Why are girls such bitches these days?

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"i predict men will continue to be assholes, greedy, and will always want more even if they have billions in the bank they won´t give a buck to a homeless person, yet they will say a prayer in church and say , god help the homeless while his pockets are bursting at the seems.
this disease is spreading and i don´t think it will ever go away. Men will act holier than thou, as though they are so great and perfect when all that lies underneath is the devil himself"


I predict that you are frustrated, trailer park trash, looking for a scapegoat for your miserable failed life.

Your disease is spreading, and I don´t think it will go away.

Perhaps if you learned proper grammar, capitalization, and punctuation skills, things might improve for you, and you can get in on those "billions".

You say I´m a bitch like it´s a bad thing.

Not enough panspermia in their diet, that´s my best guess...

Because we have to put up with the grade A bastards that call themselves men x x

#1371 is one of those that is doing nothing to improve the state of affairs on the planet, probably spends his time , spreading hate, instead of trying to do something, good, that is the truth isn´t it 1371, you are full of hate, and you will be smug and sound self righteous by telling me I am trailor trash, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM AND NOT PART OF THE SOLUTION!!! who cares about grammer stupid fuk

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"#1371 is one of those that is doing nothing to improve the state of affairs on the planet, probably spends his time , spreading hate, instead of trying to do something, good, that is the truth isn´t it 1371, you are full of hate, and you will be smug and sound self righteous by telling me I am trailor trash, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM AND NOT PART OF THE SOLUTION!!! who cares about grammer stupid fuk"


Yo... Oyster brain...

I rest my case. LOL...


You are the one full of hate, because you haven´t made anything of yourself. Go back and READ. YOU started it, with your whiney, sappy, pitiful hate-filled post. GO LOOK.

YOU are the one spreading hate. I say again.... GO LOOK at your post.


And you say:

"#1371 is one of those that is doing nothing to improve the state of affairs on the planet, probably spends his time , spreading hate, instead of trying to do something, good"


How do YOU know? All because I pointed out that you are a disgruntled loser? You did that quite nicely yourself, the minute you opened your mouth.

I gave about $25,000 to various charities last year, and will give more than that this year. How about you, Einstein?

I´ve done THOUSANDS of hours of vounteer work over the years.

YOU?

That´s EXACTLY what I thought. Get off the libraries computer, and Go crawl back to the trailer park you slithered out of.

A Modern Dating Tragedy: A Man´s Perspective

Women today are not giving us any cues that they want to be asked out,
and without some indication or encouragement that he might be well
received, a man is not going to risk the rejection—which men are far
more sensitive to than women evidently realize."

The days of men asking women out are gone! Women don´t even take the
time to do little unspoken things, that interest a man. Something basic
to our culture is being lost. No wonder so many women are so unhappy.


In fact, many men have come to think women don´t even like men, because
of the way women react to their initial overtures, yet, the women wonder
why men aren´t asking them out, they´re either not saying yes, or
they´re not sending the signals

One of the rarest qualities to find in a young woman today—at least
towards eligible men—was kindness. So many men are simply starving for
kindness from a woman but so often find sarcasm and cynicism instead.
One man commented to me on a climate nowadays of a prevailing hostility
among women towards men. It is easy for a man to feel that some women
are actually looking to find fault, ready to pounce on him at the
slightest ill-chosen word or misspoken comment. In women this can
manifest in self-righteousness, or a kind of assumed moral superiority
over men—often unconscious on their part. Men complain that they often
feel around women that they cannot win, or say or do anything right.
Such women drive men away.

Perhaps women today may have good reasons for these attitudes, but they
are very wounding to a man, especially to an interested man who is
serious, sincere, and sensitive. Such a man will not ask such a woman out.

He simply doesn´t want to be around it. I understand that in today´s
world it can be imprudent and even downright dangerous for a woman to be
too kind too soon to a man she doesn´t know well, and even then there
still is chance of betrayal. The Sexual Revolution has ruined it for
everyone as far as trust goes, but sarcasm and cynicism towards men have
become epidemic in our society, and it has become so ingrained, so
second-nature, that most women are not even conscious that they´re being
that way—but the men are. And they go the other way.

