I'll tell you something else, I had fallen into a trap of the enemy too. Mine was debating with other "believers" here. They would drop the bait and I would pick it up, every time like a sucker. I refused to ignore them, I was determined to show them how wrong they were, and in the process wasted hour upon hour of precious time agruing, defending myself and my position, and getting upset, frustrated and angry.
Then one day I felt the Holy Spirit tell me to stop, no more, enough, and to completely ignore them and give them no time and no audience. That's when I posted a thread about it, and ever since I don't even reply to those people anymore. It was affecting my spirituality because it caused me to have hard feelings. It had to stop.
Now, I ignore them and focus on positive things and witnessing to unbelievers. If I don't have the energy to do that, then I just do something else that day. You must do the same thing. Chasing dates is numerology and I believe it's wrong, it's deception and confusion and not how God operates. It's a trap from the enemy, put it down and leave it alone.
If you can't do that and switch your focus, then leave GLP. It's not worth damaging your precious relationship with God, that's what satan wants. Don't let him win.