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What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??

 
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Why don't you explain it to me, then?

I'm not disagreeing with the OP, btw. I don't have much use for most women who use men for their paychecks.

I spent the first 20 years of my adult life working like crazy -- in the military, and all thru school. I studiedday and night for years, just to get an engineering degree. Never once did I need welfare or food stamps. Never once was I ever with a man for what he could buy for me. That said, I did date some rich guys, but because they were f***ing smart as hell and I admired them.

Most women I see who are financially dependent creatures, are manipulative, two-faced and not people I want in my life. It's like their being dependent on another person for support corrupts some womens' personalitites.

My husband is the poorest guy I dated in a long time. When I met him, he was only making $55K. He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy. I could have been much better off financially with some other men I've dated.

I suppose that if I didn't meet my husband, I would have married one of the wealthier men. But not because they were wealthy, but because they were great guys. The more successful ones tend to be pretty smart.

But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it.
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^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly
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Why does it offend you that I don't consider us wealthy? We're not.

I'm with my husband because he's a very special man.

No, I would not be married to any random guy who makes what he makes, it's not like I need some random guy as a husband. I spent all my life working, and if I really needed to, I could support my husband, not vice versa. If i really wanted more money, I can make it myself. I have a professional degree.

I'm a woman who can choose to marry for love and not because I need a man to support me.
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putin

Another female with a selective reading comprehension problem, it was clear what he meant to everyone else.
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My husband is the poorest guy I dated in a long time. When I met him, he was only making $55K. He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy. I could have been much better off financially with some other men I've dated.

I suppose that if I didn't meet my husband, I would have married one of the wealthier men. But not because they were wealthy, but because they were great guys. The more successful ones tend to be pretty smart.

But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it.
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^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly
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Why does it offend you that I don't consider us wealthy? We're not.

I'm with my husband because he's a very special man.

No, I would not be married to any random guy who makes what he makes, it's not like I need some random guy as a husband. I spent all my life working, and if I really needed to, I could support my husband, not vice versa. If i really wanted more money, I can make it myself. I have a professional degree.

I'm a woman who can choose to marry for love and not because I need a man to support me.
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putin

Another female with a selective reading comprehension problem, it was clear what he meant to everyone else.
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Realism vs. Pessimism. Some men don't want to hear "not wealthy" but monetary wealth and being top 1%er is actually 300,000+/yr income. If they aren't making that much, in this current economy, they are for all purposes, not "wealthy." It's a statement of fact based on derived social data. If you lack information on that data, you would be pessimistic about what "wealthy" currently means, in this day and age.

As she said, she doesn't consider them wealthy, and she's quite happy with the situation. You aren't? Guess who needs to grow up? It's not really your position to worry about her ideals and her thoughts and facts on her own situation, now is it?
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No, I love my husband.

Thanks for seeing that ;)

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^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly
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That's what I got from it too, and I got the feeling she would leave him eventually, or even cuckold him, in fact.
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I don't need to cheat on a man, I'm not one of those girly-girl airhead dependent females who need a man to keep me alive. Those women cheat because they want more pleasure than what their marriages give them, but they don't want to give up their husband's paychecks.

The nice thing about not being a dependent female, and being able to support myself if I want, is that I don't have to resort to manipulation, undermining and cheating to control some man while using him for support.

Marrying for love, and not for a financial codependent reason, is a luxury, and one that I worked hard for. No, we're not wealthy, but that's not really important to me. If you're a "liberated" female, you don't need so many external things, like expensive shoes and nice cars, to feel some self-worth. Nor do you have to go around gossiping about other women, to fight for status.
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Alright, alright, maybe you are one of the golden exceptions, I'll bet the house you aren't from the coasts where Sodom is on one coast and Gomorrah is on the other.
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Re: What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??
I don't want anything from men....just companionship in this life does nicely and any sentient creature offers THAT!

Men are useful for fixing cars tho'...lol!
(I actually can fix my own car - im a tomboylipstickgal ;-))

Tho' it's pretty obvious what men want from women...eh!!!!

(MY GOD Will that EVER change?! ;-))

Having worked on building sites for most of my career i have a good handle on men....they're very sweet...natter like women...gossip and bitch about oneanother...in fact they remind me of women!! LOL! Truly!

YET...I prefer men...they can 'cope' with life better...women freak -out at the smallest things. Myself included...although i wish i wouldn't seems i'm pre-programmed.