In terms of the risk factor, traditionally it has always been up to the
woman to control how far things went and how fast, and, if she liked
him, still keep the man captivated. In the confusion of the day that
that was perhaps one more thing that was lost, or at least severely
damaged. What has been lost,is an ancient womanly wisdom that women in
previous ages had always intuitively known, on how to "handle" (not
manipulate) a man—that is, how to anticipate him and keep him happy.

A modern woman might interpret this sort of thing as "game playing" but
it is not. It is a deadly serious business that holds civilization
together. Quails and pelicans have their mating rituals and dances and
so do humans.

We all know that women have a need, especially in marriage, to be
reassured that they are loved and cherished—they want to hear it. And a
man who thinks that his love ought to be self-evident is thought to be
rather obtuse in these matters. He should tell her he loves her often,
as well as show it on every possible occasion. Yet, a man has a
corresponding need for reassurance from the woman he loves, which
society tends to ridicule, especially since the rise of feminism. His
need is to be admired.

It is the way men are made.

A man needs to feel that he is a hero in the eyes of the woman he loves.
It may sound corny, and most men may not admit it, but real life is
corny, and it is true. It is from such admiration that a man derives his
strength. The quest for this admiration, either in the eyes of a
specific woman, or hoping to catch the eye of a woman, supplies him with
inspiration and motivation to serve and accomplish in his world.

There are women, thanks perhaps to the effects of feminism, who act as
though there were some sort of anathema against showing a man
admiration, as if to say, "I´m not going to feed his stupid ego!" But,
perhaps if his ego were fed once in a while he wouldn´t be in the state
of starvation that so diminishes a man as to prod him into the very ways
that women find so intolerable. The result is a seemingly endless cycle
of resentment and mutual punishment.

Many women appear to have unwittingly made it a point of pride to take
an unhealthy (if unconscious) pleasure in denying men what they most
need by reacting to them with sarcasm, cynicism, laughs at the expense
of men, and a general attitude derived from the world. Many of these
cynical attitudes towards men become self-fulfilling prophecies so
discouraging to a man that he may start to live down to the
belittlement, just as he would live up to praise were it offered. Male
ego only becomes a problem when it is undernourished. Properly fed, it
spends less time rebelling and trying to feed itself in unattractive and
self-defeating ways. Properly fed, it causes a man to strive to be the
best that he can be for the woman he loves and the society he serves.
Some women may take offense at what I´m saying here, as though I were
placing the whole onus of the problem on women.

I am not.

It is important not to confuse the generalities of politics and rhetoric
with the tender particularities of where we most essentially live. The
question at hand is why women aren´t getting asked out more often. This
is not an unimportant issue. It is important to remember that
contemporary society is under a profound malaise, with everything good,
pure, and holy coming under attack.
One of the chief things under attack is the family, the home. And if
family is under attack then it stands to reason that everything that
leads up to family—namely how men and women find each other—is also
under attack.

I have noticed that most women do not have the foggiest idea how men
feel, or what men feel, and most men feel too vulnerable to tell them.
Some women are so embittered as to no longer care. They may be beyond my
reach. In any case, the fact remains that I know men who have actually
given up on women—who have, after so many rebuffs, come to the
conclusion that women simply don´t like men.

Men are far more vulnerable to women than women can even imagine. Men
are sensitive to things in women that women are not even aware of. The
slightest bit of sarcasm from a women in whom he´s interested can cause
him to call off the whole pursuit. A woman who thinks this weak on the
man´s part simply doesn´t know how men are built and what men are
feeling these days. We live in a culture that sinfully exploits women,
but many women have retaliated by vengefully diminishing men with their
tongues and attitudes. There is much healing needed on both sides.

While not seeking a slavish dependence, a man needs to be needed by the
woman he loves, yet the constant message sent (ad nasuem) by the modern
woman is "I´m strong and independent! I don´t need a man!" Of course,
this is a hollow and defensive cry and betrays her bitter disappointment
in men—otherwise she wouldn´t need to announce it so much—but men hear
it at face value and retreat.

