Hi rosie80, good to see you are still following this thread, and apparently becoming actively interested in the subject.
Also thank you for your link.
Might I ask how your family members are at this time, I truely hope they are well and that there was nothing really too concerning with them, also might I also ask if you followed my suggestions and also to what extent.
This might sound a little confronting for me to request this type of feedback, but my reasoning is simple.
When I made those suggestions, I had no idea of the impact I was having, so what I would like to know is, what I need to learn, in order for me to be effective when I do make those type of suggestions to complete strangers, that is my reasoning.
If you think that its a bit intrusinve, as even I probably would, feel completely free to dissmiss my request, I will completely understand and there is no harm done.
Many thanks and stay well.