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Girlfriends daughter and her boyfriend sleeping together...need input | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11476378  United States03/09/2012 12:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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JimBomB  User ID: 11560881 United States03/09/2012 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Noneya business if it not your daughter! I'd be botherd bye it too. Your request for when your girls are there is fair.  For those that DON'T approve of my use of memes --- FO! YOU ARE THE MACHINE [link to youtu.be (secure)] [link to youtu.be] |
| Sedi User ID: 1552632 United States03/09/2012 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was the young boyfriend in this scenario. Single mother with multiple children. I'm not sure how it came to be but eventually i was living with them and sleeping with the daughter. Once their grand parents came to visit for a few weeks, grandpa was furious and had my ass out on the curb first thing. As an adult, I can see why and would in no way condone this. Is this from the want from the divorced mother to have a man in the house? Who knows, but from what you have said, it just might be. I'm pretty amazed she told you that she would move out because of it. Good luck on whatever you decide OP. |
| pigshark User ID: 1518596 United States03/09/2012 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 12225823 United States03/09/2012 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7984224  Canada03/09/2012 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it were HER house, I would stay out of it. It wouldn't be any of your business. Since it is your house, lay down the rules. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 889193 Yup this! Go figure as to why society is such a mess these days.. Unless you want that TV show 16 and pregnant filming at your house I would definitely be laying down the law... your daughters will be next if you don't! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1389579 United States03/09/2012 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| BoboTheHobo User ID: 1599791 United States03/09/2012 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a monkey see monkey do situation. She sees mom shacking up so why can't she? If your gf is threatening to terminate the relationship over this then you probably should throw the towel in.  An expert is someone who knows more and more about less and less until eventually they know everything about nothing ~ Anonymous |
| !!! User ID: 1310640 United States03/09/2012 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Fuhrer D User ID: 3916316 United States03/09/2012 01:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 12226371 United States03/09/2012 01:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3025357 United States03/09/2012 01:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1310640 United States03/09/2012 01:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First you aren't setting the best example. Quoting: Fuhrer D Second, it is your house, your rules. If they don't like it, send them on their way. Where are his parents anyway? some boy coming into your home to steal a bit of fluff, will on his way out decide to take some of your own stuff. If you werent worried about steady snatch, would you still be a perfect match? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6630717 Canada03/09/2012 01:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| closing eyes User ID: 1530062 United States03/09/2012 01:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| John Everytard User ID: 5027429 United States03/09/2012 01:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | don't let it happen. If they want to have the luxury of living together as a couple then they need to have jobs and be paying for their living arrangements. If your gf has a problem with it, tell her she can geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet oooooooooout! |
| John Everytard User ID: 5027429 United States03/09/2012 01:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 8417061 United States03/09/2012 01:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 10838308 Canada03/09/2012 01:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Muzzle User ID: 11552059 United States03/09/2012 01:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whoever is paying the bills on the house/utilities gets to decide who sleeps there. If the girl-friend and family is paying anything, you're just one vote. In his book, "Between Two Ages," Brzezinski wrote: "The technetronic era involves the gradual appearance of a more controlled society. Such a society would be dominated by an elite, unrestrained by traditional values." MuzzleBreak |
| BoboTheHobo User ID: 1599791 United States03/09/2012 01:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a monkey see monkey do situation. She sees mom shacking up so why can't she? Quoting: BoboTheHobo +1 she can't because she isn't an adult and neither her nor her boyfriend are paying the bills. there's a difference in the situation As a father I agree it's different, but the daughter doesn't see it as any different. The teenage mind likes to leave out important facts. An expert is someone who knows more and more about less and less until eventually they know everything about nothing ~ Anonymous |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 10838308 Canada03/09/2012 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a monkey see monkey do situation. She sees mom shacking up so why can't she? Quoting: BoboTheHobo Hmm, she can, out of HIS fucking house. He's not the one in the wrong here, he's accepting these strangers in his home, he's f'in 47 what he does is his business and nobody can tell him what passes and what doesn't in HIS home. It's normal he's worried and if he doesn't do anything, soon his daughters will be following in the footsteps of the other one and oh boy that point, imagine if he said NO to them?!? That would be double standard. Kick'em the fuck out, this is typical I'm trying to take over your house thing, starts with that ans ends, God knows where, fug-it you don't need that shit. Your daughters are more important. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11425781  France03/09/2012 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some background: I am 47 and my girlfriend is 46. We are both divorced and have been dating for almost 4 years. She and her daughter (17) moved in to my house almost a year ago. Problem: she, my girlfriend, feels it is ok for her daughters boyfriend (of 5 months) to spend night with her in her room...door closed. I have two girls 13 and 15. They are with me half of any given week. I told my girlfriend it is NO WAY acceptable for them to sleep together when my kids are here. I hate to even allow them to sleep together when my kids are not here, but I have acquiesced because she is my girlfriends daughter and don't want to violate boundaries too much. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11476378 I told my gf recently that I don't want them sleeping together at all in my house and she said well maybe we need to move out. Finally...don't give me the "they are going to have sex no matter" story...it's not about that...its about my "non liberal" view of two young people "shacking" up at my house...playing house. What's wrong with a girl sleeping with his boyfriend ? Did you not sleep with your girlfriend at the time ? You want to be the only one who fucks under "your" roof ? You probably anal fuck your GF on the kitchen table while watching the "best of youporn" but suddenly you remember your "conservative values" ? You conservativeTARDS are really makes me wonder, like those priests fucking 9 year old boys while forgiving your sins in the name of god. You have a problem OP, not the daughter of your GF. :Chatdanse1: |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 10838308 Canada03/09/2012 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a monkey see monkey do situation. She sees mom shacking up so why can't she? Quoting: BoboTheHobo +1 she can't because she isn't an adult and neither her nor her boyfriend are paying the bills. there's a difference in the situation As a father I agree it's different, but the daughter doesn't see it as any different. The teenage mind likes to leave out important facts. This is a case of do what I say not what I do, cause I said so... You ain't happy, move out, pay your shit and do wtf you want. Who cares what she f'in thinks, it's not her house, she pays for shit all, and just going out on a limb here, probably doesn't contribute anything for the household anyway. |