A man may admire a woman for her strong independent qualities, but let
her start telling him of them often enough and what he hears is "Well,
she doesn´t need me then!" and his eye begins to wander in search of
someone who does. A man may respect a women for her independence, but he
will cherish and love her for appreciating and needing (and in so doing
bringing out) his manliness.

If a woman were to ask my advice on how to get a man interested in her,
I would tell her to pay attention to him. Listen to him. The world in
which a man lives is very cold and competitive, and when a woman creates
a safe place where a man may open himself up, it is usually irresistible
to him. But this requires reverence.

Should she show the slightest hint of ridicule over what he says, or
take him lightly he will turn to stone. Listen to what is important to
him, his hopes and dreams. Most men when they talk like this are rather
admirable and if she admires him she should not hide it. She need not
make a show of it—which he would see through—it must be real. If it is
authentic it is not "game playing", but honesty. If she were interested
in him in the first place that implies some admiration, doesn´t it? It
would be game playing not to admire him.

The old saying that men are only interested in "one thing" namely sex,
is cynical and false. Men who become that way do so because they have
given up on love and the hope that a woman would really receive him if
he did open up to her.

What does a man look for in a woman? In a word, a home. To a little
child, a woman (usually its mother) is a place. This is not to say a
thing. It is to say a home. And only a person can be a home. This is
what a man looks for in the woman who would be his wife. This is not to
say that it is her job to raise him—certainly not—but the shelter she
provides for him emotionally, where he may be himself, generally makes
him better, stronger, more of a man, and inspires him to provide for her
and shelter her physically. Indeed, to the point of laying down his life.

If a woman gives a man what he really needs—genuine interest,
understanding, and acceptance of him as he really is, he will ask her
out, and keep coming back for more.

Why is that special time of the month for women called P.M.S.?


Because Mad Cow Disease was already taken......

1371, i know, you should see little pissy missy´s threads where she keeps legitimizing her martyrdom by bragging about how she helps animals etc. that´s right, there are no male humans who rescue or help wild animals on planet earth.

strange, how it always seems Men start

these ´HATE´ threads,

look at the title of the thread....

You wonder why women are peeved

they don´t get enough abuse from listening to radio jocks howard stern and Leykis

you talk about how sensitive men are if women say anything negative toward a man???
Look at all women have to hear daily, hate directed toward them, you don´t think it hurts, that they would like to hear some kindness instead.

1532...

That was a fairly good piece. A little soft on the bitchbots, but, overall, a lot of truth in there.



And then there was this:

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"Because we have to put up with the grade A bastards that call themselves men x x"


Says who? Maybe you should stop dating the bad boys, you Rocket Scientist, you.

And then there´s this:

"You wonder why women are peeved
they don´t get enough abuse from listening to radio jocks howard stern and Leykis"


Seems to me, the women totally SUBMIT THEMSELVES to this degenerate, Howard Stern. They LOVE the idiot! LOL...


Leykis?

Definitely FAR too liberal for me, but he is right on when it comes to analyzing the pea-brains of women. He´s got their number, and they HATE him for it.

LOL @ U

agreed 1371. watching or listening to the howard stern show negates any and every argument the pissy-missy bitchbots can hurl at us.

1532, I just wanted to say what a beautiful and very poignant post. I don´t know if those were your own words, or someone elses, but it does not matter. There was much to be gleaned from it, and I certainly hope that others saw the shining gems of wisdom sprinked througout it´s contents.

If this was your work, then I must say that you have great insight into the workings of the male and female mind, as well as their innate and intricate differences.

Thank you so much for posting such a refreshing piece that gives much hope and instruction to both men and women.

Rexie:)

You don´t like my flower?

Women,I love em.

your right Momma Wolf, 1532´s post was awesome and right on the mark.

western women may be a majority , of the Ops opinion, but eastern women in the main havent been infected by the stupidty of legalised equality(just makes the lawyers rich anyway), in fact i would say if you want a loving caring mother of you children and a lover of her husband(if you are a provider) then i recommend China.

FHL, is that you???? you sly dog you!

>>"You wonder why women are peeved

they don´t get enough abuse from listening to radio jocks howard stern and Leykis..."<<

IMHO, men have been getting more than their share of abuse in this manner.

