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CrazyLibertarian User ID: 8288888 United States 02/06/2012 11:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a single father of a 6yr old, beautiful little girl. I raise her alone and have since she was about a year old. Her mom is an addict so I took over. I am often told that I am a really good looking guy and I am in good shape. I look much younger than my age. God blessed me ;-) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism over the last few years. I have met/dated a few women, maybe 6 or 7, in the last three or four years and they want me, but they sure don't want my kid. I meet these women mostly online and they are near my age, late 30's, and they tell me everything I want to hear...How much they want a real man to treat them well and they want love and a relationship, but as soon as my kid comes into the picture and shows her affection for women, they walk. I also can't seem to get past a first date anymore, even though I do everything right, I come back to my daughter, talking about her, and how much she means to me. She does come first, but women want men to understand this exact point themselves. So why can't women get over themselves and accept the responsibility that they want men to accept and make a part of their lives??? My baby needs a mom figure, but women seem so selfish anymore, why? What happened to women loving children? Unconditionally?? I am very discouraged. American women have been brainwashed into being something completely different then what a woman originally was. You have to go find a wife in a third world country. Try the Philippines. Women are no longer the loving nurturers they used to be. Yes, I am sexist I do believe that women are different then men. Not unequal but very different. Women in America have developed tons of complexes about working and what they do. They don't want to be portrayed as dumb housewives. A third world woman will not feel that way and will be happy to be safe and protected. Time to plan a trip to the Philippines. It's always always always the governments fault, no matter what. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a single father of a 6yr old, beautiful little girl. I raise her alone and have since she was about a year old. Her mom is an addict so I took over. I am often told that I am a really good looking guy and I am in good shape. I look much younger than my age. God blessed me ;-) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism over the last few years. I have met/dated a few women, maybe 6 or 7, in the last three or four years and they want me, but they sure don't want my kid. I meet these women mostly online and they are near my age, late 30's, and they tell me everything I want to hear...How much they want a real man to treat them well and they want love and a relationship, but as soon as my kid comes into the picture and shows her affection for women, they walk. I also can't seem to get past a first date anymore, even though I do everything right, I come back to my daughter, talking about her, and how much she means to me. She does come first, but women want men to understand this exact point themselves. So why can't women get over themselves and accept the responsibility that they want men to accept and make a part of their lives??? My baby needs a mom figure, but women seem so selfish anymore, why? What happened to women loving children? Unconditionally?? I am very discouraged. American women have been brainwashed into being something completely different then what a woman originally was. You have to go find a wife in a third world country. Try the Philippines. Women are no longer the loving nurturers they used to be. Yes, I am sexist I do believe that women are different then men. Not unequal but very different. Women in America have developed tons of complexes about working and what they do. They don't want to be portrayed as dumb housewives. A third world woman will not feel that way and will be happy to be safe and protected. Time to plan a trip to the Philippines. Let me say that I understand that I had my child a bit later in life than a lot of people my age. Plenty of friends had their children before 30yrs old. This tends to lead to folks wanting to have their lives back in their late 30's because they think they have put their time in and shouldn't have to be caring for little ones anymore. I know this is a fact. The women I meet all have kids, so I cannot comprehend how they cannot see my point of view, nor want a new child in their life. I love kids. If I had the right Mom for a future child, I'd be all for another baby. Not a good time to be bringing a new life into this screwed up world, but I digress. I'd be all about getting to know their kids. Women seem like they think they are all living as actors in an episode of Sex and the City. Treat men like garbage, go after all they "want" and live for themselves. I understand that men have long been considered dogs for this behavior, so why do women think that it's now the way to be??? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1266452 Canada 02/06/2012 12:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They have become programmed. Just like most men. Ever meet 30 year old men, tell them you have a kid and them not understand or be able to picture it? I would love a kid! I'm a 26 year old man. I cannot wait to find a woman worth having a kid with. But, I am in a similar boat as you (just without the kid), I'm a intelligent, not programmed human being...Finding people with real morals is very hard. I agree with the other comment. Doesn't have to be the Philippines, but women from other areas of the world know how to live better. Hell, even women from Europe! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4236577 United States 02/06/2012 12:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here's a list of KateCan's perfect man: "A boat owner, 100 + merc outboard A fishing boat A Lake house A quad A Seadoo Into traveling winter Rocking home with all the perks at the lake A couple snowmobiles." materialistic whores |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10099855 United States 02/06/2012 12:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP the woman looks a the child and sees just hardship WORKING AND CHILD CARE is a tough thing to do BOTH If the child does not belong to them ; I can see where they are coming from If you gave the woman the option NOT to have to work outside the home just inside and take care of your child I bet more women would be agreeable |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's Canadian women too apparently. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4236577 Here's a list of KateCan's perfect man: "A boat owner, 100 + merc outboard A fishing boat A Lake house A quad A Seadoo Into traveling winter Rocking home with all the perks at the lake A couple snowmobiles." materialistic whores I truly believe that women in America have become very materialistic. It is disgusting. My Mother taught me to open doors, have respect and morals. One woman at a time, and focus on her. These women now think it's all about what they can or should have, not love and contentment. Even the women I meet that are Christian, like myself, are so caught up in the ways of the world, they are blind to how they are acting and conducting themselves... I am waiting patiently for God to bring my true love into my life and my daughters, I just am losing faith. Especially with the threads about what this woman wants in her man. She wants a sugar daddy to give her what she wants and leave her alone to enjoy it. Probably wants all that stuff to take her GF's out for fun, leave guy at home... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1266452 Canada 02/06/2012 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10099855 the woman looks a the child and sees just hardship WORKING AND CHILD CARE is a tough thing to do BOTH If the child does not belong to them ; I can see where they are coming from If you gave the woman the option NOT to have to work outside the home just inside and take care of your child I bet more women would be agreeable OP - don't listen to this garbage. I am a man and do not look down on women with a child, or children. How lame could you be to not want to love someone because they have offspring? ...How idiotic of an idea is that really? What if your prior wife died and you are taking care of the kid like a good father? ...Be a good father to your child - these sluts don't matter. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 10099855 United States 02/06/2012 12:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10099855 the woman looks a the child and sees just hardship WORKING AND CHILD CARE is a tough thing to do BOTH If the child does not belong to them ; I can see where they are coming from If you gave the woman the option NOT to have to work outside the home just inside and take care of your child I bet more women would be agreeable OP - don't listen to this garbage. I am a man and do not look down on women with a child, or children. How lame could you be to not want to love someone because they have offspring? ...How idiotic of an idea is that really? What if your prior wife died and you are taking care of the kid like a good father? ...Be a good father to your child - these sluts don't matter. If the woman was given the option of NOT working outside the home just inside the home then more women would bite I know for certain YOu OP will have a difficult time finding a woman willing to WORK and raise your child both |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What is with all the women bashing lately?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5240732 OP, I feel for you, but women have this problem with men too, and always have. Doesn't matter what sex you are, trying to find love as a single parent is extremely difficult. Best of luck to you. I promise I am not trying to bash women. I LOVE women. My Mother is one, lol. They have just turned on me. I understand that women have long had this issue with men, but that is no reason to try to emulate the same role. I need a woman that has old fashioned morals and values, that's all. Thank you for your well wishes, I am patient. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 10099855 United States 02/06/2012 12:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10099855 the woman looks a the child and sees just hardship WORKING AND CHILD CARE is a tough thing to do BOTH If the child does not belong to them ; I can see where they are coming from If you gave the woman the option NOT to have to work outside the home just inside and take care of your child I bet more women would be agreeable OP - don't listen to this garbage. I am a man and do not look down on women with a child, or children. How lame could you be to not want to love someone because they have offspring? ...How idiotic of an idea is that really? What if your prior wife died and you are taking care of the kid like a good father? ...Be a good father to your child - these sluts don't matter. and you are an ass A woman that stands up for her beliefs is a slut? YOu dont have anyone in your life I bet |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1266452 Canada 02/06/2012 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10099855 the woman looks a the child and sees just hardship WORKING AND CHILD CARE is a tough thing to do BOTH If the child does not belong to them ; I can see where they are coming from If you gave the woman the option NOT to have to work outside the home just inside and take care of your child I bet more women would be agreeable OP - don't listen to this garbage. I am a man and do not look down on women with a child, or children. How lame could you be to not want to love someone because they have offspring? ...How idiotic of an idea is that really? What if your prior wife died and you are taking care of the kid like a good father? ...Be a good father to your child - these sluts don't matter. and you are an ass A woman that stands up for her beliefs is a slut? YOu dont have anyone in your life I bet Haha, I can score sluts easily. Who wants that? I'm an attractive, fit, successful 26 year old. Everyone wants a piece. Unfortunately for them, I have morals and beliefs in how I should live my life - something they all lack. If a woman must be supported by you in order to accept your beautiful offspring, it ain't a woman you want to spend your life with! God, these entitles women piss me off! If they had a child - I'm sure they'd expect men to accept that with open arms! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 8376119 Germany 02/06/2012 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 That about sums it up, bro. You must realize, US women have become similar to the rage Zombies in 28 Days Later. That's what I compare them to, anyhow. They have an infection. YOU cannot cure this infection; no one can. Don't even bother with trying to figure out how they got that way; they did, and they are now damaged goods. As a poster above stated, it's like those shows Real Housewives of Whatever city... They are materialistic, narcissistic, backstabbing, and will wreck you and your kid and anyone else who gets in their way of riches and the whoredom club. This is largely a North American phenomenon thing, but it IS spreading. There are still good women in Europe, east and west, and Russia and Asia and S. America. If you are really looking for a woman, look in one of those places. US women are a lost cause. Once a zombie has the infection, well, you know.... I hope this info helps you. |
Bluebird User ID: 730536 United States 02/06/2012 12:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should not be exposing your child to a stream of women. Only after you have a rock solid relationship should your child be exposed to these women. And by then you also should know how the woman will react to a child. Find the woman first then introduce to the child only after you have something goint with the woman. One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one. Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway. Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2122560 United States 02/06/2012 12:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you talk a little to much about your daughter. Its ok to let them know you are raising her and how much you love her, but remember they want a man that will love them also. You sound like you let them know on the first date that no one will be loved as much as your daughter. I am sure I wouldnt want to hear that said as I am just getting to know someone. I think women will know this without you telling them upfront. To much to soon may scare them off. No one wants to know off the bat they are going to number 2 in your life. Your daughter should be loved as a daughter and a mate as a mate, both should be equal in your life. Really what do you want with a woman in your life? Sex ? I wouldnt want to be told up front I will never be loved like you love your daughter, and the sounds of it if you did find a lady and bring her into your life there may be conflict between the two of them, will you side with you daughter every time they have a fight? and Mothers and daughters do, even real Mothers. I think your best bet is to have lady friends but only one female in your home life. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We should find nice islamic girls or 3rd world Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10056367 catholic girls who know their place ? Cause us guys are all great catches that a smart girl should be grateful to have . . . . I cannot agree with women who "know their place" as I truly respect women. Their place is what they make it. That is up to them as it is anybody's choice. I want one who makes myself and OUR children, priority. I do not care if she holds a full time job, I can cover all we need. If I am willing to hold a full time job and help raise another woman's child, which I did for 6 yrs prior to having my own child, then they should be willing to do the same for love and happiness. And yes there are plenty of guys like me, because I am friends with another guy going through the same issue. We are great guys and some woman out there is hecka missing out. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5240732 United States 02/06/2012 12:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 That about sums it up, bro. You must realize, US women have become similar to the rage Zombies in 28 Days Later. That's what I compare them to, anyhow. They have an infection. YOU cannot cure this infection; no one can. Don't even bother with trying to figure out how they got that way; they did, and they are now damaged goods. As a poster above stated, it's like those shows Real Housewives of Whatever city... They are materialistic, narcissistic, backstabbing, and will wreck you and your kid and anyone else who gets in their way of riches and the whoredom club. This is largely a North American phenomenon thing, but it IS spreading. There are still good women in Europe, east and west, and Russia and Asia and S. America. If you are really looking for a woman, look in one of those places. US women are a lost cause. Once a zombie has the infection, well, you know.... I hope this info helps you. You are either insane or seriously pissed off about the last woman who wronged you... I assure you, there are PLENTY of good women here in the U.S. You and all the other woman-bashers on this thread should ask yourselves: What am I doing wrong that I only attract narcissistic "whores". What could I do differently to find and attract a good woman? But I'm sure you'll just keep belittling us with your inaccurate generalizations rather than try to solve your problem. