My mom is being fleeced by her boyfriend! What to do??? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 9781493 02/11/2012 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My uncle did this to his mother, my grandmother. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8046554 We found out like you from the bank statements. He took 120k all her money over 3 years. When we started asking questions he fled the country. She died 1 year later and he skipped the funeral obviously. Not much you can do OP. Just learn for yourself that about 20% of the population at least will and do take advantage of the vulnerable. It's human nature. So remember this in the future for yourself and If you have another elderly relative or a sister watch out for them more closely in the future too. Sorry about your situation. NO its not HUman behavior. HUman does not do that. Man does however. And its repugnant. do something to get this man from getting her money legally. there are laws. Maybe you can be granted legal custodian. your a woman right fuck off with your feminist bullshit and go fuck a cucember if men are so unbearable |
| Betsy_B User ID: 3390778 02/11/2012 06:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out my 81 year old mother is being used by this asshole and he is taking all her money. I saw her bank statement and he charges anything he wants to her account, over a thousand just in January! Quoting: bigD111 I plan on confronting her about it, but not sure what else I can do. Legally. Any good advice out there? Anybody been through something similar. The guy is in his 60's. Is this elder abuse? Confront your mother about this man. Have you done any investigating of this man such as criminal checks? You have to sit your mother down and explain to her your fears and the consequences of them being realized. Your mother has lived to be 82 years old and she may outlive you so she need to understand that her assets are worth protecting if she's to continue surviving comfortably. If your mother continue allowing this man to take advantage of her financially you might have to get power of attorney over her estate so as to prevent financial ruin. |
| Betsy_B User ID: 3390778 02/11/2012 06:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out my 81 year old mother is being used by this asshole and he is taking all her money. I saw her bank statement and he charges anything he wants to her account, over a thousand just in January! Quoting: bigD111 I plan on confronting her about it, but not sure what else I can do. Legally. Any good advice out there? Anybody been through something similar. The guy is in his 60's. Is this elder abuse? Confront your mother about this man. Have you done any investigating of this man such as criminal checks? You have to sit your mother down and explain to her your fears and the consequences of them being realized. Your mother has lived to be 82 years old and she may outlive you so she need to understand that her assets are worth protecting if she's to continue surviving comfortably. If your mother continue allowing this man to take advantage of her financially you might have to get power of attorney over her estate so as to prevent financial ruin. Correction 81 years old. It's fraud if your mother has been declared incompetent and he was there preying on her financially. |
| ***DRAGOON*** User ID: 1072087 02/11/2012 07:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out my 81 year old mother is being used by this asshole and he is taking all her money. I saw her bank statement and he charges anything he wants to her account, over a thousand just in January! Quoting: bigD111 I plan on confronting her about it, but not sure what else I can do. Legally. Any good advice out there? Anybody been through something similar. The guy is in his 60's. Is this elder abuse? Not trying to be funny here, but Your Mother sounds like an "Very Mature" Cougar But it truly sounds like the Boyfriend found his "Sugar-Momma" |