Ever watch a sitcom? Husbands are regularly portrayed as infantile dolts who don´t have a clue and can´t seem to stay out of trouble. Any "manly traits" the husbands may have are superficial, stereotypical, exaggerated to the point of being over-the-top... and these traits are subjected to much ridicule and viewed as "a problem that needs to be fixed". Meanwhile, the wives are beautiful, responsible and smart, obviously wear the pants in the family, and spend a great deal of time bailing their idiotic husbands out of trouble. And, if they have children, the kids tend to have much more respect for the mother than they do for their dolt of a father.

I´ve seen more and more male-bashing happening in commercials too. I find it all very irritating and don´t blame men one bit when they get ticked-off about it.

As for women being such bitches these days: I have to admit that it´s true (and I am a woman, BTW). I´ve seen this trend on the increase with my own eyes. I´ve never seen such a bunch of hateful, ungrateful, whiny, arrogant, jaded, hostile, and downright bitchy women in all my life! Would it really kill them to smile once in a while? Or to thank a man for holding a door open for them? Or to say a single kind word to a man?

These women don´t even know what they want. They dress like streetwalkers then complain that men are only interested in "one thing". They turn their noses up to and spurn good men, actively seek out every lowlife in town, then complain that they can´t find a "nice guy". These women are clearly insane (after all, isn´t the definition of insanity "doing the same thing over and over again but expecting to get different results"?).

If they didnt have a pussy, there would be a bounty on them.

not my work...

found it here and here

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imo many woman tend to label the men in their into three completely seperate roles. the man tends to either be a father, brother or he is a lover/spouse. in doing this many woman fail to recognize that inside every man, at any given time, is the eternal coexistance of all three of these types of men. so in doing this the compassion a woman would feel for her brother or father in a time of need turns into unmet expectations of her lover/spouse making communication at a spiritual level impossibble.


Give a little bit
Give a little bit of your love to me
Give a little bit
I´ll give a little bit of my love to you
There´s so much that we need to share
So send a smile and show you care

I´ll give a little bit
I´ll give a little bit of my life for you
So give a little bit
Give a little bit of your time to me
See the man with the lonely eyes
Take his hand, you´ll be surprised

Give a little bit
Give a little bit of your love to me
I´ll give a little bit of my life for you
Now´s the time that we need to share
So find yourself, we´re on our way back home

Going home
Don´t you need to feel at home?
Oh yeah, we gotta sing

love that song, by both the bands that have sung it.

6883 is really ´a man´´ posting this

"I knew it. My ex-wife and son are both Pisces. You guys are sooo very sensitive. I am very sensitive as well. Pisces, often times have a tendency to let themselves be abused and you are prone to abusing yourselves as well. "

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And Pisces are also abusive, themselves; comes from their fear of powerlessness. Stingy, too!

BUT ..... to answer the question. I believe if men weren´t such bastards themselves, the ladies would respond much better.

"Water seeks its own level". Think about it.

imagine if all the people on this planet, even if it´s for only one day, made a conscious effort to embrace the idea of creating "better days" instead of just expecting them.

i´m on a goo goo dolls kick lately and their new song gives me such a feeling of hope for all of humankind.

Artist: Goo Goo Dolls
Album: Unknown
Title: Better Days

And you ask me what I want this year
And I try to make this kind and clear
Just a chance that maybe we´ll find better days
Cuz I don´t need boxes wrapped in strings
And desire and love and empty things
Just a chance that maybe we´ll find better days

So take these words
And sing out loud
Cuz everyone is forgiven now
Cuz tonight´s the night the world begins again

And it´s someplace simple where we could live
And something only you can give
And thats faith and trust and peace while we´re alive
And the one poor child that saved this world


And there´s 10 million more who probably could
If we all just stopped and said a prayer for them

So take these words
And sing out loud
Cuz everyone is forgiven now
Cuz tonight´s the night the world begins again

I wish everyone was loved tonight
And somehow stop this fight
Just a chance that maybe we´ll find better days

So take these words
And sing out loud
Cuz everyone is forgiven now
Cuz tonight´s the night the world begins again
Cuz tonight´s the night the world begins again