I particularly admire a man's ability to take-on stress...i am always learning how to deal with stress from men, not women.

Women generally want a man who supports the things they wish to achieve in life.
There are some women who don't want to achieve anything but a rich man and kids to tie him down with. Like an insurance policy. Women have become more shallow financially.

I'm tha last person to comment really as i really hate the 'gender divide' socially...hence why i'm at a building site making history for women's competence instead of an office filing my nails!

(BE the change you want to experience in life)
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Since I posted in this thread yesterday, I also thought of something else...some of you guys talking about women who only want you for your money, shoes, etc..think about this and think about this honestly......when you first met those women, didn't they look high maintenance from the beginning? Hair done all nice, nails long and polished, clothes, make-up..they looked "hot" to you? Possibly met them in a bar? There are women who are on the prowl just for a man who can give them material things, no doubt about that. They probably came off as strong in their wants and needs from the get go, yes? That is a huge WARNING!! Probably set up house keeping in your house really quick..leaving stuff behind when they left so they had a reason to come back?? Usually has a sob story about dudes treating them badly when they do so much for them...cooking, cleaning, blah, blah, blah..sometimes still in a relationship they are "trying" to get out of???

This is not to imply that women who take care of themselves and look nice are all like this...not at all..but...there are signs you should look for.
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The single guys out there are single because all the womyn they meet are like that, so in a way, those guys are forced to be alone for things that aren't even his fault, the coastal areas of the states are the worst for these parasitic womyn.
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True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
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Why don't you explain it to me, then?

I'm not disagreeing with the OP, btw. I don't have much use for most women who use men for their paychecks.

I spent the first 20 years of my adult life working like crazy -- in the military, and all thru school. I studiedday and night for years, just to get an engineering degree. Never once did I need welfare or food stamps. Never once was I ever with a man for what he could buy for me. That said, I did date some rich guys, but because they were f***ing smart as hell and I admired them.

Most women I see who are financially dependent creatures, are manipulative, two-faced and not people I want in my life. It's like their being dependent on another person for support corrupts some womens' personalitites.

...


^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly
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Why does it offend you that I don't consider us wealthy? We're not.

I'm with my husband because he's a very special man.

No, I would not be married to any random guy who makes what he makes, it's not like I need some random guy as a husband. I spent all my life working, and if I really needed to, I could support my husband, not vice versa. If i really wanted more money, I can make it myself. I have a professional degree.

I'm a woman who can choose to marry for love and not because I need a man to support me.
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putin

Another female with a selective reading comprehension problem, it was clear what he meant to everyone else.
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I made that post before reading your other post, my apologies.
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Re: What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??
Since I posted in this thread yesterday, I also thought of something else...some of you guys talking about women who only want you for your money, shoes, etc..think about this and think about this honestly......when you first met those women, didn't they look high maintenance from the beginning? Hair done all nice, nails long and polished, clothes, make-up..they looked "hot" to you? Possibly met them in a bar? There are women who are on the prowl just for a man who can give them material things, no doubt about that. They probably came off as strong in their wants and needs from the get go, yes? That is a huge WARNING!! Probably set up house keeping in your house really quick..leaving stuff behind when they left so they had a reason to come back?? Usually has a sob story about dudes treating them badly when they do so much for them...cooking, cleaning, blah, blah, blah..sometimes still in a relationship they are "trying" to get out of???

This is not to imply that women who take care of themselves and look nice are all like this...not at all..but...there are signs you should look for.
 Quoting: aBiNoRmAl


The single guys out there are single because all the womyn they meet are like that, so in a way, those guys are forced to be alone for things that aren't even his fault, the coastal areas of the states are the worst for these parasitic womyn.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5570859

True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
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Since I posted in this thread yesterday, I also thought of something else...some of you guys talking about women who only want you for your money, shoes, etc..think about this and think about this honestly......when you first met those women, didn't they look high maintenance from the beginning? Hair done all nice, nails long and polished, clothes, make-up..they looked "hot" to you? Possibly met them in a bar? There are women who are on the prowl just for a man who can give them material things, no doubt about that. They probably came off as strong in their wants and needs from the get go, yes? That is a huge WARNING!! Probably set up house keeping in your house really quick..leaving stuff behind when they left so they had a reason to come back?? Usually has a sob story about dudes treating them badly when they do so much for them...cooking, cleaning, blah, blah, blah..sometimes still in a relationship they are "trying" to get out of???

