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The key here?


They moved in to YOUR HOUSE.


End of story.


You don't like them sleeping together, lay the law down that they don't.


If you get backlash, kindly remind everyone that they're living under your roof on your dime.


Sounds to me like your GF is nothing but an old leech and she's ruining your home area with her weakness.
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03/09/2012 08:54 PM
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time for you to move dude- you have diff. values than your partner, so it won't work anyway-just sayin'.nanni2
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03/09/2012 08:56 PM
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When it comes down to differences in parenting styles, that's when it spells trouble for the couple and it's usually never a good outcome in the end.

Here's a suggestion OP, tell your girlfriend that her daughter can sleepover at her boyfriend's place, but not your house. If she still opposes your rules, then you've got to make a decision.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11542196


I agree, its not really about the daughter but about your relationship with the mother. If you have been together 4 years and this is an issue you feel strongly about so you be able to come to a resolution with her.

If she won't change her mind and you cannot, then it has become a deal breaker.
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So none of you have any morals? You are making a whore of her mother living like that and yet complain when the kids want to do the same thing you are doing.

Sounds like a trashy bunch to me. Grow a pair and set an example for all of them. Isn't that what men are supposed to do?
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Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11476378


When life gives you lemons, make lemonade friend.

Wait until her daughter turns 18 and then fuck her and her mom silly! Duh.
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03/09/2012 09:29 PM
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My first reaction was 'lesbo'. My second thought was if anybody's hittin' it in your house, it should be YOU.
Plenty of good replies here. Good luck OP.
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03/09/2012 09:55 PM
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You're a hypocrite.

1) Divorced - failed at being a husband
2) Living with someone - your example is consistent with how these teens are living.

You have no moral ground. Start living right yourself and then worry about others.
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03/09/2012 10:39 PM
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Quit judging the fucking guy. Who cares if he's divorced?! Most marriages are total bullshit and are only bonded by money, kids, and lies. He came here for some advice not for unfounded elitist insults.
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03/09/2012 10:48 PM
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Sounds like a monkey see monkey do situation. She sees mom shacking up so why can't she?
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+1
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she can't because she isn't an adult and neither her nor her boyfriend are paying the bills. there's a difference in the situation
 Quoting: John Everytard


She's 17...that's legal in most states. It's her choice, not his. Being under his roof has nothing to do with it, that's just some dude thinking he needs to have control over other people. If you don't like it kick em out if it's really your house. Mind your business.
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03/09/2012 11:14 PM
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You need to have a man-to-man with the bf and put some fear into him. Let him know its your house and your rules and you will have your eye on him. You cant really do anything about the mother-daughter thing, the mom will always try to please her daughter before you and its too late for her to start raising her daughter the way she shouldve been raised.
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03/09/2012 11:47 PM
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sounds like you got played by your girlfriend and her daughter for a place to live.pussy will do that to a man,lol.
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03/09/2012 11:50 PM
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Get in there and show her how handle to some real man meat, not some 17 year old kid.


She'll soon stop inviting him over and jump into bed with you instead. WIN WIN.
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03/10/2012 12:02 AM
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Wow, Nice reversal there. Can't tell you'r a woman. Make it all the guys' fault. Never mind that his GF has FAILED at a marriage too and is the one who's under-aged daughter is the one fucking under this man's roof all the while he has two youngsters? You're messed-up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12179291


It is the man's place to ask her to marry him.......be a man and ask!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12243419


Yeah, I'm sure he wants to do that again. Lose half of the half or less that he got from his previous divorce! Lol. Anyway, has it occurred to you that maybe he and the his GF already had this conversation and said Hell no!?
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Then if he has such high "non-liberal" views he should not have moved in with his gf. What is that saying to his two daughters???
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12243419


Mmmm?...That I learned "quick" from your mother not to let another woman fuck me over and take half of everything I worked my whole entire adult life for? So, I will NEVER marry again? True story...met my 1st gf I had when we were like 14yrs old back in the day...haven't seen her in like 30yrs. Accidently ran into her at a store the other week...I asked her how her sister was doing too? She told me that here sister has been married 8 Fucking times so far and looking to divorce again!!!!I said let me guess and she's well-off financially now too after taking half from everyone on of here husbands, right? She said "yeah" :( True story.
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03/10/2012 12:06 AM
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First of all GLP is rough place to ask for advice like this...so expect some off the wall bullshit, with that said...

Sounds like the adult gf doesn't want the confrontation with the daughter over the situation. Maybe there's some component where she thinks it's going to happen anyway and choose the battle, maybe she doesn't really care, whatever. Either way it is not a good situation to be exposing your much younger daughters to, so it seems like you're trying to be a responsible dad for them. The gf is using her leverage by saying "maybe we'll move out" maybe I'm a hardass, but at that point my response would have been something like, "You won't have to think about it, you're done, pack up and GTFO" Girlfriends come and go, your daughters are your family, do the right thing by them.

Sounds like you need to make a stand. There isn't going to be any screwing around in your house with a 17 year old chick and some dude because you have your young daughters to think about. Be a man about it and that is that. The gf will either appreciate and understand, or she isn't worth having as a gf and you're better off with them heading down the road.
 Quoting: SHR


Well said SHR. I can't believe I agree w/you on something lol. But your'e 100% right on the money on this one! I wouldve told her the samething too. At the moment she spoke those words...I would've said either one of two things
1)Here, I'll make it easier for ya...Get-out! or

2)There's NOTHING to think about. Get-out!
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Eventually everyone agrees with me on something...now YOUR SOUL IS MINE!....
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Sorry, I don't swing that way! ;)
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UPDATE:

First off, thank all of you for the awesome input, even the sarcastic the "get both of them" ones...gave me a good laugh.