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1266452 Canada 02/06/2012 12:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 That about sums it up, bro. You must realize, US women have become similar to the rage Zombies in 28 Days Later. That's what I compare them to, anyhow. They have an infection. YOU cannot cure this infection; no one can. Don't even bother with trying to figure out how they got that way; they did, and they are now damaged goods. As a poster above stated, it's like those shows Real Housewives of Whatever city... They are materialistic, narcissistic, backstabbing, and will wreck you and your kid and anyone else who gets in their way of riches and the whoredom club. This is largely a North American phenomenon thing, but it IS spreading. There are still good women in Europe, east and west, and Russia and Asia and S. America. If you are really looking for a woman, look in one of those places. US women are a lost cause. Once a zombie has the infection, well, you know.... I hope this info helps you. You are either insane or seriously pissed off about the last woman who wronged you... I assure you, there are PLENTY of good women here in the U.S. You and all the other woman-bashers on this thread should ask yourselves: What am I doing wrong that I only attract narcissistic "whores". What could I do differently to find and attract a good woman? But I'm sure you'll just keep belittling us with your inaccurate generalizations rather than try to solve your problem. I don't see shows called ' Real house husbands of...' I don't see Harry Hilton I see Paris Hilton. I don't see as many male sex tapes from celebrities as females. ...Give me a break. Women have been programmed since birth to be as one poster said 'zombies'. Don't blame the man for not finding a good woman with the small time he has between work and parenting. ...It's not his fault women turned into this. ...it's not womens fault either! We're all to blame for this. We're just discussing what has occurred. |
JadeDone User ID: 2546215 United States 02/06/2012 12:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | AC, you just haven't met the right woman yet. Don't give up and please don't think all women are shallow. Believe me, many single moms are in the same position, meeting men that want nothing to do with their kids. Maybe you could try meeting women somewhere other than online? If you go out into the world and busy yourself with things that you enjoy, you'll meet the right one. Love finds us when we are not looking as we are most attractive when we don't need anything from someone else. Good luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1639744 02/06/2012 12:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i realized what your issues are asap! she ran off is a drug addict. assuming she gets much blame for the failure of the relationship, refrain from mentioning that to future mates. it says : i have no accountability. you meet them on the internet: are we talking e harmony or facebook mocospace. im assuming the later two. i refused to date men with kids for many reasons. most of all im not playing baby mamma to someone else's child. its sad about the mother really. but i don't see how you knocking up a dope fiend means other women need to lower their standards or change for you. or how its females faults. it screams of short term commitment. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5240732 United States 02/06/2012 12:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We should find nice islamic girls or 3rd world Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10056367 catholic girls who know their place ? Cause us guys are all great catches that a smart girl should be grateful to have . . . . I cannot agree with women who "know their place" as I truly respect women. Their place is what they make it. That is up to them as it is anybody's choice. I want one who makes myself and OUR children, priority. I do not care if she holds a full time job, I can cover all we need. If I am willing to hold a full time job and help raise another woman's child, which I did for 6 yrs prior to having my own child, then they should be willing to do the same for love and happiness. And yes there are plenty of guys like me, because I am friends with another guy going through the same issue. We are great guys and some woman out there is hecka missing out. OP, thank you for not being psycho and vicious like some of the other posters here. I do believe that you respect women and just want to find someone who will love and cherish you and your daughter, but you do need to look at yourself. What could you do differently to find a good woman? Because we are out there, I assure you. And when you find one, how can you make it easier for her to embrace your child as her own - that really is a lot to ask of anyone. You will find someone, it will just take time. Please just make sure she really loves you both, and won't sudedenly turn on your daughter should she have her "own" child with you, like my stemother did to me... It is hard, and I truly wish the best for you and your daughter. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you talk a little to much about your daughter. Its ok to let them know you are raising her and how much you love her, but remember they want a man that will love them also. You sound like you let them know on the first date that no one will be loved as much as your daughter. I am sure I wouldnt want to hear that said as I am just getting to know someone. I think women will know this without you telling them upfront. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2122560 To much to soon may scare them off. No one wants to know off the bat they are going to number 2 in your life. Your daughter should be loved as a daughter and a mate as a mate, both should be equal in your life. Really what do you want with a woman in your life? Sex ? I wouldnt want to be told up front I will never be loved like you love your daughter, and the sounds of it if you did find a lady and bring her into your life there may be conflict between the two of them, will you side with you daughter every time they have a fight? and Mothers and daughters do, even real Mothers. I think your best bet is to have lady friends but only one female in your home life. Sex means nothing to me, I believe you are using the typical stereotype to define me. I haven't had sex but once since Aug. 2011, not an issue. I am old enough and busy enough to not be worried about sex everyday. Yes a woman needs to know that my baby comes first and I have had plenty of women tell me the same, up front. I do not dwell on the fact when I converse with a potential mate. They are just selfish and want some weiner and to go on their way. You see, the women I date, I don't sleep with. Unless it is progressing, I make them wait. Almost every single woman I have invited to my house for dinner think they are gettin some at the end of the night. I invite them over for talk time and getting to know each other. Women leave and don't come back when I don't give 'em what they wanted, SEX. Plain and simple. It's like now a days if you don't try to put it in them immediately, they move on to a penis they can have when they want it. Kinda sound like a typical guy??? Well women think they need to act like men that are dogs to be equal. They are not equal, they are also dogs, slutty dogs. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 4902345 United States 02/06/2012 12:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We should find nice islamic girls or 3rd world Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10056367 catholic girls who know their place ? Cause us guys are all great catches that a smart girl should be grateful to have . . . . I cannot agree with women who "know their place" as I truly respect women. Their place is what they make it. That is up to them as it is anybody's choice. I want one who makes myself and OUR children, priority. I do not care if she holds a full time job, I can cover all we need. If I am willing to hold a full time job and help raise another woman's child, which I did for 6 yrs prior to having my own child, then they should be willing to do the same for love and happiness. And yes there are plenty of guys like me, because I am friends with another guy going through the same issue. We are great guys and some woman out there is hecka missing out. OP, thank you for not being psycho and vicious like some of the other posters here. I do believe that you respect women and just want to find someone who will love and cherish you and your daughter, but you do need to look at yourself. What could you do differently to find a good woman? Because we are out there, I assure you. And when you find one, how can you make it easier for her to embrace your child as her own - that really is a lot to ask of anyone. You will find someone, it will just take time. Please just make sure she really loves you both, and won't sudedenly turn on your daughter should she have her "own" child with you, like my stemother did to me... It is hard, and I truly wish the best for you and your daughter. Thank you I appreciate the wishes. I am doing my best, I am a regular Christian man, waiting for my angel. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2122560 United States 02/06/2012 12:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | also what sort of woman are you looking for? if its a young pretty one you may have to settle more for the personality. A more mature lady that has more compassion and even one that has children of her own. So to sum it up where are you looking for this woman? Just like women with children, they have to look more for a man with a good heart than a man who looks in the mirror and his little black book. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 8376119 Germany 02/06/2012 12:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My issue with women now a days, is that they have shown me nothing but narcissism Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4902345 That about sums it up, bro. You must realize, US women have become similar to the rage Zombies in 28 Days Later. That's what I compare them to, anyhow. They have an infection. YOU cannot cure this infection; no one can. Don't even bother with trying to figure out how they got that way; they did, and they are now damaged goods. As a poster above stated, it's like those shows Real Housewives of Whatever city... They are materialistic, narcissistic, backstabbing, and will wreck you and your kid and anyone else who gets in their way of riches and the whoredom club. This is largely a North American phenomenon thing, but it IS spreading. There are still good women in Europe, east and west, and Russia and Asia and S. America. If you are really looking for a woman, look in one of those places. US women are a lost cause. Once a zombie has the infection, well, you know.... I hope this info helps you. You are either insane or seriously pissed off about the last woman who wronged you... I assure you, there are PLENTY of good women here in the U.S. You and all the other woman-bashers on this thread should ask yourselves: What am I doing wrong that I only attract narcissistic "whores". What could I do differently to find and attract a good woman? But I'm sure you'll just keep belittling us with your inaccurate generalizations rather than try to solve your problem. This is an example of an American infected with the Rage Virus. Do not ever consider dating someone like this. Danger. |