This is not to imply that women who take care of themselves and look nice are all like this...not at all..but...there are signs you should look for.
 Quoting: aBiNoRmAl


The single guys out there are single because all the womyn they meet are like that, so in a way, those guys are forced to be alone for things that aren't even his fault, the coastal areas of the states are the worst for these parasitic womyn.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5570859

True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
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A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators.
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This is so true. Fathers are a vital part of a child's development. The absence of a father makes both boys and girls more likely to use drugs, alcohol, or become involved in gang-related activities. I would encourage everybody to watch the movie Courageous. It gives a great demonstration of this.

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"What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his soul?" - Galatians 5: 22-23
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Since I posted in this thread yesterday, I also thought of something else...some of you guys talking about women who only want you for your money, shoes, etc..think about this and think about this honestly......when you first met those women, didn't they look high maintenance from the beginning? Hair done all nice, nails long and polished, clothes, make-up..they looked "hot" to you? Possibly met them in a bar? There are women who are on the prowl just for a man who can give them material things, no doubt about that. They probably came off as strong in their wants and needs from the get go, yes? That is a huge WARNING!! Probably set up house keeping in your house really quick..leaving stuff behind when they left so they had a reason to come back?? Usually has a sob story about dudes treating them badly when they do so much for them...cooking, cleaning, blah, blah, blah..sometimes still in a relationship they are "trying" to get out of???

This is not to imply that women who take care of themselves and look nice are all like this...not at all..but...there are signs you should look for.
 Quoting: aBiNoRmAl


The single guys out there are single because all the womyn they meet are like that, so in a way, those guys are forced to be alone for things that aren't even his fault, the coastal areas of the states are the worst for these parasitic womyn.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5570859

True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
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By the way, everything I posted in this thread is true and what I witness in my daily life, but a lot of people don't like hearing truth and like fluffy lies, so they pretend I am a cuckoo, but it is they who need need reality checks.
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The single guys out there are single because all the womyn they meet are like that, so in a way, those guys are forced to be alone for things that aren't even his fault, the coastal areas of the states are the worst for these parasitic womyn.
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True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
 Quoting: aBiNoRmAl

A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators.
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This is so true. Fathers are a vital part of a child's development. The absence of a father makes both boys and girls more likely to use drugs, alcohol, or become involved in gang-related activities. I would encourage everybody to watch the movie Courageous. It gives a great demonstration of this.
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Thank you, Dease, will look for it.
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"A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators."

If it is any consolation, AC, a lot of women are having a hard time, too..especially when most men automatically assume the woman is just out for his paycheck. I do not think it will get any better or change..I have learned many lessons in life and learned a lot more by being "one of the guys"...and I took the time to know myself and be honest with myself and to stop thinking I needed a man to complete me or make me happy.(do not misunderstand me, I love men and enjoy being with them, I just do not think my life will end if I do not have one..) I am self reliant, independent, know my strengths and weaknesses, and am always honest. Most people do not really want the truth, but, I will not say something unless I know it to be true. I often tell people who ask me something..." Do not ask unless you really want to hear what I am going to say because I will not lie."...I have encountered many men who did not know how to take me because I told the truth. It kind of freaked them out. They were not used to it. That is sad. Men lie to women, too, tho. Like I said before..TRUST, without it there is nothing. I do not want an illusion, I want reality. Reality, whether good or bad, I can handle. Life, to most people, has turned into mind games and what you can get mentalities..I do not think it can be fixed at this point. Not in our lifetimes.
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True...it is hard to find a "keeper" whether it be male or female..But, when some men are looking for trophy women, they will get all it entails..Personally, nothing turns me on more than a man who will not change to "please" me. If I could change him, I would not want him. A man who could kick ass if need be, who makes me feel safe, who lets me be the woman and I know he is the man. The world is backwards, nowadays..women are the provider(in some cases) and have had to take on the role of a man. Too much sex/children with no marriage, no responsibility...our morals and values have changed and so has the world we live in..100 years ago, men were men. Women were women. Children grew up in 2 parent households. The man worked and the woman took care of the kids and house. The man made decisions(I am sure they talked to their wives but the ultimate decision came from the man.)The man was responsible for the money making, the debt, the stress of their livelihood ..men are not allowed to be men, anymore. Very sad thing. A lot of guys do not even know who their dad is and if they do, he is not a role model for anything positive..that creates what you are now seeing. :(
 Quoting: aBiNoRmAl

