Why does the crap happen to the nice people??? Don't know I'll have to ask when I find one

But jokes aside, I think it is because we can handle it, learn/grow from it & whilst it may upset us at the time or even for awhile, we can ultimately move on from it. I believe this ^^^ is what makes us good people. You can also call people out using good old niceness & simple english, makes the angry screamers look like fools.

Really enjoying your threads & company Arkay