I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

No need to brag, OP. So, you've got it easy, good luck.

You are judging millions and millions of people. How do you know all these people? How is your behavior any better than the millions you are speaking against?

You're crying Tony, not your eyes. You're disassociating parts of your physical being from you as a person. They are all part of you. This is clearly a coping mechanism related to your impotence but only when you accept your penis as a part of 'you' will you be on the road to recovery with some of the good advice offered here.

Tony, did you see this thread?

Thread: WANT TO LIVE TO BE 100, PREVENT/CURE DISEASE, HAVE LOTS OF ENERGY? WANT TO CURE ALZHEIMERS, ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION?

Has links to youtube vids & a dr. who tells how to cure erectile dysfunction and other things base on mineral deficiencies.

Please check it out. Worth a try.

Hope you bookmarked your thread & check back! I'll try to bump this later tonight in hopes you'll see it.

Friends are not all that.

Are you sure it is physical and not psychological ??? I think you could really benefit from counseling OP , that would help your loneliness too and if it is psychological , it can be overcome . If its physical , I am not so sure .

Get some popsicle sticks.....

Tony, you need to accept the condition of your life, make peace with it, then learn how to love yourself. After you do this, love will come to you. A lot of women are not looking for the perfect partner, that does not exist, they just want a good one. Do not put so much pressure on yourself sexually, there are many ways to pleasure a female. Sorry for being so blunt, but educate yourself on some of the sexual things women enjoy besides just traditional sex. Your love interest will soon forget your impotency if you can amaze her with your oral skills. Many men over estimate the importance of sex to females. I have many friends who would chose a kind, loyal, funny, forgiving man thats impotent, than the opposite of above who is "hung."

Thankfully, i cannot sympathize with you seeing as i am a very healthy and sexually active male. However i want you to know my heart goes out to you.
Sharing physical affections with another is one of the most special and magical experiences this world has to offer.
My only & best suggestion is to NEVER give up looking for Doctors & Therapies that can help treat your condition.
Also try and be creative, look into oral sex techniques and adult toys to help enhances your sex life.
Working out and being active will help raise testosterone.

Last and MOST importantly remember this,

the MOST sexually attractive feature to females isn't a penis.....its Confidence, find something that boosts esteem and explore it.

Im so sorry you are suffering. Lots of women would be happy to date you regardless of any medical problems. Its not all about sex. You must trust and believe their will be someone out there for you, who will love you for you.

Take care and good luck.

Hi, Tony. I said I'd bump this tonight in hopes you'll come back to read the most recent posts.

Since I got laid off, lost my women, developed massive gum
disease, fell into deep depression, and no longer feel desire for
anything I've come to the conclusion that there is only one
solution; I'm sorry brother sun, sister moon.

I am writing from my phone and am necessarily limited to what I can write. That said, I want to thank you all for the support, encouragement, and suggestions. I trust God will help me find my path as I explore the great opportunities that life has to offer.

Things may not happen immediately but I trust that my future is bright. I just need patience.

Love you guys!

Tony you are never alone, if you let Jesus come into your heart. Ask the Heavenly Father for guidance. He will help you. God loves you just the way you are, try going to church and making some close friends, you might be surprised what the God has in store for you. I care and I will be praying for you.

cool story bro

Love you too! Keep up the good fight. You'll make it through this just fine.

Hey, don't you give up either! For the gum disease maybe unprocessed sea salt will help. There's been a couple of threads lately about it curing many things in both people and pets. Apparently a large percentage of people (and dogs & cats) are mineral deficient and unprocessed sea salt still has many other minerals in it besides salt.

And for the other things, job & woman, they will come again. Lots of people are going through hard times right now. You aren't alone - we just need to help each other to stay strong.

Why? Because you matter and are important, that's why! So the only solution is to lift yourself up and keep fighting. Don't let them when - the ones that try to keep you down.

GLP is here for you. I know people can get mean on here but maybe they are suffering also & lash out. For every one of the mean people there is 10 more that really do care here.

i'm happy that so many glp's have posted kind and positive things. tony you see people care, and the sex part is not so important. your freed up to wprk on your inner self without distraction.

Ooops, meant "win" not "when" in above post.

Hay man you might feel better if you stop thinking your a freak , YOUR NoT , this is sooo common , and its really no big deal after a while ive heard ...MAny say they feel FREE after a while they dont have that performance anxiety , feel like they owe it etc etc etc...dude i wasnt able for yrs and it was no big deal after a while evrythings rockin now tho, but it put it in prospective ya know???




Hang tough !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah whats they said bro about not all chicks are fiends ya know??? They would jus LOVE to have i guy who they can trust!!!!

Turn off the porn , dont know where that came from.

He does love you Tony, more then you can ever imagine. Feel free to email me, my email address is below in my signature line.

:knocking3693:

Get an implant do some bitch in the bung hole make her scream like a whore

Hey Toney..Its ok ..sex gets old also.. Just find something that else or someone that makes you happy and remember not everyone needs sex.

im not impotent but im so lonely it actually hurts sometimes

You're basing your depression on not having a FEMALE? So, does a female DEFINE whom you are?

Are you EVEN aware of the FREEDOM you have? I'm 39...celibate. Meaning...celibate BY CHOICE. Best move I ever made.

1. No nagging
2. no fights
3. no cheating
4. no wondering if they're cheating
5. no arguments
6. no adversary
7. no children (drain on emotions and finances)
8. no issues of them controlling where you go or what you do.

MOST of everyone I know who have girlfriends or wives ARE MISERABLE. They'd do ANYTHING to get their freedom back. And here you are depressed because there isn't an anchor keeping you down.

You've defined too much of who you are by the American IDEAL of romanticism and Disney movies.

Be YOU without having to have a woman to DEFINE YOU.

The loneliness thing.

It will peak,

then vanish forever.

actualy this^ could help. or there are many alternatives docs. just dont tell ur establishment docs about them cause they get all weird and many times woulnt see you if your taking alternative treatment. good luck.