A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5570859


This is so true. Fathers are a vital part of a child's development. The absence of a father makes both boys and girls more likely to use drugs, alcohol, or become involved in gang-related activities. I would encourage everybody to watch the movie Courageous. It gives a great demonstration of this.
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Thank you, Dease, will look for it.
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No prob.hf
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"What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his soul?" - Galatians 5: 22-23
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Womyn hate truth, post the truth and watch the personal attacks come hurling at you, this country needs to put guys in charge again.
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That's funny. Now you want to be in charge again. Dude, go put your sport shirt on, get your chips and pop out and go sit in front of the TV like a good boy.
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Womyn hate truth, post the truth and watch the personal attacks come hurling at you, this country needs to put guys in charge again.
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Again? Has it ever not been in charge mostly by men? Or did the presidency, the senate and house flip to female control this afternoon when I wasn't watching the news?
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^this is a good example of what is wrong with the mentality of some women.

"He's making better money now, but we're still not wealthy."- disgusting

"But my husband is a very special guy. He's worth it." - this woman makes it sound like she is really making a sacrifice for her charity case- how ugly
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That's what I got from it too, and I got the feeling she would leave him eventually, or even cuckold him, in fact.
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I don't need to cheat on a man, I'm not one of those girly-girl airhead dependent females who need a man to keep me alive. Those women cheat because they want more pleasure than what their marriages give them, but they don't want to give up their husband's paychecks.

The nice thing about not being a dependent female, and being able to support myself if I want, is that I don't have to resort to manipulation, undermining and cheating to control some man while using him for support.

Marrying for love, and not for a financial codependent reason, is a luxury, and one that I worked hard for. No, we're not wealthy, but that's not really important to me. If you're a "liberated" female, you don't need so many external things, like expensive shoes and nice cars, to feel some self-worth. Nor do you have to go around gossiping about other women, to fight for status.
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Alright, alright, maybe you are one of the golden exceptions, I'll bet the house you aren't from the coasts where Sodom is on one coast and Gomorrah is on the other.
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WOW.....

who knew? Here I thought I was a pretty cool girl with an excellent set of values. Then I read that I am apparantly.....

RAISED in Sodom...

Living in Gomorrah...

I gotta start doing a better job of checking out a neighborhood before I move there....ROFLMFAO
Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice shame on me.
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Always men ask the wrong question. It is not about what women want, it is about being in tune with the rhythm of the universe.

Linguistics will never describe woman, because the linguistics were designed by patriarchs that put the left-brain mind in a box to describe .01% of the universe that made you think that is all there is.

All women know that the very moment you try to hold on to love, measure it, weigh it, control it, give it a price or a value.....you throw it away and the will to dominate spirals into the opposite of love, for love asks nothing and requires nothing.

Figure out the wind, the stars, the oceans, the mountains without wanting to conquer them and then ask the question.
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cheers
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Women are the same as the fucking government, they are the enemy and should be treated as such.
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Always men ask the wrong question. It is not about what women want, it is about being in tune with the rhythm of the universe.

Linguistics will never describe woman, because the linguistics were designed by patriarchs that put the left-brain mind in a box to describe .01% of the universe that made you think that is all there is.

All women know that the very moment you try to hold on to love, measure it, weigh it, control it, give it a price or a value.....you throw it away and the will to dominate spirals into the opposite of love, for love asks nothing and requires nothing.

Figure out the wind, the stars, the oceans, the mountains without wanting to conquer them and then ask the question.
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cheers
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hf
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Womyn hate truth, post the truth and watch the personal attacks come hurling at you, this country needs to put guys in charge again.
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Again? Has it ever not been in charge mostly by men? Or did the presidency, the senate and house flip to female control this afternoon when I wasn't watching the news?
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The elites are in charge, and they used womyn to keep working class guys down with the feminist movement for superiority, the power for them to do unto others they would not want done unto themselves, and those same elites encourage womyn to be abusive and force otherwise decent guys into a life of solitude and nothingness, guys not in the top group were never in charge, and have been losing influence and little bit of power they had ever since, I get tired of having to point this out, am I going to have to point this out five more times?
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Womyn hate truth, post the truth and watch the personal attacks come hurling at you, this country needs to put guys in charge again.
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That's funny. Now you want to be in charge again. Dude, go put your sport shirt on, get your chips and pop out and go sit in front of the TV like a good boy.
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belittling comment, personal attack


