Why are girls such bitches these days? | |
Dr Strange nli User ID: 18750 United States 11/09/2005 12:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7019 Canada 11/09/2005 12:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because men want sweet lovable women and when the women turn out to be actually sweet and lovable, the guy thinks she has an ulterior motive and sets out to destroy her. So, he uses and abuses her trying to make her act like the "bitch" he thinks she really must be. Least thatīs what happened to me. Now I am the psycho bitch from hell. |
Swaggart User ID: 1270 United States 11/09/2005 12:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | " Now I am the psycho bitch from hell." yes you are. and apparently you cannot take responsibility for it yourself. so by blaming a man for YOUR OWN bitchiness you can clear your own guilty conscience and any social responsibility you will have in the future. how convenient accept how YOU are acting and own it. donīt blame your male counterpart. hell if heīs that bad get the hellout of the relationship, marriage or whatever. this is why so many men lose respect for women and call yīall bitches, cunts, whores, sluts, etc. Grow the fuck up little girl! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18071 United States 11/09/2005 01:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7019 Canada 11/09/2005 01:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 1. Lied to me. 2. Beat me. 3. Cheated on me. 4. Spread rumours about ME afterwards. When he was the one cheating. 5. Made me lose my job. 6. Never gave me a card on Christmas, let alone a gift and bought his girlfriend one. 7. Got drunk and physically hurt me during sex. 8. Betrayed me numerous times, in serious ways. I was sweet and innocent until this man came along. So,,,,I ask you....who needs to grow up? AND SWAGGART>...has anyone done this to you? |
ashesand sackcloth User ID: 182 United States 11/09/2005 01:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lots of double standards if you ask me. For example-----> My money is our money but her money is her money. Want you to be committed while they talk about men in thier past and current flurting with others. Want to spend more time with you but seem to be dedicated to a career that keeps them away. Just rambling I guess. Pretty much have the world by the ass donīt they. |
Swaggart User ID: 1270 United States 11/09/2005 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Swaggart! Suck my dick! This is what my male counterpart did to me....when all I did was love him. If your wife has done any of this to you, then you can talk! 1. Lied to me. 2. Beat me. 3. Cheated on me. 4. Spread rumours about ME afterwards. When he was the one cheating. 5. Made me lose my job. 6. Never gave me a card on Christmas, let alone a gift and bought his girlfriend one. 7. Got drunk and physically hurt me during sex. 8. Betrayed me numerous times, in serious ways. I was sweet and innocent until this man came along. So,,,,I ask you....who needs to grow up? AND SWAGGART>...has anyone done this to you? ______________________________________________________________ As a matter of fact yes, almost every single thing you mentioned. all the more reason to get away from him. i feel very, very sorry for the suffering you endured, and it was not acceptable for him to do ANY of those things to you. HOWEVER, at the same time your situation is BY NO MEANS unique. This type of abusive relationship is all to common. Please examine what it is in yourself that unconciously moves you to seek out an abusive partner....without blaming yourself. It takes two to tango and iīd be willing to bet that the abuse and violence escalated in a progressive manner. Log in and PM me if you want to talk further. Take care and Love. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7019 Canada 11/09/2005 01:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I am glad to see you do have a small measure of kindness in your heart. I am sorry it happened to you as well. I will be ok but I am just in the beginning of recovery. I am trying to examine what in me attracted the relationship. It is alot of work. Peace. |
Momma Wolf User ID: 966 United States 11/09/2005 01:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Swaggart User ID: 1270 United States 11/09/2005 01:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | _____________________________________________________________ 10875.....what is your birth sign. not trying to hit on you. just curious. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7019 Canada 11/09/2005 01:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Swaggart User ID: 1270 United States 11/09/2005 02:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I knew it. My ex-wife and son are both Pisces. You guys are sooo very sensitive. I am very sensitive as well. Pisces, often times have a tendency to let themselves be abused and you are prone to abusing yourselves as well. See the connnection? There is a fine line between the two and because Pisceans alternate between being dual and non-dual, that between being abused and being the abuser is often line is often obscured. Also, you fish tend to personalize ALMOST EVERYTHING and have to make many things all about YOUR SUBJECTIVE emotional state. This can be incredibly emapthic and powerful or it can also be a selfish stae of narcisism. Try to pull it all into yourself in a grounded calm way and focus on your self by feeling and absorbing otherīs suffering. Transmute the self-centered sensitivity into strength by getting a calm hold on the onslaught of feelings that are ALWAYS present and turn it outwards and helping others. Donīt spread yourself too thin though. Start out by taking care of your own practical needs. I know, iīm Taurus. Then find someone who is worthy of your love and vice-versa. Then move on to sharing your gift with others. If you donīt you will always be caught in that flip-flopping duality and you comme off as being overly neurotic and passive-agressive. This will have tendency to make your partner resentful and not feel loved. Ironically this is probably how you feel. Right. Get it? Remember, Christ was born in the age of Pisces. His symbol is the fish. I know you are hurt and just want to be loved and not betrayed. I believe in you. You can do it! Love |
