This is a bump. Some understand that it is internal.
That any ritual, take for example, a Christian wedding, relates the story of what happens to you internally. Apart from touch, etc, there is NO mystic energy exchange between two people, but I won't say NEVER. It's all about YOU and it's all HER, how, in what light, you're able to see her. That perhaps then there can be tangible exchange of energies.
The fact rituals are such a performance is more for the sake of lookers-on, the fact it has evolved this way, is rather clever for the purposes of story telling and arousing la otra mujer.
When most marry, they marry to meet a biological need, and that's god at work, but there is marriage only to "a type of a woman". Let that woman remain chaste on your wedding night, be with her, be tempted even to lie with her but do not, ever, and you both be immortal together forever. If you really must know, she will unveil to you. Don't spoil it, because no mortal hath unveiled.
Otherwise the passion dies with you and it was all for naught. Trust your feelings on this matter.
We want the video, on a whim, because we want knowledge, and this is god at work. Be it lust? We are still learning! :)
"<i>For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.</i>" - Ephesians 6:12
Unbeknown to ourselves, we are, we do, this wickedness. By not lifting Him up, we let Her down.
"And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: That whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life." - John 3:14 3:15
Please, just wake the fuck up.