What women really want from men...the male point of view. What do you think ladies, any truth in this??

Realism vs. Pessimism. Some men don't want to hear "not wealthy" but monetary wealth and being top 1%er is actually 300,000+/yr income. If they aren't making that much, in this current economy, they are for all purposes, not "wealthy." It's a statement of fact based on derived social data. If you lack information on that data, you would be pessimistic about what "wealthy" currently means, in this day and age.

As she said, she doesn't consider them wealthy, and she's quite happy with the situation. You aren't? Guess who needs to grow up? It's not really your position to worry about her ideals and her thoughts and facts on her own situation, now is it?

No, I love my husband.

Thanks for seeing that ;)

I don't want anything from men....just companionship in this life does nicely and any sentient creature offers THAT!

Men are useful for fixing cars tho'...lol!
(I actually can fix my own car - im a tomboylipstickgal ;-))

Tho' it's pretty obvious what men want from women...eh!!!!

(MY GOD Will that EVER change?! ;-))

Having worked on building sites for most of my career i have a good handle on men....they're very sweet...natter like women...gossip and bitch about oneanother...in fact they remind me of women!! LOL! Truly!

YET...I prefer men...they can 'cope' with life better...women freak -out at the smallest things. Myself included...although i wish i wouldn't seems i'm pre-programmed.

I particularly admire a man's ability to take-on stress...i am always learning how to deal with stress from men, not women.

Women generally want a man who supports the things they wish to achieve in life.
There are some women who don't want to achieve anything but a rich man and kids to tie him down with. Like an insurance policy. Women have become more shallow financially.

I'm tha last person to comment really as i really hate the 'gender divide' socially...hence why i'm at a building site making history for women's competence instead of an office filing my nails!

(BE the change you want to experience in life)

I made that post before reading your other post, my apologies.

A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators.

This is so true. Fathers are a vital part of a child's development. The absence of a father makes both boys and girls more likely to use drugs, alcohol, or become involved in gang-related activities. I would encourage everybody to watch the movie Courageous. It gives a great demonstration of this.

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By the way, everything I posted in this thread is true and what I witness in my daily life, but a lot of people don't like hearing truth and like fluffy lies, so they pretend I am a cuckoo, but it is they who need need reality checks.

Thank you, Dease, will look for it.

"A lot of guys out there feel useless in contemporary society, the ones who keep their sanity are mere spectators."

If it is any consolation, AC, a lot of women are having a hard time, too..especially when most men automatically assume the woman is just out for his paycheck. I do not think it will get any better or change..I have learned many lessons in life and learned a lot more by being "one of the guys"...and I took the time to know myself and be honest with myself and to stop thinking I needed a man to complete me or make me happy.(do not misunderstand me, I love men and enjoy being with them, I just do not think my life will end if I do not have one..) I am self reliant, independent, know my strengths and weaknesses, and am always honest. Most people do not really want the truth, but, I will not say something unless I know it to be true. I often tell people who ask me something..." Do not ask unless you really want to hear what I am going to say because I will not lie."...I have encountered many men who did not know how to take me because I told the truth. It kind of freaked them out. They were not used to it. That is sad. Men lie to women, too, tho. Like I said before..TRUST, without it there is nothing. I do not want an illusion, I want reality. Reality, whether good or bad, I can handle. Life, to most people, has turned into mind games and what you can get mentalities..I do not think it can be fixed at this point. Not in our lifetimes.

No prob.

That's funny. Now you want to be in charge again. Dude, go put your sport shirt on, get your chips and pop out and go sit in front of the TV like a good boy.

Again? Has it ever not been in charge mostly by men? Or did the presidency, the senate and house flip to female control this afternoon when I wasn't watching the news?

a tool...............if your ride gets broken, rusty or dull; go get another one

WOW.....

who knew? Here I thought I was a pretty cool girl with an excellent set of values. Then I read that I am apparantly.....

RAISED in Sodom...

Living in Gomorrah...

I gotta start doing a better job of checking out a neighborhood before I move there....ROFLMFAO

Women are the same as the fucking government, they are the enemy and should be treated as such.

The elites are in charge, and they used womyn to keep working class guys down with the feminist movement for superiority, the power for them to do unto others they would not want done unto themselves, and those same elites encourage womyn to be abusive and force otherwise decent guys into a life of solitude and nothingness, guys not in the top group were never in charge, and have been losing influence and little bit of power they had ever since, I get tired of having to point this out, am I going to have to point this out five more times?