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10875 User ID: 11649 Canada 11/09/2005 02:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Swaggart, thank you for the thoughtful advice. I know Pisces are overly sensitive. I do not even think my ex even realizes half of the hurts he caused me because he did not perceive them that way. I am trying to the soul searching and work on myself. Your advice is very timely and very much appreciated. Thanks again |
Momma Wolf User ID: 966 United States 11/09/2005 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Just an observation User ID: 12331 United States 11/09/2005 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thereīs īdaytimeī twentysomethings and then the īnightowlī young adults Two different animals entirely You see them in the daytime, burb types in jeans and baseball caps, hair in ponytails, backpack on their shoulders, sturdily marching off to a class on campus somewhere. Or tiny and sleek, petite little asians with a violin case on their way to music lessons or instruction as a tutor The nightowls are very different. They have retail jobs in the daytime and barhop at night. They travel in packs, like shewolves and seem to have a cellphone permanently clasped to the side of their heads. Invariably dressed like classic streetwalkers in platforms and too much glitter. They talk way too loudly and screech quite a bit Whereas the studious ones pursuing a degree are almost invariably sitting at the laptop in the cafe with the wi fi, writing up a paper or have their nose and narrow glasses buried in a book. The woman you seek is a product of where you hang |
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preacher User ID: 6266 United States 11/09/2005 03:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | <<<if you want them to act like a lady treat them as such.you will find a better companion and friend>>>> this is such utter nonsense. in truth, it is the RARE INDIVIDUAL that finds another compatible person to be with, so MOST of the women(or men) you spend time with are going to end up hurting you or you hurt them. I have seen so many women who had great guys cheat like whores and then of course, blame it on the guy being "boring." guys donīt usually need a REASON to cheat, just the willingness. women RARELY take accountability for their actions, so almost always resort to blaming a man for their improprieties. this could be their nature or it could be the way they are brought up. in any event, women, especially AMERICAN women, are mentally ill these days. it is a sign of the times and we are heading deep into an abyss. woman has always been the center of life in the home, which is where families are raised and whole lives are constructed beginning with the basic foundation. These days, the foundations are built in sand, and the kids are becoming worse, and worse, growing into pathetic human beings which will likely never mature. Men, you need to take back control. Shun the women who donīt have "old fashioned values" and give the GOOD women a GOOD HOME! Treat her well, and it will repay you a thousand times over. it will also result in a stronger society and a better world. High maintenance modern women are nothing but mentally deficient selfish brats who are simply prostitutes of a different kind. You pay, and keep paying, and all you get in return is a little gratuitous sex and a bad attitude. Then, they will likely run off with a "bad boy" anyway! so men, BE A MAN! preacher |
Sheriff Swaggart User ID: 1270 United States 11/09/2005 03:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14580 United States 11/09/2005 04:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i predict men will continue to be assholes, greedy, and will always want more even if they have billions in the bank they won´t give a buck to a homeless person, yet they will say a prayer in church and say , god help the homeless while his pockets are bursting at the seems. this disease is spreading and i don´t think it will ever go away. Men will act holier than thou, as though they are so great and perfect when all that lies underneath is the devil himself |
Sinanju User ID: 33978 United States 11/09/2005 04:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Simple answer to a stupid question.. Because they choose to be. It all boils down to choice. I rarely get angry at my wife. I understand that she is thinking, feeling human being and it is her right to do as she sees fit. Now, if i could just get her to reciprocate. |
Thereīs one now! User ID: 922 United States 11/09/2005 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quote: "i predict men will continue to be assholes, greedy, and will always want more even if they have billions in the bank they won´t give a buck to a homeless person, yet they will say a prayer in church and say , god help the homeless while his pockets are bursting at the seems. this disease is spreading and i don´t think it will ever go away. Men will act holier than thou, as though they are so great and perfect when all that lies underneath is the devil himself" I predict that you are frustrated, trailer park trash, looking for a scapegoat for your miserable failed life. Your disease is spreading, and I donīt think it will go away. Perhaps if you learned proper grammar, capitalization, and punctuation skills, things might improve for you, and you can get in on those "billions". |