn't talk to me the rest of the night (hours - and I was visiting his apt.) and then told me off for an hour. A wet spoon should go IN THE SINK. Oh believe me, there's plenty more stories like that. Don't even start OP. But I can tell you - instead of complaining - don't get married or have any meaningful relationships then you can shut your yap by WHINING on websites.