It has been 4 months since I originally posted this query and I actually had forgotten to check back. I am amazed at the number of responses that said to kick them out. Well, I didn't have too. I went away for three days and when I came home they had moved out. Coincidently, it happened as soon as the daughter graduated. I am so glad that they left. I'll admit that I learned that I was making a mistake and setting a bad example by moving in a woman whom I was not married too. I did give her an engagement ring to make it seem honest.

Funny thing about it all, is that she left without telling me. She called me and told me. She couldn't face me, and when I asked for the ring back, she had to give it to her daughter to bring back. She has not returned any calls, gave no return address on pictures she mailed back to me. What a cad.

All that being said I still am cycling through the grief associated with the ending of a 4 year relationship. It gets better each day, but it will take a while. Time for some "me" time to learn, grow and become better for it.

I learned quite a bit about myself and her, I hope that some of you can learn from my experience. Thanks again for all the
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Thanks for the update OP, interesting!

Glad to hear you're doing well!
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03/30/2013 10:19 PM
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Divorced - failed at being a husband
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Divorced doesn't necessarily mean a man failed at being a husband. It could mean the guy was an excellent husband and chose his spouse poorly because the woman failed at being a wife (for example, during their marriage she cheated on the guy multiple times with many different men).
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03/30/2013 10:38 PM
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Re: Girlfriends daughter and her boyfriend sleeping together...need input
Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11476378




uuuuuuuuh how'd YOU EXPLAIN this woman and her kid MOVING INTO YOUR HOME to your children ?

c'mon man,wake the F UP.
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Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.
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Give them 4 weeks notice to leave.
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UPDATE:

First off, thank all of you for the awesome input, even the sarcastic the "get both of them" ones...gave me a good laugh.

It has been 4 months since I originally posted this query and I actually had forgotten to check back. I am amazed at the number of responses that said to kick them out. Well, I didn't have too. I went away for three days and when I came home they had moved out. Coincidently, it happened as soon as the daughter graduated. I am so glad that they left. I'll admit that I learned that I was making a mistake and setting a bad example by moving in a woman whom I was not married too. I did give her an engagement ring to make it seem honest.

Funny thing about it all, is that she left without telling me. She called me and told me. She couldn't face me, and when I asked for the ring back, she had to give it to her daughter to bring back. She has not returned any calls, gave no return address on pictures she mailed back to me. What a cad.

All that being said I still am cycling through the grief associated with the ending of a 4 year relationship. It gets better each day, but it will take a while. Time for some "me" time to learn, grow and become better for it.

I learned quite a bit about myself and her, I hope that some of you can learn from my experience. Thanks again for all the
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Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11476378


They moved into YOUR house. Lay down the law. Don't compromise your morals for pussy.
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03/30/2013 10:52 PM
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The key here?


They moved in to YOUR HOUSE.


End of story.


You don't like them sleeping together, lay the law down that they don't.


If you get backlash, kindly remind everyone that they're living under your roof on your dime.


Sounds to me like your GF is nothing but an old leech and she's ruining your home area with her weakness.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious


Shit MO, we said almost the exact same thing. You creep me out.
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03/30/2013 10:52 PM
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Want some input?

Mind your own fucking business. You are just some guy to the daughter, and if I were fucking her, I'd put you in your place.
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Kick that bitch to the curb bro. She's an immoral failure as a parent.
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Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much.

I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out.

Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11476378


If you are posting on GLP to get advice on how to run a family you are a sick fucking piece of shit.

Fuck off.

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03/30/2013 11:22 PM

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My parents were very strict about me having someone of the opposite sex in my room with the door closed, they wouldn't allow it.

I lived at home a bit past 18 as well, so it wasn't an age thing. It wasn't even a religious thing, they just didn't want that crap to go on in their house and, although it made things terribly inconvenient at times, I respected their wishes. Their house. They had no obligation to house me past 16 or whatever it is.

Your house, your rules. And it's certainly a reasonable thing to ask them not to engage in such things in your home.
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03/30/2013 11:28 PM
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Funny thing about it all, is that she left without telling me. She called me and told me. She couldn't face me, and when I asked for the ring back, she had to give it to her daughter to bring back. She has not returned any calls, gave no return address on pictures she mailed back to me. What a cad.

 Quoting: Single and Loving it! 11476378




Don't grieve over that trash brother.
Only a whore would foster their 17 year old daughter's whore-life.

She (the mother) was living vicariously through her slut daughter.
The daughter brought you the ring back because the mother was a cheat.

Classic cheater move.

They're probably both with new meat for now.

Be glad for your own daughters, that the whore-examples are out of their lives for good.
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03/30/2013 11:31 PM
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I know she does.
She'll probably get some input too.pigchef
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Want some input?

Mind your own fucking business. You are just some guy to the daughter, and if I were fucking her, I'd put you in your place.
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No you wouldn't. You talk big but when the man that pays for the roof over the head of the 17 year old slut you're nailing tells you to STFU, you will back down. Probably smoke some weed, mumble to yourself about how lucky he was that people were around and then do some passive-aggressive shit.
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#1 Your GF saying well maybe they need to move out should be a huge red flag.

#2 If you find it unacceptable, don't allow it.

#3 Her daughter is going to get pregnant, and guess where her and the kid are going to live?

#4 Bad example for your daughters.
 Quoting: DoomDonkey


All of the above, especially number one.... Seems if her daughter can't have sex with her boyfriend in the next room then the Mother falls out of love with YOU!

weird.... You'd think the Mother would want a PRIVATE place to have her relationship with you.. not one with her daughter and stud in the next room listening?

weirdy weird...

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