It never ceases to amaze me how the personal attacks keep coming, but no proof is ever posted to show what I write is wrong, it's because they don't have a leg to stand on and are hoping one of their baseless attacks stick, sometimes I wonder if the the mind of the female from the states ever develops past the age of thirteen.
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Men are basic, simple creatures...they want 3 things....1)Acceptance of who they are...2)Sex...3) food...not necessarily in that order...they need to be men..they need to hunt(in more ways than one)..they need to be free to be men..if you try and contain their manliness, you end up with a boy...not a man...someone who will go behind your back and do all the things you are nagging and accusing him of doing...Give them their freedom and they will respect you and come home to you at night because they will want to...simple as that.!!!
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No it isn't. I did all of the above and what I got was:

1st Husband - didn't work, drank all day at the titty bar putting my money in some girls g-string.

2nd Husband - Became a meth addict before my very eyes and tried to hit on married women right in front of me and got mad and told me I was being ridiculous when I said something. Not denying he was trying to sleep with her but I was being stupid by not letting him.

3rd guy (I quit marrying) - Became a meth head and stole my car, would break into my house at night and turn all of the lights on which would wake me up when he left.

Needless to say, now I quit dating.

Life is much better now.

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No offense, but you did not have MEN..you had boys..you wasted yourself on unworthy boys..
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Like more and more women seem to do, there are lots of decent guys out there, but they apparently are not "exciting" or "entertaining" or "fun" or "powerful" enough. There are certain types of women out there that seem to have a talent or knack for being poor pickers of men. Am I the only guy who notices this phenomenon? A girl goes out, picks a "fun" guy, marries him, he is unable to focus. She is as unlikely to divorce him as if he were the violent type. A halfway intelligent (or sometimes otherwise quite intelligent woman) throws her life away by marrying a buffoon that she thought would be fun to have around. Life is not all parties and going out for dinner. You need to pick a more well-rounded guy, he may not be the flashiest, most expert at putting on a fake show, but he understands what is right and will not desert or mistreat. You're not marrying a man mainly for his abilities as a court jester or a puppy dog.

They may complain about how they have been left alone or abused, a big part of the problem was that they allowed themselves to be seduced by a man less than worthy of their respect. I do respect women who do not go that route, but continue to hear woeful tales of women that could have done far better or should have held out for a much more decent man. It also seems some women tend to be disposed to be attracted to men who can be jerks, and they themselves (women) will be jerks toward the nice guys who would have stood out in the rain and cut off their left arm just for the honor of being their husband. Those poor kind of guys get stomped on, frustrated, seen at best as friends, and at worst as stalkers by overreacting women.

Men will often overlook many little faults in a woman on purpose, ladies rarely offer the same deal, and when they do overlook flaws, it can be something dangerous to overlook! Such is the imperfection of emotion, be sure to couple your mind and emotion when selecting a mate.

Funny how women seem to shoot for guys that won't be interested in them and guys they shouldn't be interested in, I guess maybe guys do the same thing.

And then ignore the guys who are totally interested, roughly in their league, and would make a half-way decent compliment to her. I guess such are the laws of attraction, no logic needed to participate and for some people, logic is totally irrelevant to the equation, in fact the word 'equation' probably is completely the wrong word to use (too logical :)

I guess I should qualify my statement 'some women'. I imagine humans generally are good at wanting what they can't have? I suppose. When I say shoot for guys, I mean they aim too high and aim too low, neither is going to hit the target. And some will get married, then divorced because of it. And then there are those who marry the right person :)

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Womyn are not serious about having their abusers prosecuted or put in jail when they truly are battered and abused, in fact, they keep letting the abusive boyfriend or ex husband back on the premises despite any restraining order she may have against him, womyn are either batshit insane, evil, or both, but as long as drew breathe on this earth, womyn have never liked boring guys with routine lives.
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Unconditional acceptance of who we are as a person.
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Translated: I'm going to do whatever I want and you're going to change everything about yourself to mold your soul around my every unreasonable whim, so fuck your dreams, your pride, and your sexual identity, you are now my man-bitch and if you deny any of my demands or assert your own will, I'll dump you and make all my friends (who by the way are now your friends, since I ran off all the ones you used to have) think you're scum and everybody will hate you and think it's all your fault, including your whole family. Oh and I cheated on you. A lot.
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From my distant observation, being single, (tell me where I may be wrong here) it seems:

