excitement or stability, you aren´t going to get both, for the most part... when given the choice, most women choose excitement, and get burnt from it. When they do choose stability, just plain and simple love and family doesn´t seem to be enough for them, they end up cheating then blame the man for being "boring" ....

So is the cause cultural, or just built into our genes? Is there a real solution? Me personally, I go by the David Hawkins line that everything is as it should be and people can´t help being the way they are, so there really isn´t a problem at all. When one steps back from their positionalities they´ll see that people tend to like the melodrama of their lives.