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Patrick Bateman User ID: 9940998 United States 02/05/2012 11:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am starting to think that Patrick is playing backup man for cons. How is your neck doing? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7244814 Back up man for cons? Like just backing up the role players? Lol, I assure you I am not. I may be getting played, but oh well. My neck is much much better than it was in the fall. The rotator cuff is healed, I still need surgery on my neck, but am trying to hold off. The pinched nerves are gone, so it is just annoying dealing with the neck pain, but I have had it since I was 19 so nothing new. It sucks here in PA we do not have medicinal marijuana legalized, and have to take these damn vicodin for the pain since I cannot smoke any more. They do not work as well, and are worse for me, but oh well. I have been doing p90x trying to stay in shape and strengthen back up some, probably start weight lifting again sometime this month. So it's not too bad, just some pain and muscle spasms. Thanks for asking though! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 967614 United States 02/05/2012 11:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller It'tragic that your Dad's main contribution in your life was to serve as an object lesson, as in "don't let this happen to you". But, for whatever reason, it was the best he could do. He didn't have the skillset to deal with whatever made him that way, much less to change things. Even though you started losing him long ago, it's still very painful. Plus, it's okay for you to be angry about missing out on having a Dad. You'll probably be an amzingly attentive, hands-on Dad if you ever have kids. Maybe you could just hang on to a couple of good memories of him, and let the rest fade over time. Good luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5261932 United States 02/05/2012 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your losses and challenges will strengthen you. May God give you strength and wisdom from those challenges. God knows, you've had your share. Hang in there! |
CerealKiller (OP) User ID: 9442140 United States 02/06/2012 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller Translation: Your mother threw dad out to sit on welfare and collect child support and refused to let him see his kids! Typical. My mother never collected Welfare and worked two jobs to buy her first home without anyone's help. I believe you believe this is important |
CerealKiller (OP) User ID: 9442140 United States 02/06/2012 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why are you sharing the awful death of your father on a Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9904258 discussion forum? Why not? He probably just needed to communicate with people. True and thanks. Please, what is your father's first name OP? His first name is/was Larry I believe you believe this is important |
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smokahontas User ID: 10277179 United States 02/06/2012 10:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller Hope you learned from this. Sounds like you have. Do not follow in his footsteps because he is now forever burning in hell. Quit being a judgemental ass clown. You have no idea who is in Hell or who will go. Or for that matter if there is one! "I may not agree with what you say, but I would defend to the death your right to say it." Voltaire "Facts do not cease to exist just because they are ignored." Aldous Huxley |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1201807 United States 02/06/2012 11:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sympathy goes out to you and family at this time.I'm sure Your father knew his shortcomings that may have been one reason he did what he did. My Mother abandoned me as a newborn and as a teen I resented her for that but as I grew older I could see her reasoning, she must have been too young and afraid. I ended up being adopted by a loving couple who could not have children. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10263205 Germany 02/06/2012 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller Hope you learned from this. Sounds like you have. Do not follow in his footsteps because he is now forever burning in hell. Read Bible much ? Maybe you should check the cover next time before you proceed. |
Xerces User ID: 4708151 United States 02/06/2012 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do not follow in his footsteps because he is now forever burning in hell. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9413171 Rev. Phelps? That you? "A truth's initial commotion is directly proportional to how deeply the lie was believed. When a well-packaged web of lies has been sold gradually to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous and its speaker, a raving lunatic." -Dresden James "All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed, second it is violently opposed, and third, it is accepted as self-evident." -Arthur Schopenhauer |
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where's my stapler User ID: 9917802 United Kingdom 02/06/2012 02:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller Hope you learned from this. Sounds like you have. Do not follow in his footsteps because he is now forever burning in hell. how nice ... i dont wana go in the basement , im gona burn the building .... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10294513 United States 02/06/2012 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am sorry. I have always believed that what it takes to kill yourself comes from mental illness. Watch yourself and your children like a hawk, make sure this tragedy never happens again. Some people need medication to change the chemistry of their brains, no different than someone with pneumonia needs antibiotics. He was already killing himself emotionally when he left you, no doubt a totally cute squeezable child. That not normal! Cyber hug to you. Personal prayers sent up for you. Sometimes this world of unanswered questions is just painful. |
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iNGRID User ID: 4555812 United States 02/06/2012 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i am soo sorry. It was probably that he was so sickened at abadoning you when you were two. My father also did that, when I was two, and he is still not right. Even tho they try, and pretend, they can never really get over doing that to other people. It will all be on another track, soon, CerealEater. You will have your father in that realm, where he never will have any sadness, nor you, nor your mother, nor anyone, becuase - get this, its incrediblly freaky and true, - all this sadness and tragedy will BE MADE TO NEVER HAVE TAKEN PLACE. YES. SERIOUS, CEREAL. it WILL HAPPEN THIS. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4555812 United States 02/06/2012 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what i meanst to say was, when time is un-done, by the Creator of time, and then, by unravelling time backwards to before any of the badness ever took place, He/They (Our Creators, Yah and Yahushua) will have us, who were conceived, and yet, none of the bad things that took place during TIME - will ever have actually happened. !? A new beginning will be started then, and time will not actually exist! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1232279 Canada 02/06/2012 03:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My father abandoned us when I was two and I was raised by a wonderful mother (who also passed unexpectedly two years ago)I saw him occasionally throughout the years and he wasn't horrible just not meant to be a parent. I am not sad or angry or anything. Although by watching how my father pissed his life away it actually helped me take responsibility for myself and become an honest person and achieve a college degree. So he did teach me something by not wanting to be like him. Thanks for reading. Quoting: CerealKiller Hope you learned from this. Sounds like you have. Do not follow in his footsteps because he is now forever burning in hell. He's not burning anywhere you religious shit heel. There is zero ability for anyone to burn eternally. More likely he's back in his previous life years ago on a different timeline to do exactly what he was supposed to do while he was here. We each get the same opportunities to do whatever we are really here to do. The whole burning in hell part is a total shit fest based on a book used to control millions of people before government. Sorry christ tards, all you "believe" is just the rehashing of the same old Egyptian crap spewed 8 thousands of years ago. Now grow up. |
sandpiper User ID: 10299610 United States 02/06/2012 04:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fathers are special, no matter what we get, I was lucky mine was wonderful. Sounds like in spite of your Dad, he did teach you a good lesson, love him for his good points. Sorry for you loss of time with him. If you break my wings, I will just find a cloud and learn to fly again. The Lord will catch you when you fall or teach you to fly! May the footprints I leave lead you to BELIEVE. |