Yes, you follow her every demand with circumspect observation and she'll dump you for not being a man, (so says some commenters on this thread) and if you supposedly "be a man" and stand up to her, stand your ground with firmness, you are also in danger of being history (so says some commenters on this thread) Which is it ladies? My guess is, that depends, on the situation, how they feel, who they are dealing with, on and on. Fact is, those are two contradictory statements and states of being. Women are always a contradiction of opposing emotion (so it seems to guys). They always want some teeter-totter balance between the two and you're in the dog house if you can't do the high wire balancing act with a blindfold, an apple in one hand and an orange in the other (just creating a sad but comical scene of the common doomed man). Being rather 'tongue and cheek' with this last post.

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Ok, you want an honest answer from a woman, but I guarantee men will laugh and women will be pissed, but here it is..Women want a dangerous looking guy who walks into a room and owns it..not from being loud or talking all the time,but owns it because he emits POWER. They want a man who will throw them down on the bed and make them want him. NOT RAPE! Understand this...^^^ They want truth, honesty, loyalty..a hard worker they do not have to financially support unless, through no fault of his own, the man runs into hard times long after you have known each other...a man who is a MAN! Not someone they can walk all over..

Haven't you ever noticed that the women you have been with that bitched about everything and were never happy were women that walked all over you? Women who had changed you in certain ways? She stayed with you until something better came along. It was over the minute you changed and gave into her. They all want a MAN who will say no, who will take care of business and treat them with respect. TRUST is huge!! Without trust, you have nothing.
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That's very accurate.
They want a bad guy, it's just too bad a bad guy most likely ends up beating them up or dominate them into a submission slave. Then the womens usually realise a what really makes a good man and leave the sbusive one.
But by then they too worn out that nobody what them anymore or want to be part of a life with such a crazy ex-man cause the women had to have kids with him.
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Rhymes with Money.
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Hmmmm I think its the other way around some men wants what rhymes with money.
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Money,Money and Money.
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So what will they want when money is destroyed
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KILL THE $$$$$$

MONEY WAS THE MOST EVIL INVENTION IN ALL OF HISTORY, its done more HARM to the world THAN HITLER, STALIN, MAO, BUSH and OBAMA (just to name a few dictators) COMBINED. It has taken lives and DESTORYED the HOPE of 99% of the WORLDS PEOPLE. IT TIME TO
KILL THE $$$$

”I have watched the social values of society be reduced into a base artificiality of materialism and mindless consumption. And I have watched, as the monetary powers control the political structure of supposedly free societies. I’m 94 years old now, and I’m afraid my disposition is the same as it was 75 years ago. This shit’s got to go.” ~Jacque Fresco

KILL THE $$$$
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Or is it really just about the shoes, and good sex??

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You aholes always think you are gonna find a woman who wants your sex, like your sex is anything diff from what any other man is too willing to shove on us

Just buy us shoes and shut up.
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Re: What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??
I don't want anything from men....just companionship in this life does nicely and any sentient creature offers THAT!

Men are useful for fixing cars tho'...lol!
(I actually can fix my own car - im a tomboylipstickgal ;-))

Tho' it's pretty obvious what men want from women...eh!!!!

(MY GOD Will that EVER change?! ;-))

Having worked on building sites for most of my career i have a good handle on men....they're very sweet...natter like women...gossip and bitch about oneanother...in fact they remind me of women!! LOL! Truly!

YET...I prefer men...they can 'cope' with life better...women freak -out at the smallest things. Myself included...although i wish i wouldn't seems i'm pre-programmed.

I particularly admire a man's ability to take-on stress...i am always learning how to deal with stress from men, not women.

Women generally want a man who supports the things they wish to achieve in life.
There are some women who don't want to achieve anything but a rich man and kids to tie him down with. Like an insurance policy. Women have become more shallow financially.

I'm tha last person to comment really as i really hate the 'gender divide' socially...hence why i'm at a building site making history for women's competence instead of an office filing my nails!

(BE the change you want to experience in life)
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Insightful, thanks! But really, any ol' sentient being will do? And don't women want sex from men too, eh? Not all sentient beings can do the trick.

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