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It never ceases to amaze me how the personal attacks keep coming, but no proof is ever posted to show what I write is wrong, it's because they don't have a leg to stand on and are hoping one of their baseless attacks stick, sometimes I wonder if the the mind of the female from the states ever develops past the age of thirteen.

Like more and more women seem to do, there are lots of decent guys out there, but they apparently are not "exciting" or "entertaining" or "fun" or "powerful" enough. There are certain types of women out there that seem to have a talent or knack for being poor pickers of men. Am I the only guy who notices this phenomenon? A girl goes out, picks a "fun" guy, marries him, he is unable to focus. She is as unlikely to divorce him as if he were the violent type. A halfway intelligent (or sometimes otherwise quite intelligent woman) throws her life away by marrying a buffoon that she thought would be fun to have around. Life is not all parties and going out for dinner. You need to pick a more well-rounded guy, he may not be the flashiest, most expert at putting on a fake show, but he understands what is right and will not desert or mistreat. You're not marrying a man mainly for his abilities as a court jester or a puppy dog.

They may complain about how they have been left alone or abused, a big part of the problem was that they allowed themselves to be seduced by a man less than worthy of their respect. I do respect women who do not go that route, but continue to hear woeful tales of women that could have done far better or should have held out for a much more decent man. It also seems some women tend to be disposed to be attracted to men who can be jerks, and they themselves (women) will be jerks toward the nice guys who would have stood out in the rain and cut off their left arm just for the honor of being their husband. Those poor kind of guys get stomped on, frustrated, seen at best as friends, and at worst as stalkers by overreacting women.

Men will often overlook many little faults in a woman on purpose, ladies rarely offer the same deal, and when they do overlook flaws, it can be something dangerous to overlook! Such is the imperfection of emotion, be sure to couple your mind and emotion when selecting a mate.

Funny how women seem to shoot for guys that won't be interested in them and guys they shouldn't be interested in, I guess maybe guys do the same thing.

And then ignore the guys who are totally interested, roughly in their league, and would make a half-way decent compliment to her. I guess such are the laws of attraction, no logic needed to participate and for some people, logic is totally irrelevant to the equation, in fact the word 'equation' probably is completely the wrong word to use (too logical :)

I guess I should qualify my statement 'some women'. I imagine humans generally are good at wanting what they can't have? I suppose. When I say shoot for guys, I mean they aim too high and aim too low, neither is going to hit the target. And some will get married, then divorced because of it. And then there are those who marry the right person :)

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Womyn are not serious about having their abusers prosecuted or put in jail when they truly are battered and abused, in fact, they keep letting the abusive boyfriend or ex husband back on the premises despite any restraining order she may have against him, womyn are either batshit insane, evil, or both, but as long as drew breathe on this earth, womyn have never liked boring guys with routine lives.

From my distant observation, being single, (tell me where I may be wrong here) it seems:

Yes, you follow her every demand with circumspect observation and she'll dump you for not being a man, (so says some commenters on this thread) and if you supposedly "be a man" and stand up to her, stand your ground with firmness, you are also in danger of being history (so says some commenters on this thread) Which is it ladies? My guess is, that depends, on the situation, how they feel, who they are dealing with, on and on. Fact is, those are two contradictory statements and states of being. Women are always a contradiction of opposing emotion (so it seems to guys). They always want some teeter-totter balance between the two and you're in the dog house if you can't do the high wire balancing act with a blindfold, an apple in one hand and an orange in the other (just creating a sad but comical scene of the common doomed man). Being rather 'tongue and cheek' with this last post.

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That's very accurate.
They want a bad guy, it's just too bad a bad guy most likely ends up beating them up or dominate them into a submission slave. Then the womens usually realise a what really makes a good man and leave the sbusive one.
But by then they too worn out that nobody what them anymore or want to be part of a life with such a crazy ex-man cause the women had to have kids with him.

Hmmmm I think its the other way around some men wants what rhymes with money.

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So what will they want when money is destroyed

You aholes always think you are gonna find a woman who wants your sex, like your sex is anything diff from what any other man is too willing to shove on us

Just buy us shoes and shut up.

Insightful, thanks! But really, any ol' sentient being will do? And don't women want sex from men too, eh? Not all sentient beings can do the trick.

If we're going to buy you shoes, shouldn't we get something in return?